Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[George Gooney]

Sounds like regardless buddy isnt going anywhere. He may not talk to your lady anymore but he's a family friend so he'll be around.

So you have to ask yourself, are you comfortable repeatedly seeing a man who used to to copulate with your lady??

You cant predict the future and never know when your girl may find herself in a situation where breh is present.
Trust your gut and be ready to live with whatever decision you make moving forward.

I came into a large sum of money recently and I'm relocating. I might take my girl with me so this might not be a factor. but all around this was a good post. Dap Breh thanks.

 

[The Radiant One]

I’m consistently in the gym….I’m pretty good shape..I figured she’d eventually start going since I am but nah….and we have a home gym…

Did she gain weight does she like to workout?

 

[JulesMusic719]

Man I flopped Saturday night . Chick I been talking to on hinge came to visit her friend in London . 10:45 she tells me to meet at Euston train station and go back home with her . Talk about short notice it takes me an hour to get to that station and I was laying comfortably in bed so I said they'll be a next time, damn train was delayed 2hrs so I could've made it easy.

So been talking to her regularly , chat getting real sexual , now she telling me she don't give head unless your boyfriend material , but we can do everything else .

Last chick talking some 90 days , ended up smashing that following morning so I'm pretty sure after a little kissing she'll be down.

Just still get what u can get fukk it

 

[The Radiant One]

I was just thinking about that too. I was on Instagram and this couple, a very attractive black women and your average limpwristed, scrawny, short Asian guy would not leave my feed no matter how hard I filtered them out.

It got me thinking how I never see black women that attractive with brehs that shared the Asian guy’s body type and interests, but I do see black women with other races of men built like that.

It also takes me back to Serena Williams and how she got it on with some potbellied forum maker that had less money than her and how all the black men she dated were athletes and rappers.

Yeah black men have to work harder and we have to do more to date out.

 

[RealAssanova]

Aight brehs I need y'all opinions on this.

Spoiler

So I've been seeing this girl for like 9 months now. Things are going good. She's in love with me and shows all the signs of a woman in love(Clingyness, Neediness, blows up my phone if i don't answer, always wants to kiss on me and make love etc etc etc.). Shes east african and her family is kinda conservative. One day we kicking it and we looking at eachother's IG pages and a video from last year caught my attention. In the video she's at a family event dancing with a family friend. The dancing was harmless, it was her and her sisters dancing in a circle and he was in the circle too. But something about the way they looked at eachother for like 2 seconds in the vid seemed "odd". So i asked her who this is and she's like hes just a family friend, their families been close for years etc etc. After doing some research Reincar style @FireMikelArteta "Trust But verify" I found out that that was true and their families were close and he's very cool with her older sisters, hes like 7-8 years older than my girl. So after my research I let it slide but something about it kept bothering me so when me and her weren't together I would go to my shawty's IG page and watch that video again. My instincts were trying to tell me something until one day i just asked my girl again and told her not to lie, did they have something going on and she said yes, they had a 2 month fling in the past before me and her met and none of their family knows about it because it would be shameful for her and her sisters would look at her crazy because theyre kinda conservative and hookup shyt is frowned upon. Apparently I'm the only person who knows about it. So obviously the family doesn't know anything about it and in the family's mind they're just "friends".

So im cool with the fam and they love me so the sisters throw a party at their crib and invite me, I show up but they invited dude also. He's been solid with her sisters for years. I never met dude before that day so he comes up to me and tries to shake my hand. Me being the nikka i am i just look at him crazy and dont accept the shake. Was I wrong? I feel like the sisters think I'm an a$$hole now but they dont know what I know and I don't want to be the one to expose my shawty past because we all have one but a part of me wants to be like yo don't come around here no more. That friendship shyt is dead but I'd be over stepping my boundaries. How would yall act in this situation? dude only pops up once in a blue when the fam throw a party or family get together but still I feel like that's too much Thoughts?

@VertigoKnight @FireMikelArteta

Conservative as in muslim conservative?

Habesha or somali?

 

[Max.]

Aight brehs I need y'all opinions on this.

Spoiler

So I've been seeing this girl for like 9 months now. Things are going good. She's in love with me and shows all the signs of a woman in love(Clingyness, Neediness, blows up my phone if i don't answer, always wants to kiss on me and make love etc etc etc.). Shes east african and her family is kinda conservative. One day we kicking it and we looking at eachother's IG pages and a video from last year caught my attention. In the video she's at a family event dancing with a family friend. The dancing was harmless, it was her and her sisters dancing in a circle and he was in the circle too. But something about the way they looked at eachother for like 2 seconds in the vid seemed "odd". So i asked her who this is and she's like hes just a family friend, their families been close for years etc etc. After doing some research Reincar style @FireMikelArteta "Trust But verify" I found out that that was true and their families were close and he's very cool with her older sisters, hes like 7-8 years older than my girl. So after my research I let it slide but something about it kept bothering me so when me and her weren't together I would go to my shawty's IG page and watch that video again. My instincts were trying to tell me something until one day i just asked my girl again and told her not to lie, did they have something going on and she said yes, they had a 2 month fling in the past before me and her met and none of their family knows about it because it would be shameful for her and her sisters would look at her crazy because theyre kinda conservative and hookup shyt is frowned upon. Apparently I'm the only person who knows about it. So obviously the family doesn't know anything about it and in the family's mind they're just "friends".

So im cool with the fam and they love me so the sisters throw a party at their crib and invite me, I show up but they invited dude also. He's been solid with her sisters for years. I never met dude before that day so he comes up to me and tries to shake my hand. Me being the nikka i am i just look at him crazy and dont accept the shake. Was I wrong? I feel like the sisters think I'm an a$$hole now but they dont know what I know and I don't want to be the one to expose my shawty past because we all have one but a part of me wants to be like yo don't come around here no more. That friendship shyt is dead but I'd be over stepping my boundaries. How would yall act in this situation? dude only pops up once in a blue when the fam throw a party or family get together but still I feel like that's too much Thoughts?

@VertigoKnight @FireMikelArteta

fukk that dude nh…i woulda did the same shyt as u…when he goes home He probably goes “ yeah I hit that” or he hates on you in texts and he’s waiting for your the fukk up so he can try n smash again.

I woulda told my bytch he gota go…no more invites

 

[George Gooney]

fukk that dude nh…i woulda did the same shyt as u…when he goes home He probably goes “ yeah I hit that” or he hates on you in texts and he’s waiting for your the fukk up so he can try n smash again.

I woulda told my bytch he gota go…no more invites

Lmfao They don’t talk on the phone but I tried to explain to my girl that some men be thinking like that. She tried to calm me down like “Babe he just sees me as a family friend.” I responded “it never woulda went too far if he saw you that way.” She don’t got a lot of experience with men so she’s naive(body count can be calculated with one hand and yes I have proof that this is true.)

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Lmfao They don’t talk on the phone but I tried to explain to my girl that some men be thinking like that. She tried to calm me down like “Babe he just sees me as a family friend.” I responded “it never woulda went too far if he saw you that way.” She don’t got a lot of experience with men so she’s naive(body count can be calculated with one hand and yes I have proof that this is true.)

She don’t got a lot of experience with men so she’s naive(body count can be calculated with one hand and yes I have proof that this is true.)

(body count can be calculated with one hand and yes I have proof that this is true.)

 

[George Gooney]

Conservative as in muslim conservative?

Habesha or somali?

You already know breh hook up culture is frowned upon in East African families. They take shyt like that to the grave with them.

 

[George Gooney]

LMFAOOOOO I know breh. You never really know when it comes to these girls. But lets just say I believe her.

 

[Deathstroke]

Swear I have the worst luck with women. Met this muslim girl, last couple of weeks were going great, amazing communication, we saw each other every day, talked everyday. I knew religion was huge for her so I moved carefully. She would come to my place to study, she would clean it. Now she ended up sleeping over one night and we had sex. I ain’t gon lie, I was on my A game so we had sex multiple times that night and she told me she didn't expect it was gonna be this great. Over the next days she kept coming over, we kept doing romantic shyt too ans having sex, I was at my peak hitting the right spots.The vibes were immaculate.

Fast forward last week after we have sex, she starts saying stuff about how I’m too bad for her, she can’t resist me, she needs to stop talking to me, that this is wrong, it’s sinning and we shouldn’t have done that before marriage.
I’m super confused so I asked her what is going on, she starts breaking down in complete tears about how we should have never done that and we kept doing it and sinning. Then she started talking marriage and all that, that we should only talk with the intention of getting married. Now she knows this is new territory for me, I never even thought about marriage like that. These past few days I’ve been trying to understand and learn more about her beliefs and I’m not running away from things. Problem is she is. She was honest and told me she was confused, felt guilty for it and didn’t know what to do now so it shut her off. Now she’s replying hours later and shyt. I don’t even know what to do, things feel so different to how they were.

 

[RealAssanova]

You already know breh hook up culture is frowned upon in East African families. They take shyt like that to the grave with them.

I kno breh cuz i’m EA and muslim myself lol

So i already kno the game with EA muslim women. I can’t even begin to tell you how many certified stars i’ve come across.

Funny thing is, i can understand her trying to appear virtuous with a fellow muslim/EA dude (ie. fear of family/cultural judgement and that no one will want to marry her) …but to a non-EA & non-muslim, i don’t see why she felt like she had to withhold info?

 

[RealAssanova]

Swear I have the worst luck with women. Met this muslim girl, last couple of weeks were going great, amazing communication, we saw each other every day, talked everyday. I knew religion was huge for her so I moved carefully. She would come to my place to study, she would clean it. Now she ended up sleeping over one night and we had sex. I ain’t gon lie, I was on my A game so we had sex multiple times that night and she told me she didn't expect it was gonna be this great. Over the next days she kept coming over, we kept doing romantic shyt too ans having sex, I was at my peak hitting the right spots.The vibes were immaculate.

Fast forward last week after we have sex, she starts saying stuff about how I’m too bad for her, she can’t resist me, she needs to stop talking to me, that this is wrong, it’s sinning and we shouldn’t have done that before marriage.
I’m super confused so I asked her what is going on, she starts breaking down in complete tears about how we should have never done that and we kept doing it and sinning. Then she started talking marriage and all that, that we should only talk with the intention of getting married. Now she knows this is new territory for me, I never even thought about marriage like that. These past few days I’ve been trying to understand and learn more about her beliefs and I’m not running away from things. Problem is she is. She was honest and told me she was confused, felt guilty for it and didn’t know what to do now so it shut her off. Now she’s replying hours later and shyt. I don’t even know what to do, things feel so different to how they were.

Women and their lack of accountability man..smdh.

It ain’t like you put a gun to her head and forced her to do anythin against her will. If she’s as religious as she’s making herself out to be, she should kno (and i’m sure she does) that she shouldn’t have been mixing with a male alone (and at his place too).

The marriage thing is hot garbage. She doesn’t wanna get married. She’s just tryna rationalize her actions in her own mind and project it onto you and its making you feel bad.

But she’s a grown woman who was not under the influence of drugs nor alcohol. So she was well aware of what she was doin.

My suggestion? Fall back completely and give her space. Let her do her thing.

I had somethin similar and fell back and she came back to me on her own accord (with maturity)…and that ended up resulting in a 1-year casual situationship.

 

[Spacejam23]

Women and their lack of accountability man..smdh.

It ain’t like you put a gun to her head and forced her to do anythin against her will. If she’s as religious as she’s making herself out to be, she should kno that shouldn’t have been mixing with a male along (and at his place too).

The marriage thing is hot garbage. She doesn’t wanna get married. She’s just tryna rationalize her actions in her own mind and project it onto you and its making you feel bad.

But she’s a grown woman who was not under the influence of drugs nor alcohol. So she was well aware of what she was doin.

My suggestion? Fall back completely and give her space. Let her do her thing.

I had somethin similar and fell back and she came back to me on her own accord (with maturity)…and that ended up resulting in a 1-year casual situationship.

What happen when she came back what was the first convo like
What she say

 

[RealAssanova]

What happen when she came back what was the first convo like
What she say

I basically said my bad for makin her feel uncomfortable. Wasn’t my intention or anything like that…

And she replied sayin how its no biggie because she’s an adult and it takes 2 to tango…