lost 60+ lbs, focused on my career (got a cert and new job), took some solo trips, expanded the social circle, and worked on my mental/emotional
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Malik1time
What you looking at?
DTXwavey_02
All Star
Talking to my first non black girl, a Dominican. Let’s see how this goes
Brehs these hoes nasty as shyt
I need some shyt for the prompts.
Getting ready to relocate from Alabama to Columbus Georgia in the next couple months or so. I realize by coli standards it's not much, but for me it'll be a nice change of scenery and atmosphere (it's primarily a business move but being in new area with new potential prospects is also a nice bonus).
I'm treating it as a bit of a reset from a rather dull situation I've been in while in alabama.
Plan on renting a nice house, upgrading all of my furniture, wardrobe, etc and then getting out there and seeing what's what.
Gonna attempt to get out of my comfort zone a bit more. I'm not big on crowds and I'm a homebody/introvertype (very in my head) but that's really not going to help if you trying to get at these females in earnest. I'm sure not being a smoker or a drinker also isn't ideal with a lot of these females (I'm 31).
I'm a decent looking fella and I have pretty good success as far as matching on various dating apps (primarily from just selfie type photos). Although they really don't go anywhere because I don't put in the appropriate effort.
All in all though, I'm looking forward to the transition (also moved my brother in with me here in Alabama about 8 months ago trying to help him out and I'm looking forward to getting the privacy back).
I'm treating it as a bit of a reset from a rather dull situation I've been in while in alabama.
Plan on renting a nice house, upgrading all of my furniture, wardrobe, etc and then getting out there and seeing what's what.
Gonna attempt to get out of my comfort zone a bit more. I'm not big on crowds and I'm a homebody/introvertype (very in my head) but that's really not going to help if you trying to get at these females in earnest. I'm sure not being a smoker or a drinker also isn't ideal with a lot of these females (I'm 31).
I'm a decent looking fella and I have pretty good success as far as matching on various dating apps (primarily from just selfie type photos). Although they really don't go anywhere because I don't put in the appropriate effort.
All in all though, I'm looking forward to the transition (also moved my brother in with me here in Alabama about 8 months ago trying to help him out and I'm looking forward to getting the privacy back).
africngiant
All Star
“future milf”
“i can probably out smoke you”
“i can probably outdrink you”
“ttm nice”
“hit me with your best pickup line”
“make me laugh”
“dog mom”
“IMM A CAPRICORN”
“i can probably out smoke you”
“i can probably outdrink you”
“ttm nice”
“hit me with your best pickup line”
“make me laugh”
“dog mom”
“IMM A CAPRICORN”
Malik1time
What you looking at?
Similar situation I’m in…moved to Houston couple months ago but I barely go out and do stuff it’s either work/gym and occasionally a friends invite to the club
… time to get out my comfort zone and pick up some hobbiesIt sounds corny but I always wanted to get into skating forreal
NOSKI_DA_DON
Pro
I'm done falling for women in relationships.. ya boy always get his feelings hurt in the end
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Had dinner with 2 female friends one of them was telling me of her date on Saturday.
Guy she was very excited about it was the second date. His an archeologist, meets all her physical wants etc, And they decided to go for a hike followed by hanging at the beach.
Guy was the frontrunner out of all the guys she had just started to see, and he talked throughout the date about himself, asked no questions. Didn't let her talk or would interrupt. He just turned my friend off, they did the hike and went to the beach and this guy carried on talking about himself, even when he dropped her off he was still chatting about himself
Talked himself right out of another date and some puss.
One thing I’ve learnt I let these chicks talk and add commentary as and when needed. I like a good back and forth conversation.
I’ve talked myself out of a woman attraction before. Sometimes less is more.
Guy she was very excited about it was the second date. His an archeologist, meets all her physical wants etc, And they decided to go for a hike followed by hanging at the beach.
Guy was the frontrunner out of all the guys she had just started to see, and he talked throughout the date about himself, asked no questions. Didn't let her talk or would interrupt. He just turned my friend off, they did the hike and went to the beach and this guy carried on talking about himself, even when he dropped her off he was still chatting about himself
Talked himself right out of another date and some puss.
One thing I’ve learnt I let these chicks talk and add commentary as and when needed. I like a good back and forth conversation.
I’ve talked myself out of a woman attraction before. Sometimes less is more.
NoirDynosaur
Yurrrrrrrrrr
Talking yourself outta puss is definitely real. Women love to talk -- they want the spotlight on them. Being mysterious and asking open ended questions would've helped him.Had dinner with 2 female friends one of them was telling me of her date on Saturday.
Guy she was very excited about it was the second date. His an archeologist, meets all her physical wants etc, And they decided to go for a hike followed by hanging at the beach.
Guy was the frontrunner out of all the guys she had just started to see, and he talked throughout the date about himself, asked no questions. Didn't let her talk or would interrupt. He just turned my friend off, they did the hike and went to the beach and this guy carried on talking about himself, even when he dropped her off he was still chatting about himself
Talked himself right out of another date and some puss.
One thing I’ve learnt I let these chicks talk and add commentary as and when needed. I like a good back and forth conversation.
I’ve talked myself out of a woman attraction before. Sometimes less is more.
Me personally, I'm a man of few words. I'm somewhat emotionally detached and aloof yet women find this attractive.
A lot of girls in my past questioned me "why is he so quiet". I just rather enjoy a woman's presence by not filling the void with unnecessary words. Besides most of our communication is non verbal.
NOSKI_DA_DON
Pro
Why does this sound like something kevin gates would say lol
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Women love talking about themselves. Just encourage a woman to talk about themselves & the panties will effortlessly drop to floorHad dinner with 2 female friends one of them was telling me of her date on Saturday.
Guy she was very excited about it was the second date. His an archeologist, meets all her physical wants etc, And they decided to go for a hike followed by hanging at the beach.
Guy was the frontrunner out of all the guys she had just started to see, and he talked throughout the date about himself, asked no questions. Didn't let her talk or would interrupt. He just turned my friend off, they did the hike and went to the beach and this guy carried on talking about himself, even when he dropped her off he was still chatting about himself
Talked himself right out of another date and some puss.
One thing I’ve learnt I let these chicks talk and add commentary as and when needed. I like a good back and forth conversation.
I’ve talked myself out of a woman attraction before. Sometimes less is more.