RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
The blame is shifted once the individual receives the information they needs yet still proceeds.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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NOSKI_DA_DON
Pro
Naw you can't help who u fall more and most if the time people don't really reveal their till afterwards
NOSKI_DA_DON
Pro
I agree 100%with this
Brandsdale
Big Yella
Who you choose to be with is all apart of your perception of love and healthy relationships. What you experience and seen in your life can truly guide your decision in which chics your decide to date.
Seeing a therapist or counselor can help you understand why you repeat these patterns and decisions and what you can do about em instead of dwelling.
Its not to say that anyone is necessary to blame tho, cause sometimes people of opposites can hit it off
but at some point you kinda need to make a stand in terms of what you will and wont put up with in regards to dating
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
Meh. Through life, you eventually see indicators in the women you should avoid. For those who are younger/green, it would be great for older cats to give game.
Due to my experiences, anytime a woman continuously harps on me being “different from what she’s used to” — gets immediately bush.
NOSKI_DA_DON
Pro
True but we all had to be f'd over for us to learn those indicators/signs
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
That’s the point bud.. if I know how the pain felt the first time why would I ignore the signs of it the 2nd?
BigBlackSea
All Star
Random thought I had while watching the Pineapple Show. Anyone think women do a kind of projection when they reject a dude? Like if they don't feel worthy of dude, they reject themselves by projecting their insecurities on to him. This vid I was watching, the girl was coming with all types of excuses, that almost felt like signaling. Dude's a square who's on the come up, and the girl sounds like a bird who rides the coattails of any celeb in LA. Maybe
So far I 've heard
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Breh's a young cat, and I think he's wet behind the ears, cause he was campaigning hard for her, despite all the redflags. She sounds like a mess, and she's telling him not to get involved. I gotta give her props for laying her cards on the table (in as clear a way as possible as far as women do), and letting him know what her business proposition was. Son's gotta grind a bit, maybe get his heart broken once or twice, and he'll be good,
So far I 've heard
- "You look young"
- "You far" (LA and Phoenix are only 5 hours away driving, but I can understand that)
- Breh only makes $35,000, though he's still in school and on his way to a doctorate
- 9:24 - "You don't need me, you want me." i.e. wake the fukk up simp, you lusting over a street girl busting it open the Hollywood nikkas
)Breh's a young cat, and I think he's wet behind the ears, cause he was campaigning hard for her, despite all the redflags. She sounds like a mess, and she's telling him not to get involved. I gotta give her props for laying her cards on the table (in as clear a way as possible as far as women do), and letting him know what her business proposition was. Son's gotta grind a bit, maybe get his heart broken once or twice, and he'll be good,
NOSKI_DA_DON
Pro
I know. I agree with you. I was speaking in general about choosing the wrong women
NOSKI_DA_DON
Pro
Of course... Especially ifhe's black...
#BOTHSIDES
All Star
Which works better? Being non chalant and putting in just enough effort OR instant responses (within 5-10 mins), pursuing with a bunch of chit chat (good morning, have a good day, etc) ?
I've been trynna find the right balance. I get girls who I'm not interested in... I barely put in any effort...maybe they just find me very handsome... but the ones I like and pursue I get ghosted... I try to be direct tho-- tellin them I want to see them...
Her: "what you doin this weekend?"
Me: "I'm trynna see you"
she'll heart the comment then I don't hear anything back... I'm like damn...
What's a good balance? remain laidback and aloof while also being upfront about your intentions or what?
I've been trynna find the right balance. I get girls who I'm not interested in... I barely put in any effort...maybe they just find me very handsome... but the ones I like and pursue I get ghosted... I try to be direct tho-- tellin them I want to see them...
Her: "what you doin this weekend?"
Me: "I'm trynna see you"
she'll heart the comment then I don't hear anything back... I'm like damn...
What's a good balance? remain laidback and aloof while also being upfront about your intentions or what?
Random thought I had while watching the Pineapple Show. Anyone think women do a kind of projection when they reject a dude? Like if they don't feel worthy of dude, they reject themselves by projecting their insecurities on to him. This vid I was watching, the girl was coming with all types of excuses, that almost felt like signaling. Dude's a square who's on the come up, and the girl sounds like a bird who rides the coattails of any celeb in LA. Maybe
So far I 've heard
7:15- She says I don't want to stop you from your dreams. That only felt like a warning like, "You're a good dude, on your way to great things. I have a kid, I'm in the streets with celebs doing God knows what, allegedly making 35,000 in three months but still needs financial help (she didn't say what she does though
- "You look young"
- "You far" (LA and Phoenix are only 5 hours away driving, but I can understand that)
- Breh only makes $35,000, though he's still in school and on his way to a doctorate
- 9:24 - "You don't need me, you want me." i.e. wake the fukk up simp, you lusting over a street girl busting it open the Hollywood nikkas
Breh's a young cat, and I think he's wet behind the ears, cause he was campaigning hard for her, despite all the redflags. She sounds like a mess, and she's telling him not to get involved. I gotta give her props for laying her cards on the table (in as clear a way as possible as far as women do), and letting him know what her business proposition was. Son's gotta grind a bit, maybe get his heart broken once or twice, and he'll be good,
How can you bear to watch those?
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
this is a good problem brehs should embrace, because it’s one I’ve ran into countless of time. Means you are entertaining trash and they’re letting you know that.
Instant response… waiting hours.. doesn’t matter if she ain’t feelin’ you
Why didn’t you have an activity lined up and offer her to join? Shordi probably read the shyt like “okay… well? Come see me”
Aloofness at the start then when chemistry is built up then you get direct.What's a good balance? remain laidback and aloof while also being upfront about your intentions or what?