Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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At what age do women usually want a nerd/square?

30's and up. By then they've at least one child, and enough trauma to fukk up all future relationships. I've seen it from ugly to hot women, that moment of regret sets in with those little sneak comments about their children, life, etc.
 

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How do y'all feel about girls going thru your phone or being nosey when you're using it in their presence?

Kinda went off on this girl I'm messing with because she wanted me to prove it was actually my mom who was texting me :beli:

I feel bad I made her cry but she super sensitive and we adults, I don't feel all that insecurity is necessary
 

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How do y'all feel about girls going thru your phone or being nosey when you're using it in their presence?

Kinda went off on this girl I'm messing with because she wanted me to prove it was actually my mom who was texting me :beli:

I feel bad I made her cry but she super sensitive and we adults, I don't feel all that insecurity is necessary
All it boils to boundaries and her insecurities not allowing her to respect them.
 

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How do y'all feel about girls going thru your phone or being nosey when you're using it in their presence?

Kinda went off on this girl I'm messing with because she wanted me to prove it was actually my mom who was texting me :beli:

I feel bad I made her cry but she super sensitive and we adults, I don't feel all that insecurity is necessary

She's clearly mentally 12 as are most women. So its all about control/power plays. Mission successful if and when you do make them cry. They should very well feel like shyt for 1. Not having trust in you, and 2. thinking that any of your business, is theirs. Her only worries, should be sucking you dry, being feminine and doing some kind of cooking. A good girl should be jealous, however she still needs to know her place.
 

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How do y'all feel about girls going thru your phone or being nosey when you're using it in their presence?

Kinda went off on this girl I'm messing with because she wanted me to prove it was actually my mom who was texting me :beli:

I feel bad I made her cry but she super sensitive and we adults, I don't feel all that insecurity is necessary
These same girls who have numerous men texting them, exes still following them on instagram :mjlol:
 

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How do y'all feel about girls going thru your phone or being nosey when you're using it in their presence?

Kinda went off on this girl I'm messing with because she wanted me to prove it was actually my mom who was texting me :beli:

I feel bad I made her cry but she super sensitive and we adults, I don't feel all that insecurity is necessary
Wouldn’t go for it. I’ve generally have nothing to hide but I’m not up for letting people go through my phone.
 

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30's and up. By then they've at least one child, and enough trauma to fukk up all future relationships. I've seen it from ugly to hot women, that moment of regret sets in with those little sneak comments about their children, life, etc.

& shes 50% off.

:pachaha:

Raising someone elses kids? no freakin way. I have to look at the face of the guy who got off free, with no responsibility or repercussions.
 

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"Id like to go to dinner sometime if you're down" (This would be first date)

Me: I move around a lot, we'll get a drink & take it from there

"oooo I like a mysterious guy"

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Dont fall her asking for dinner, she's trying to see if you're a simp lol.
 

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Not sure if this is related to the thread, but can someone that’s been to Brazil give me the rundown on Black Brazilian women?

I’ve seen a lot of them online and they are HOT. Like the ones I’ve seen are easily 8s and 9s. I’ll be going to Brazil, eventually, and while I’m not a sexpat, women are at the top of my list. Not first obviously

My problem though is that I’m getting the feeling the good looking ones are :mjpls:

Anytime I find a good looking black Brazillian chick she's with a lightskinned/hispanic-looking parda, like 90% of the time. I tried looking for chicks with black guys but they're mid and below average looking, like a few nights ago

I posted two in that “post a girl you’d feel obligated to nut in” thread, both were easily 10s but both had parda bfs, and I was thinking about that all day. Out of boredom and curiosity l decided to look at black Brazilian couples on my Instagram and tiktok, and the attraction level between the women the brehs get and the women those pardas got had me in my feelings. (Btw, you’ve got Brazilians calling themselves black/preto when they look like Ricky Martin) And the brehs werent ugly either. I even looked up models and actors and athletes.

First of all, let me start off by saying it was hard looking for the brehs with gfs, because their Instagram and tiktok pages were nothing but pics of them shirtless with other shirtless men like a bunch of queers. Second, it actually blew my mind how these guys dated down. Like I got angry on their behalf, it was so bad.

I see black (s)expats gushing over Brazil and Afro Brazilian women all the time, but the women I see these black Brazilians with and the women some of these guys show off are not better than here. Not at all. They’ll bash American black women for being below average looking and money obsessed but here they are in Brazil dating below average and money obsessed women, but I digress

It was so wild. I also read something about there being a trend of black 🇧🇷 Soccer players shacking up with non black 🇧🇷 women, at first I was like “I don’t blame them, they’re getting the scraps of their own race!” then I took a gander at what their wives and gfs looked like and they were just as mid and below average looking.

They weren’t as hideous as I’m making it out to be, but I did see some fugly ones and, like I said, the gap between the ones the bruhs get and the ones “dating out” is way too big and obvious.

It’s probably just me and my shallow ass, but I still have to wonder what’s wrong with these guys.

You’re a young breh, and this thread is a place where we can talk the real. So no offence. But your post is real deranged my brudda, extreme dikk watching, low self esteem and fetishism rolled into one. And I know you don't want to go there just to fukk chicks, but its very sex-patty energy.

I feel you’re over lusting on these internet women and its kinda warping you. And your expectations.

One thing I’ve learned even moreso since I moved countries. A woman will be into whose she’s into. If you go into things thinking she's :mjpls: its self fulfilling. From the women who’ve hit me up, I used to be pleasantly surprised, these days it is what it is. A woman cannot fight attraction and chemistry. I’ve basically dated women from all over the world with no qualms. No problems holding hands or kissing in public.

Please don't be one of those “do you date black guys” weirdos, nothing will turn a woman off quicker than that low self esteem energy.

If a woman is engaged with you. Then you already know she's interested. All you have to do is not talk yourself out of getting with her.
 
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Lol my chick is going to rolling loud in Miami with her cousin so I’m about to line something up for this weekend :lolbron:
 
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