I actually have no issues talking to women.. I get compliments all the time how I’m a good conversationalist
But I feel so awkward walking up and sparking up a convo
I’m better explaining things face to face or over phone if need be cuz sometimes txt or written stuff can be misconstrued but let me give it a shot cuz cold approach for me is just natural for me for a few reasons which may not apply too you but can be useful
I’m just gonna tell you what I’ve been told by all the women have said too me
Most importantly idgaf is one so it gives off the confidence vibe but also not cocky or creepy it’s a comfortable vibe
Eye contact is key and I smile too
I don’t feed bullshyt cuz some women can pick that up real quick and the convo won’t go anywhere
I keep it simple which most guys don’t
So if I see a good looking female I’ll say hi or excuse me as long as the setting is appropriate meaning by that is she don’t look pissed off or busy enough that no matter what u do is a No Go. You should be able to tell
After that the reason I go up to her is straight to the point I’ll compliment her but not in a way she would think because it’s honest I don’t wanna go up to a female cuz she just looks good I want something else that stands out and 95% time it’d cuz of her smile and I’ll say that but if I can’t see that and she just looks good then I’ll tell her that instead but usually i do it while she is doing something or has something I see I can add that with it
Ex:
Me : hi excuse me miss I just came over to say while I was walking your smile happen to catch my eye and I wanted to compliment you on how beautiful it is
With that 98% time they blush and say thank you and start a convo with me or also say they taken and I just keep it pushing
Now sometimes I say that same line but add this too it at the end of it
Hope you have a nice day
When I do that I legitimately do mean that and walk away cuz I’m not trying to shoot my shot just complimenting them and what happens sometimes they get flustered and call me back and things proceed from there
Now when I say if they are doing something or I see something I do this
Ex she is in the seasoning section
Oh that seasoning is pretty good but if use this seasoning it might be better you should try it out they will acknowledge and then I’ll say by the your beautiful or whatever is true to my liking I’ll say bout them and go from there
These are small tidbit I do with any female but I speak what I feel at that moment I don’t spit game I spit truth
I’ve approached women just complimenting their outfit then say something how they look
Ex
Excuse me miss that outfit you have on looks lovely on you (if she got shyt hanging out I won’t even do this approach so you know cuz it comes off creepy to women. So if she dressed slutty I don’t do this at all)
Now after I say that sometimes a convo will go from there
Overall: u gotta take your Ls to get better at it and keep it moving
Being honest bout what catches ur eye goes a long way as long as you don’t say ass and t*ts
These are small things I’ve done I don’t go saying same damn line to every women I see well at least unintentionally I don’t I try to find ways to start a convo that doesn’t always involve with complimenting too cuz it can show ur interested not just bout her looks too mix it up its trial and error till you find what works for you breh cuz what may work for me won’t work for you or others but giving u the basis as groundwork will help
