Bet she couldn't wait to tell you she wasn't blackTalking to my first non black girl, a Dominican. Let’s see how this goes
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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VertigoKnight
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Or was she going to play the good girl role and not sleep with him right away because she liked him?
He might have saved his time and $
Naw she was open to sleeping with him. At least 3rd date which for her is usually the cooking dinner indoors date.
I think he was trying to impress her with his accolades and stories.
He unknowingly talked himself out of it. Even messaged her saying he thought it was a great date. I've had that delusion before. But I've learnt my lesson.
I tend to find 60/40 works well.
“At Least Third” Lol he saved himself some $Naw she was open to sleeping with him. At least 3rd date which for her is usually the cooking dinner indoors date.
I think he was trying to impress her with his accolades and stories.
He unknowingly talked himself out of it. Even messaged her saying he thought it was a great date. I've had that delusion before. But I've learnt my lesson.
I tend to find 60/40 works well.
Brandsdale
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Brandsdale
Big Yella
Had dinner with 2 female friends one of them was telling me of her date on Saturday.
Guy she was very excited about it was the second date. His an archeologist, meets all her physical wants etc, And they decided to go for a hike followed by hanging at the beach.
Guy was the frontrunner out of all the guys she had just started to see, and he talked throughout the date about himself, asked no questions. Didn't let her talk or would interrupt. He just turned my friend off, they did the hike and went to the beach and this guy carried on talking about himself, even when he dropped her off he was still chatting about himself
Talked himself right out of another date and some puss.
One thing I’ve learnt I let these chicks talk and add commentary as and when needed. I like a good back and forth conversation.
I’ve talked myself out of a woman attraction before. Sometimes less is more.
Thats the thing lol Accomplished dudes intimidate Women at all levels. The weird thing is women cant keep up, yet the dude doesn't really care about anything the chick has going on even if he lobs her stuff.
The underlying thing is even having to do all this dumb ass shyt when folks only want sex lol.
It really is. I’m not at my 35-40 year old age of my career peak yet, but when I spoke to the BW from NOLA, and her asian friend, I tell them I’m studying three languages at the same time. Asian joint was like
& she was talking to me about Vietnamese. NOLA joint got all weird for some reason.
It really is. I’m not at my 35-40 year old age of my career peak yet, but when I spoke to the BW from NOLA, and her asian friend, I tell them I’m studying three languages at the same time. Asian joint was like
& she was talking to me about Vietnamese. NOLA joint got all weird for some reason.
a chick told me she went to look for new jobs after seeing my place.
If all you care about is p*ssy then honestly just play dumb, but eventually the social proof is still gonna show. The fact of the matter is when a dude lives a top lifestyle but is in a non traditional path such as sports, entertainment, illegal activity, it isn't intimidating because those are paths 99% of people cant and dont do. But when you live the good life and you did it via career, you gonna run into chicks who are intimidated because you got more than them and they question their lives OR chicks who are intimidated.
The way around this is only dealing with chicks who are highly sexually attracted to you BUT the insecurities are still going to linger, so chances are it may end up being a one night stand/short fling.
Now if you are a Queen Goddess I worship hoes ass simp, the chicks will run that boy friend game on you (while smashing someone who doesn't bring them shame in the mean time).
But honestly when you got shyt to lose, high volume p*ssy should not be a thing because each time you have sex you risking losing something (health, kids, crazy stalkers). So you shouldn't even trip because you are protecting your peace and seed.
George Gooney
AA GANG AA GANG AA GANG
Aight brehs I need y'all opinions on this.
@VertigoKnight @FireMikelArteta
So I've been seeing this girl for like 9 months now. Things are going good. She's in love with me and shows all the signs of a woman in love(Clingyness, Neediness, blows up my phone if i don't answer, always wants to kiss on me and make love etc etc etc.). Shes east african and her family is kinda conservative. One day we kicking it and we looking at eachother's IG pages and a video from last year caught my attention. In the video she's at a family event dancing with a family friend. The dancing was harmless, it was her and her sisters dancing in a circle and he was in the circle too. But something about the way they looked at eachother for like 2 seconds in the vid seemed "odd". So i asked her who this is and she's like hes just a family friend, their families been close for years etc etc. After doing some research Reincar style @FireMikelArteta "Trust But verify" 
I found out that that was true and their families were close and he's very cool with her older sisters, hes like 7-8 years older than my girl. So after my research I let it slide but something about it kept bothering me so when me and her weren't together I would go to my shawty's IG page and watch that video again. My instincts were trying to tell me something until one day i just asked my girl again and told her not to lie, did they have something going on and she said yes, they had a 2 month fling in the past before me and her met and none of their family knows about it because it would be shameful for her and her sisters would look at her crazy because theyre kinda conservative and hookup shyt is frowned upon. Apparently I'm the only person who knows about it. So obviously the family doesn't know anything about it and in the family's mind they're just "friends".
So im cool with the fam and they love me so the sisters throw a party at their crib and invite me, I show up but they invited dude also. He's been solid with her sisters for years. I never met dude before that day so he comes up to me and tries to shake my hand. Me being the nikka i am i just look at him crazy and dont accept the shake. Was I wrong? I feel like the sisters think I'm an a$$hole now but they dont know what I know and I don't want to be the one to expose my shawty past because we all have one but a part of me wants to be like yo don't come around here no more. That friendship shyt is dead but I'd be over stepping my boundaries. How would yall act in this situation? dude only pops up once in a blue when the fam throw a party or family get together but still I feel like that's too much Thoughts?
I found out that that was true and their families were close and he's very cool with her older sisters, hes like 7-8 years older than my girl. So after my research I let it slide but something about it kept bothering me so when me and her weren't together I would go to my shawty's IG page and watch that video again. My instincts were trying to tell me something until one day i just asked my girl again and told her not to lie, did they have something going on and she said yes, they had a 2 month fling in the past before me and her met and none of their family knows about it because it would be shameful for her and her sisters would look at her crazy because theyre kinda conservative and hookup shyt is frowned upon. Apparently I'm the only person who knows about it. So obviously the family doesn't know anything about it and in the family's mind they're just "friends".So im cool with the fam and they love me so the sisters throw a party at their crib and invite me, I show up but they invited dude also. He's been solid with her sisters for years. I never met dude before that day so he comes up to me and tries to shake my hand. Me being the nikka i am i just look at him crazy and dont accept the shake. Was I wrong? I feel like the sisters think I'm an a$$hole now but they dont know what I know and I don't want to be the one to expose my shawty past because we all have one but a part of me wants to be like yo don't come around here no more. That friendship shyt is dead but I'd be over stepping my boundaries. How would yall act in this situation? dude only pops up once in a blue when the fam throw a party or family get together but still I feel like that's too much Thoughts?
@VertigoKnight @FireMikelArteta
Hey Brehs,
How y’all let your misses know she should start working out more…
How y’all let your misses know she should start working out more…
George Gooney
AA GANG AA GANG AA GANG
start working out yourself.
VertigoKnight
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Bikes rides or walks. Maybe say you want both of you to work towards health goals.
I’m consistently in the gym….I’m pretty good shape..I figured she’d eventually start going since I am but nah….and we have a home gym…
George Gooney
AA GANG AA GANG AA GANG
Start complimenting thin in shape women in front of her but subliminally.I’m consistently in the gym….I’m pretty good shape..I figured she’d eventually start going since I am but nah….and we have a home gym…
VertigoKnight
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I’m consistently in the gym….I’m pretty good shape..I figured she’d eventually start going since I am but nah….and we have a home gym…
Ouch well then I think it’s best to be upfront and say you feel she could workout more with you.
Nothing worse than a woman letting herself slip and start piling on those pounds with no pushback.