Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Lmfao tell them nikkas worry about they marriage. Unless you suicidal and crying bout love they need to mind they damn business. The same way single folks need to stay outta married folks business.

All that hook up stuff post 25 = folks setting they bum ass homegirl that nobody wants with a precieved sucker.
They stay complaining to me about their spouse but then be on my ass about getting married. Lifes been way better than I expected on my end I'm constantly traveling getting money, debt free, in shape and still smashing randoms. I see no incentives right now to give it up.

I seen this chick they was trying to hook me up with and was instantly like come on fam, She was super nice and kept trying to make conversation, I did by best to not be rude while also letter her know I was interested
 

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They stay complaining to me about their spouse but then be on my ass about getting married. Lifes been way better than I expected on my end I'm constantly traveling getting money, debt free, in shape and still smashing randoms. I see no incentives right now to give it up.

I seen this chick they was trying to hook me up with and was instantly like come on fam, She was super nice and kept trying to make conversation, I did by best to not be rude while also letter her know I was interested
Its a new day but dudes dont want to be honest.

Even i had to have revelation that legal marriage in the united states makes zero sense in 2022. Until they reform the institution there is zero incentive for men and the tax benefits sure aint worth it either
 

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Man I flopped Saturday night . Chick I been talking to on hinge came to visit her friend in London . 10:45 she tells me to meet at Euston train station and go back home with her . Talk about short notice it takes me an hour to get to that station and I was laying comfortably in bed so I said they'll be a next time, damn train was delayed 2hrs so I could've made it easy:snoop:.

So been talking to her regularly , chat getting real sexual , now she telling me she don't give head unless your boyfriend material , but we can do everything else :comeon: .

Last chick talking some 90 days , ended up smashing that following morning so I'm pretty sure after a little kissing she'll be down.
 

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Man I flopped Saturday night . Chick I been talking to on hinge came to visit her friend in London . 10:45 she tells me to meet at Euston train station and go back home with her . Talk about short notice it takes me an hour to get to that station and I was laying comfortably in bed so I said they'll be a next time, damn train was delayed 2hrs so I could've made it easy:snoop:.

So been talking to her regularly , chat getting real sexual , now she telling me she don't give head unless your boyfriend material , but we can do everything else :comeon: .

Last chick talking some 90 days , ended up smashing that following morning so I'm pretty sure after a little kissing she'll be down.

lmfao fukk that hoe. The hell you look like showing up on her demand like you ubereats.

Always do things on your terms. If she leads with wanting to smash you make her come to you.
 

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Why do these women insist on having kids with losers? I will never understand lol.

Met this Black Law student, great connection, great body, Got two toddlers by a soundcloud rapper

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I am willing to donate to science to figure this out
They got the genes of the breh that makes them wet, the provider breh comes after.
 

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Man I flopped Saturday night . Chick I been talking to on hinge came to visit her friend in London . 10:45 she tells me to meet at Euston train station and go back home with her . Talk about short notice it takes me an hour to get to that station and I was laying comfortably in bed so I said they'll be a next time, damn train was delayed 2hrs so I could've made it easy:snoop:.

So been talking to her regularly , chat getting real sexual , now she telling me she don't give head unless your boyfriend material , but we can do everything else :comeon: .

Last chick talking some 90 days , ended up smashing that following morning so I'm pretty sure after a little kissing she'll be down.

Honestly you did the right thing. How would you look following her last min demand to come meet her. And it may not have even been guaranteed that you’d get the buns that night.

I would have told her to come see me and she can stay over. And see her reaction then.

As for the last chick did you say you spent 90 days talking to her before finally smashing her?
 
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You’re a young breh, and this thread is a place where we can talk the real. So no offence. But your post is real deranged my brudda, extreme dikk watching, low self esteem and fetishism rolled into one. And I know you don't want to go there just to fukk chicks, but its very sex-patty energy.

I feel you’re over lusting on these internet women and its kinda warping you. And your expectations.

One thing I’ve learned even moreso since I moved countries. A woman will be into whose she’s into. If you go into things thinking she's :mjpls: its self fulfilling. From the women who’ve hit me up, I used to be pleasantly surprised, these days it is what it is. A woman cannot fight attraction and chemistry. I’ve basically dated women from all over the world with no qualms. No problems holding hands or kissing in public.

Please don't be one of those “do you date black guys” weirdos, nothing will turn a woman off quicker than that low self esteem energy.

If a woman is engaged with you. Then you already know she's interested. All you have to do is not talk yourself out of getting with her.
It's not so much the 'do they like black guys' thing I'm worried about. I'm just perplexed at how the brehs over there have such low standards.
 

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It's not so much the 'do they like black guys' thing I'm worried about. I'm just perplexed at how the brehs over there have such low standards.

The reality is a lot of guys are happy with what they get. So will settle with the first chick who gives them some pum pum

Doesn’t matter how she looks.
 

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I've been getting numbers lately both online and in person, and man, it's exhausting just communicating with these women sometimes. Maybe it's cause I'm focused on my goals right now. But so far, for the last month, I've been having one conversation with them and then I never reach out to them again.

I honestly am enjoying meeting women who have goals as well.

The Egyptian chick raised a ton of money to get a project she wanted off the ground and is working with big companies doing projects for them. Plus is doing a lot of community driven work.

The Indian woman I see has basically done all she wanted to do with her current company and wants to set herself a new challenge, plus enjoy the fruits of her labour. had a long chat with her on Sunday night when I stayed at her place about business approaches and how to really drill down an idea.

I find that shyt mega attractive, extremely beautiful and feminine women with keen minds and drive.

Even yesterday with the Egyptian chick she was giving me the downlow on how to prepare a grant pitch. As due to the influx of black people to my city I know there is going to be a lot of corporate money slushing about for creative art, film and music endeavours and I want in on it.
 
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The reality is a lot of guys are happy with what they get. So will settle with the first chick who gives them some pum pum

Doesn’t matter how she looks.
That's fair, and I guess it's kind of stupid to be angry on their behalf, but I can't say I like what I see. Especially the 11/10 dimes with the goblin looking pardos.
 

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I honestly am enjoying meeting women who have goals as well.
This.

Real talk, I ain't about that playa life. I just want that one girl to build together with.

Almost thought I had one a while ago. Wound up fumbling it before it turned into anything serious, but we became friends. She even came through with a job opportunity for me. It's great to just be able to have a conversation about goals and what's the plan for achieving them. :wow:

She wound up going the bird's way though. Kinda felt bad about it because it's really a waste of her potential.

I did laugh when she complained about her love life not turning out so well tho. shyt ain't sweet out there. :russ:

Meanwhile, I got a cert and am slowly getting back in shape after some health problems. :blessed:
 

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Enough to do a basic greeting. I like Hapa women, but I heard the ones here are cac-crazy so I figured Kazakh girls were close enough and they actually are. I set it to Russia and skip until I see an Asian looking girl and they're always from Kazakhstan.

Girls weren't the only thing that made me interested in Kazakhstan, I heard Dimash was from there.
LOL my manager is kazakh
 
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