Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So this woman asked me to share my social media with her. My IG is boring on purpose,but my FB which i havent updated in over a year is on and off active for business purpose all i have on there is sports talk etc. I dont want her to add me but I told her just ask me i have nothing to hide. She seems interested and i would definetely wife up but social media thing makes me think she makes judgement off of posts.
 

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So this woman asked me to share my social media with her. My IG is boring on purpose,but my FB which i havent updated in over a year is on and off active for business purpose all i have on there is sports talk etc. I dont want her to add me but I told her just ask me i have nothing to hide. She seems interested and i would definetely wife up but social media thing makes me think she makes judgement off of posts.
I think sometimes women just want to make sure you don't already have a girl. but if she doesn't link with you based off your IG then she's not worth you anyway. maybe ask her why she wants your social media because that might help you figure out if she ain;t shyt or not.
 

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I think sometimes women just want to make sure you don't already have a girl. but if she doesn't link with you based off your IG then she's not worth you anyway. maybe ask her why she wants your social media because that might help you figure out if she ain;t shyt or not.
She said something about she wants to see my background or more of it. I told her the basics. I did my research on her thoroughly. She knows i dont have a girl.I think her friends are lowkey trying to find something. If she gets picky over social media need to bush anyway :manny:
 

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So this woman asked me to share my social media with her. My IG is boring on purpose,but my FB which i havent updated in over a year is on and off active for business purpose all i have on there is sports talk etc. I dont want her to add me but I told her just ask me i have nothing to hide. She seems interested and i would definetely wife up but social media thing makes me think she makes judgement off of posts.
Overthinking……send it to her or don’t.
 

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Bro u must didnt read part where I said i gave it to her. Just wondering why be pressed about it.Im an older cat so its just interesting to me :manny:
I didn’t actually. She doesn’t sound pressed to me just using it as part of the eval. My girl did the same and admittedly it was based off a past issue. I had nothing to hide so it was an easy check the box.
 

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So this woman asked me to share my social media with her. My IG is boring on purpose,but my FB which i havent updated in over a year is on and off active for business purpose all i have on there is sports talk etc. I dont want her to add me but I told her just ask me i have nothing to hide. She seems interested and i would definetely wife up but social media thing makes me think she makes judgement off of posts.
In this social media era, women use IG as a checklist to see how "normal" dudes are. To prove they aren't serial killers. You seem cool you should be fine.

If you have nothing to hide, do the honors.
 

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Tinder overseas is a fukking goldmine! Can't wait try this shyt out in Latin America

it sucks in countries where there is hinge - uk, germany
But in african countries there is nothing better than tinder. When I went to nigeria I was eating like crazy. I had like a different chick sleeping over every night and sometimes was meeting up with 3 women in one day.
 

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NYC black coffee tough guys aka the Stoozy Boys
need some help.. i don’t have experience cold approaching :yeshrug: most of ya know this.. I get women other ways but anyway I work in a hospital and we have a gift shop next to my department…. Their is a new cashier working there:wow::wow::wow::wow:damn she fine.. I bought some snacks and I didn’t realized how fine she was tillI I paid:mjlol:
How do I go about this? I don’t issue talking to women but cold approach never been part of my game:snoop:
Any tips?
I’m guessing buying shyt every day and not saying anything is stupid as shyt lol


If it ain't broke don't fix it, authors say, write what you know, I say; do what you know. With that said, time + proximity remain undefeated, you really don't need to buy anything to be around her, just mention a tv show, or anything pop culture. I think i mentioned this before, every girl out there is watching; Stranger things, downton abbey and or anything Marvel..in fact, that's one of my "lines", now I don't believe in corny pickup lines, however, I know birds, and they'lll do anything to try and stand out or defend their stands on something ridiculous, even if it is to correct you, so opening up with a "Oh I know you watch Stranger Things", in a playful manner, will do two things; get her to respond immediately and say that she doesn't or that she does, usually replied with a "how did you know?"

The point is suss out a general interaction. No one bemoans anyone that knows more than them when it comes to pop culture, people are naturally fomo and want to join a club, women express this heavy. The minute you get her replying to you, the minute you got her hooked line and sinker. Pretend you're gonna buy something, then boom , stop halfway and lure her in.

She's more than likely bored out of her mind anyway, this work setting, happens to be one of the places I say its a plus, to cold approach women. Mainly because they're done with the tedium/monotony, and they're usually submissive to any kind of conversation. Plus, nurses, and desk whores are always the easiest.
 

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:mjlol:

Why did she magically hit you up after 10 yrs?

I think the wall hit for her.

She used to get mad attention in high school / college, atleast 100+ likes on every photo, short (5”0) Guyanese Indian chick, big breast, skinny figure. Cute face.

But now she’s blew the fukk up. Idk if she was drinking or what, but I’m assuming all her options ran out and she’s just hitting guys up.
 
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