Yup I remember sometimes going on a date and I'd feel so nervous or stress over contacting them after the date because I was a one woman at a time . Feeling like crap if it never worked out etc. Ever since I started meh I don't owe anyone anything and going out left right and center no more nerves or those feelings.
Meh oh it didn't work out no biggie have another date tomorrow. Just going out relaxed for a good time if she's cool great if not no worries.
Also the power you gain if you want to be exclusive and get with someone. You won't just settle because hey it's the only girl that likes me .
Exactly. It also that variety in women that in turn in my opinion completes to the concept of High Value Men.
Like it took me a while to figure out my critique of Kevin Samuels version because he was right by technical definition but I always felt it was over reliant on the idea of wealth being tied to a man’s value. Specifically because there are men with money who don’t approach women correctly.
You got the EGO trip men They think that money gives them control of p*ssy, which is false. You can’t buy a woman who doesn’t want to be bought, just like you can’t romance a woman who doesn’t want to be romanced, or fukk a woman who doesn’t want to be fukked. They self sabotage and then say “see I am a man with all this stuff, all women are bad, because I can’t get this type of woman who isn’t right for me, but I want”.
Another condition is the Rich SIMP that think that their money should be offered for a single woman regardless of who she is or how they get along (aka marrying the first bad chick they get with). There was a story about one of the Central Park five victims marrying Deelishus. His excuse in my mind is he is in many ways behind regarding women because of his time in jail, but there are a lot of men who do the same thing and have no excuse. They have money and go from one bad relationship to the other never being happy for long and in many cases losing their wealth in divorces.
Then worst of all are well off men who are lonely. They have money but are still scared of women. They never apply themselves to dating because they fear rejection. They don’t do what they need to do to enjoy their lives. They don’t make the effort to put their best foot forward to be attractive to women, or have a chance with women who would be attracted to them based on who they are as men.
Then I realized that while outwardly a man can be “high value” with money and prestige. If he does not value himself enough to be upfront with his wants and desires. He’s destined to fail and be miserable. A man’s got to value himself and his time most of all and having a rotation of women teaches men that.
No man can be successful in a relationship with out knowing how to enjoy the company of women by being enjoyable for women to be around. A man can’t be succesful with women unless he gains enough experience to know when to be honest or not with women, and if they choose honesty, then how to be honest with women, and most importantly to be honest with themselves about the fact that most women are just a pleasant distraction in their lives. They don’t bring any meaning or completion to a man’s life unless they get the perfect fit and that takes a lot of work, compromise, and luck.
Real talk It’s easier to keep a rotation than it is to find a woman who is keeper, and even if she is a keeper you got to know how to keep her on her toes by reminding her of your value. Knowing how it is to be a man with options teaches you that women want to be with a man based on certain conditions and they as a gender are often contractional with their love except for their children.
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