Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Enough to do a basic greeting. I like Hapa women, but I heard the ones here are cac-crazy so I figured Kazakh girls were close enough and they actually are. I set it to Russia and skip until I see an Asian looking girl and they're always from Kazakhstan.

Girls weren't the only thing that made me interested in Kazakhstan, I heard Dimash was from there.

I used to see a woman from Kazakhstan. Met her on Bumble. I talked about her in this thread. She was of korean descent, absolutely beautiful. She moved to Vancouver in her late twenties with her now ex husband.

I was the second man in her life that she slept with. She got married very young.

Kinda messed it up with her though. But it was very fun whilst it lasted.

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I used to see a woman from Kazakhstan. Met her on Bumble. I talked about her in this thread. She was of korean descent, absolutely beautiful. She moved to Vancouver in her late twenties with her now ex husband.

I was the second man in her life that she slept with. She got married very young.

Kinda messed it up with her though. But it was very fun whilst it lasted.

:francis:
How was the box and How did you mess it up breh?
 

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How was the box and How did you mess it up breh?

Lol it was very good. Hubby apparently kept it very basic with her. Missionary only.

How you have a woman who looked as amazing as that and you barely pleasuring her?

As for how I messed up things. This was back when I wouldn’t tell chicks about each other. So around that time I was off to Hong Kong/Taiwan, when I got back, she ‘casually’ mentioned that she saw that I was using Bumble out there as it has my location. I Told her, yeah I was using it to find people to show me around...

:troll:

She was like sure...

Anyway she messaged a day later and said she really did like me and she knew we’d never be serious, as I was obviously dating around but she did value honesty and thought we had that.

And you know what she was right. I should have just told her straight up, yes, I was dating whilst on holiday and she would have been fine.

Lessons like that are partly why I tell these women up front now. They value a man whose not going to bullshyt them.

I’ve actually gotten more stable women since I no longer kept up the pretence of not seeing anyone else.
 
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Need some advice. I might have talked about this before I don't remember, but I'm in kind of in a precarious spot with two chicks I used to work with directly. I got intel that they both like ya boy @FakeNews. The problem is i'd say they are casual friends(one is 40 but looks real good and the other is 23 if that matters). They talk not sure if they hangout outside of work. So I'm not sure how I can finesses this., but I'm not trying to holla at one and then the other gets mad. I end up with nothing. Though the 40 yr old did tell me the younger chick wanted to talk to me :patrice:

I know the younger chick is guaranteed and I do prefer her, but I want to smash the older one too she is bad!!! I'm thinking about just being straight up with the older chick who I personally think just wants to get smashed. :manny:
 
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Need some advice. I might have talked about this before I don't remember, but I'm in kind of in a precarious spot with two chicks I used to work with directly. I got intel that they both like ya boy @FakeNews. The problem is i'd say they are casual friends(one is 40 but looks real good and the other is 23 if that matters). They talk not sure if they hangout outside of work. So I'm not sure how I can finesses this., but I'm not trying to holla at one and then the other gets mad. I end up with nothing. Though the 40 yr old did tell me the younger chick wanted to talk to me :patrice:

I know the younger chick is guaranteed and I do prefer her, but I want to smash the older one too she is bad!!! I'm thinking about just being straight up with the older chick who I personally think just wants to get smashed. :manny:


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So this woman asked me to share my social media with her. My IG is boring on purpose,but my FB which i havent updated in over a year is on and off active for business purpose all i have on there is sports talk etc. I dont want her to add me but I told her just ask me i have nothing to hide. She seems interested and i would definetely wife up but social media thing makes me think she makes judgement off of posts.

Just add her on IG and say maybe yall can make memories together

Women are stupid like that
 

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I think the wall hit for her.

She used to get mad attention in high school / college, atleast 100+ likes on every photo, short (5”0) Guyanese Indian chick, big breast, skinny figure. Cute face.

But now she’s blew the fukk up. Idk if she was drinking or what, but I’m assuming all her options ran out and she’s just hitting guys up.

Hilarious bro….

When i was 24 i was tryna fukk this short latina..,her tittys had to be like Gs….like it was insAne….didnt really have ass but EVERY DUDE would stop n stare….long story short she never gave me no p*ssy…months ago i see her on fb n add her…snapchat and again shes being wack as fukk…somebody tagged her on FB and she got hela fat like penguin in batman returns

I screenshotted it and snapper her

YOOOO THIS IS U!??!!?!!?

Her whole tone changed

“Yes silly thats me :smile:

bytch u fukkn fat now…i blocked her on everything

Hahahah
 
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Not sure if this is related to the thread, but can someone that’s been to Brazil give me the rundown on Black Brazilian women?

I’ve seen a lot of them online and they are HOT. Like the ones I’ve seen are easily 8s and 9s. I’ll be going to Brazil, eventually, and while I’m not a sexpat, women are at the top of my list. Not first obviously

My problem though is that I’m getting the feeling the good looking ones are :mjpls:

Anytime I find a good looking black Brazillian chick she's with a lightskinned/hispanic-looking parda, like 90% of the time. I tried looking for chicks with black guys but they're mid and below average looking, like a few nights ago

I posted two in that “post a girl you’d feel obligated to nut in” thread, both were easily 10s but both had parda bfs, and I was thinking about that all day. Out of boredom and curiosity l decided to look at black Brazilian couples on my Instagram and tiktok, and the attraction level between the women the brehs get and the women those pardas got had me in my feelings. (Btw, you’ve got Brazilians calling themselves black/preto when they look like Ricky Martin) And the brehs werent ugly either. I even looked up models and actors and athletes.

First of all, let me start off by saying it was hard looking for the brehs with gfs, because their Instagram and tiktok pages were nothing but pics of them shirtless with other shirtless men like a bunch of queers. Second, it actually blew my mind how these guys dated down. Like I got angry on their behalf, it was so bad.

I see black (s)expats gushing over Brazil and Afro Brazilian women all the time, but the women I see these black Brazilians with and the women some of these guys show off are not better than here. Not at all. They’ll bash American black women for being below average looking and money obsessed but here they are in Brazil dating below average and money obsessed women, but I digress

It was so wild. I also read something about there being a trend of black 🇧🇷 Soccer players shacking up with non black 🇧🇷 women, at first I was like “I don’t blame them, they’re getting the scraps of their own race!” then I took a gander at what their wives and gfs looked like and they were just as mid and below average looking.

They weren’t as hideous as I’m making it out to be, but I did see some fugly ones and, like I said, the gap between the ones the bruhs get and the ones “dating out” is way too big and obvious.

It’s probably just me and my shallow ass, but I still have to wonder what’s wrong with these guys.
 
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Not sure if this is related to the thread, but can someone that’s been to Brazil give me the rundown on Black Brazilian women?

I’ve seen a lot of them online and they are HOT. Like the ones I’ve seen are easily 8s and 9s. I’ll be going to Brazil, eventually, and while I’m not a sexpat, women are at the top of my list. Not first obviously

My problem though is that I’m getting the feeling the good looking ones are :mjpls:

Anytime I find a good looking black Brazillian chick she's with a lightskinned/hispanic-looking parda, like 90% of the time. I tried looking for chicks with black guys but they're mid and below average looking, like a few nights ago

I posted two in that “post a girl you’d feel obligated to nut in” thread, both were easily 10s but both had parda bfs, and I was thinking about that all day. Out of boredom and curiosity l decided to look at black Brazilian couples on my Instagram and tiktok, and the attraction level between the women the brehs get and the women those pardas got had me in my feelings. (Btw, you’ve got Brazilians calling themselves black/preto when they look like Ricky Martin) And the brehs werent ugly either. I even looked up models and actors and athletes.

First of all, let me start off by saying it was hard looking for the brehs with gfs, because their Instagram and tiktok pages were nothing but pics of them shirtless with other shirtless men like a bunch of queers. Second, it actually blew my mind how these guys dated down. Like I got angry on their behalf, it was so bad.

I see black (s)expats gushing over Brazil and Afro Brazilian women all the time, but the women I see these black Brazilians with and the women some of these guys show off are not better than here. Not at all. They’ll bash American black women for being below average looking and money obsessed but here they are in Brazil dating below average and money obsessed women, but I digress

It was so wild. I also read something about there being a trend of black 🇧🇷 Soccer players shacking up with non black 🇧🇷 women, at first I was like “I don’t blame them, they’re getting the scraps of their own race!” then I took a gander at what their wives and gfs looked like and they were just as mid and below average looking.

They weren’t as hideous as I’m making it out to be, but I did see some fugly ones and, like I said, the gap between the ones the bruhs get and the ones “dating out” is way too big and obvious.

It’s probably just me and my shallow ass, but I still have to wonder what’s wrong with these guys.
Please spend your time elsewhere.. just skimmed over this thread and saw like four buzzwords/phrases that are red flags.
 

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Need some advice. I might have talked about this before I don't remember, but I'm in kind of in a precarious spot with two chicks I used to work with directly. I got intel that they both like ya boy @FakeNews. The problem is i'd say they are casual friends(one is 40 but looks real good and the other is 23 if that matters). They talk not sure if they hangout outside of work. So I'm not sure how I can finesses this., but I'm not trying to holla at one and then the other gets mad. I end up with nothing. Though the 40 yr old did tell me the younger chick wanted to talk to me :patrice:

I know the younger chick is guaranteed and I do prefer her, but I want to smash the older one too she is bad!!! I'm thinking about just being straight up with the older chick who I personally think just wants to get smashed. :manny:

fukk both of them, the older one will give it up easy (as they all do), lay down the parameters and she'll follow. I don't care how smart/dumb they are, if you lay it on the table, that you just want to be fukk buddies, they'll be no problem. The young one is more than likely doing that anyway. However, you can play the forbidden fruit angle, and get with the young bird and have the old one as the mistress. Older women are the purest scumbags and love being the mistress, I've known women with careers who've fukked married men.
 

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Why do these women insist on having kids with losers? I will never understand lol.

Met this Black Law student, great connection, great body, Got two toddlers by a soundcloud rapper

:skip:

I am willing to donate to science to figure this out

The oldest story in the book. Women don't want a nerd or square when they're young, they prefer the rebel with a cause. Mainly because its the human imperative to not be bored when you're young, a lot of it is curiosity. They think there's some sort of fascinating mystery, when in reality, its just Pookie and Ray Ray hanging in front of Bodega's being losers.

Also comes with upbringing, no father = looking for "daddy" in any swinging dikk with a fitted and timbs on. They want a tough guy since its related to great men, however, women are horrible judges of character, and will let any ol' low life with a 4th grade reading level inside.
 

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The oldest story in the book. Women don't want a nerd or square when they're young, they prefer the rebel with a cause. Mainly because its the human imperative to not be bored when you're young, a lot of it is curiosity. They think there's some sort of fascinating mystery, when in reality, its just Pookie and Ray Ray hanging in front of Bodega's being losers.

Also comes with upbringing, no father = looking for "daddy" in any swinging dikk with a fitted and timbs on. They want a tough guy since its related to great men, however, women are horrible judges of character, and will let any ol' low life with a 4th grade reading level inside.
At what age do women usually want a nerd/square?
 

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Why do these women insist on having kids with losers? I will never understand lol.

Met this Black Law student, great connection, great body, Got two toddlers by a soundcloud rapper

:skip:

I am willing to donate to science to figure this out

Same reason some dudes find it reasonable to nut in unfit women. Lack of maturity/impulse control.
 

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