Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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lmfao fukk that hoe. The hell you look like showing up on her demand like you ubereats.

Always do things on your terms. If she leads with wanting to smash you make her come to you.

For real.

I don't play that last minute "I'm bored and feel like doing something so come meet me somewhere in an hour so I can be entertained" bullshyt as if I don't have a life and I'm at their beck and call. I don't even care if I was just sitting at home staring at the the wall while twiddling my thumbs in deafening silence, it's the principle of it. They always expect you to come to them too FOH, entitled bytches. :camby:
 

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For real.

I don't play that last minute "I'm bored and feel like doing something so come meet me somewhere in an hour so I can be entertained" bullshyt as if I don't have a life and I'm at their beck and call. I don't even care if I was just sitting at home staring at the the wall while twiddling my thumbs in deafening silence, it's the principle of it. They always expect you to come to them too FOH, entitled bytches. :camby:
Yeah these chicks literally see men as slaves.

I always make folks come to me and on my schedule hecause i try to live a discipline life. I give advance notice because im respectful of folks time.
 

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I honestly am enjoying meeting women who have goals as well.

The Egyptian chick raised a ton of money to get a project she wanted off the ground and is working with big companies doing projects for them. Plus is doing a lot of community driven work.

The Indian woman I see has basically done all she wanted to do with her current company and wants to set herself a new challenge, plus enjoy the fruits of her labour. had a long chat with her on Sunday night when I stayed at her place about business approaches and how to really drill down an idea.

I find that shyt mega attractive, extremely beautiful and feminine women with keen minds and drive.

Even yesterday with the Egyptian chick she was giving me the downlow on how to prepare a grant pitch. As due to the influx of black people to my city I know there is going to be a lot of corporate money slushing about for creative art, film and music endeavours and I want in on it.

Yup. Take advantage of it all.

I’m all about a smart beautiful woman with drive.
 

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After getting burned and licking my wounds the biggest thing I can advice men is to communicate with your partner or girl you're crushing on hard. Chances are (especially if she's under 30) she's digging you too especially if youre getting drunk and Y'all high key groping each other or she walks around with her friends talking about this is the man in my life. Even if it isn't that obviously just go ahead and address it. I'm coming to the realization is that an alpha male is a man who is a doer, protector, interesting, and most important communicates what they are thinking and feeling. Building attraction is great but you gotta communicate your interest boldly (at a opporturn, appropriate time). That way, if you actually like the girl the relationship can start on the right foot. Women expect men to lead, so do it. Women also expect men to grow and evolve so do that too.

Based on my experience and talking with female friends and family some girls just aren't ready for a man whose an alpha and mature. Communicating your intentions also weeds those women that just aren't ready.

Also don't be afraid of rejection especially when you're high functioning, healthy man. A lot of times it isn't about you, it is about them. Obviously the only way you will know if you engage in calm dialog with her. If you can't engage in calm dialog you probably aren't an alpha male and you need to mature
 
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Cut all my hoes off except my 21 year old grenadan chick. Need to replenish the roster and go younger (22-27). My vets were stuck in their old ways and couldn’t adapt to the new change of pace in the league. No more 30+.

Will do some more recruiting this weekend.
 

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How’s the blk app? Better than hinge?

:laff:

fukk no. I hate using the word ghetto, but that is a ghetto ass app. Stay on hinge & using tinder passport for overseas. The other apps, throw em away.

I had black gentry; it’s a slight step up from BLK but still not great.
 

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lmfao fukk that hoe. The hell you look like showing up on her demand like you ubereats.

Always do things on your terms. If she leads with wanting to smash you make her come to you.
Y’all doin too much. A chick visiting from OT is an exception. She’s likely tied to the hip with her friend(s) and she has no transportation. It’s always a hassle to pull them away from their group so you gotta be flexible

Not the time to be on some ‘Humph. I’m setting boundaries for future reference.’ He coulda smashed that night …yet now here he is regressing to the point she talkin bout when she DONT give head :heh:
 

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Y’all doin too much. A chick visiting from OT is an exception. She’s likely tied to the hip with her friend(s) and she has no transportation. It’s always a hassle to pull them away from their group so you gotta be flexible

Not the time to be on some ‘Humph. I’m setting boundaries for future reference.’ He coulda smashed that night …yet now here he is regressing to the point she talkin bout when she DONT give head :heh:
You sound pitiful my boy
 

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You sound pitiful my boy
And you sound like a battered husband so I guess we even. You trying too hard. Chick comin in from outta town with her girls? ngga get out the house grab a friend and everybody eatin. You in the house eating cereal studying your ‘how to treat bytches ‘ playbook
 
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