Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

interesing....

 

[TRUEST]

I think its still good, because no matter how much they want to conceal the truth, its not something you can ultimately pretend like isnt there. watching a girls attitude, and her actions will shed light into seeing what shes about.

watching a show for entertainment, vs watching a show in which you identify with, can be a huge difference. the trick here is to watch her mouth, and see if her attitude mirrors the characters on these shows. even a small amount of discussion, and indirect probing, like kev said, would tell a lot. also sooner or later those wretched, selfish, and spoiled ways will come from out of her, and knowing that she is into those shows ahead of times will give you that much of a go-ahead to axe her. no fixing her, no feeding into her drama, just letting that one go

as sharp as women want to be, those who are watching with their eyes and ears will be sharper. you can spot someone whos fronting if youre really looking at what shes doing and how she carries herself.

there's enough gems in this thread to allow a scandalous b1tch enough time to deceive a man, have his child and take him for what he's got.

a chick can put on the proper camouflage that will allow her to stay hidden long enough to carry out her agenda.

 

[MikelArteta]

My husband killed himself after we split - The Globe and Mail

 

[MikelArteta]

Been reading this topic for a few days before I decided to finally post. Picked up a few gems through the reading.. So heres my story.

Been talking to this girl since last year February on a social site we flirted a lot but never took it past that till july when we exchanged numbers. Fast forward we talked for a few months didn’t see each other due to the difference in schedules, me chilling with my friends and other chick and her always chilling with her friends every free moment she got but we talked daily had a good connection. I would say we didn’t see each other till one night late September when I was drunk and just sent her my **** pic and she came over 2am. We f***ed that night she came back next weekend we f***ed again. Didn’t see each other for about a month and change cause I was working on this career move. Seen each other 2-3 times in the November and dec and smashed again. We had our first date early jan because I wanted to go to this spot my friends been talking about so I just took her along for the ride. Date was actually great we talked learned a more about each other and just got a chance to vibe.

Problem is there’s been times we was suppose to see each other and it get cancelled because her friend’s always got something they want her to go tag along with so she’ll cancel and go. Spoke about it that felt as if it fell on deaf ears. Now as of late we have nothing to talk about so communication has been low compared to how it use to be. Been a few time’s I’ve logged onto social sites and I see guys writing her flirtatious comments not to say she’s flirting but more she’s entertaining it by responding even if it’s just a “lol”. Already said what I think and feel about it let her tell it she doesn’t consider that flirting. I also feel from what I see that she post’s certain things for attention almost as if her life solely revolves around social network, attention, thirst and the approval of others on these sites. The effort she puts to her friends and social sites would be a hell of an effort towards me and her actually building something. Something else I’ve spoke about. At this point I’m tired of talking especially when nothing is making a difference.

Me- Handsome guy, ambitious, no kids, good place in life and everyone who knows me knows I’m working hard to step into a even better place soon. BMW 650, own place.

Her- Decent face, nice body, unemployed, not in school…

why are you even wasitn gyour time with a broad like this?

this is another reason i tell folks to watch out when dealign with chicks you meet on dating sites or social networks, cuz they wont get off it. let me ask you something yous ent her your dikk pic and she was offing slobbing and riding your dikk, do yu actually thik that was the first time for her? shes a whore, her inbox is prob filled of dudes messaging her, shes prob going out random times of the week riding the cock carousel.

wow she has a ass, beauty is fleeting breh, there are many women in the world with a beautiful ass that arent attention whores and chatting up with numerous guys who have a job.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

You don't dump her immediately, but you need to keep all of that in your mind. See how she reacts to those shows. If she is constantly watching that and she is remarking things like, "That's my girl," etc., you better start really doing your homework on her. If her favorite shows are shows like Sex and the City and things like Bad Girls Club, that's a red flag. There is something in those shows that the woman really finds entertaining and it's up to you to figure out what it really is. If a woman really enjoys shows where women are acting scandalously and you even notice her mimicking some of the behavior, you better bail out. People ARE influenced by what they constantly watch. The extent of that influence depends on their own personal character and principles, but if they are constantly watching moralless drivel, you seriously better start doing a deep assessment of who you are dealing with.

So much truth... the women in those shows are so damn selfish. I was head over heels with a girl that was a huge fan of Sex and the City and called Nurse Jackie sexually empowered because she cheated on her husband. I don't even have to follow up with a story to let you know how that panned out for me.

 

[MikelArteta]

i was talking to a coworker today whose divorced and he was telling me how now he just uses escorts, he has 3-4 that he sees regularly and each 1hr session costs him 100 bucks, he goes like twice a week, so ike 800 a month.

there is nothing wrong with this dude hes not fat, ugly (no homo), he just told me he doesnt want to deal with the relationship aspect, so he goes does his deed and leave.

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[MikelArteta]

So much truth... the women in those shows are so damn selfish. I was head over heels with a girl that was a huge fan of Sex and the City and called Nurse Jackie sexually empowered because she cheated on her husband. I don't even have to follow up with a story to let you know how that panned out for me.

breh be careful of all those women who love the notebook titanic etc., movies that validate cheating and following your heart

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

looks like it's back to hanging out in this thread again

You're gonna be all right, breh. We all gotta go back to the well to remind ourselves what to do.

 

[CASHAPP]

Husband of mom murdered in Turkey posted notes about infidelity before she went missing - NYPOST.com

Staten Island wife slain in Turkey had sex in bar restroom before murder in Istanbul - NYPOST.com

Her wake will be on Valentines Day; You cannot get more ironic than that folks

 

[CASHAPP]

i was talking to a coworker today whose divorced and he was telling me how now he just uses escorts, he has 3-4 that he sees regularly and each 1hr session costs him 100 bucks, he goes like twice a week, so ike 800 a month.

there is nothing wrong with this dude hes not fat, ugly (no homo), he just told me he doesnt want to deal with the relationship aspect, so he goes does his deed and leave.

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Sounds like me. Except not as often. People knock it but like your coworker said its fun without the hassles. When my status is bigger down the line, If I am single I will be doing it more often.

For the most part no annoying questions, or leeches who want to be in your personal business.

 

[MikelArteta]

You're gonna be all right, breh. We all gotta go back to the well to remind ourselves what to do.

one of the hardest thing for a man to realize is that what you have is not special, that ":you dont know my girl like i do" ish is a joke and that the majority of women are wired the same.
you learned from your mistakes and your going to be different this time, only to realize its not you its them. You'll say damn i wont date a black girl anymore, or a white girl, or a asian, or a girl from a single parent home, or a girl with money etc. only to realize it doesnt matter

and i agree it takes time, weve all been there, read the link i posted above, men take heeartbreak, and failure in marriage, long term relationships harder than females, there is no outlet. I remember back when i was extremely , and there was nothing just had to suck it up every day, chick was on my mind from as soon as i went up till iw ent to sleep tormenting me, days, weeks, months, it took me going away on vacation for a few weeks to finally get her off my mind, i read countless of relationship forums, topics, mens rights blogs, forums, marriage forums and it was always repeating men getting screwed, men heartbroken but no outlet, it took me years to get to th epoint i am right now, sometimes a little portion of me says sign up for a dating site, go out there find someone, like a old drug addict and his friend telling him just take one snort man

then i just dwelve into my old notes again and realize the reward isnt worth the risk, im not scared or bitter, im content, im happy. I remember i think from the age of 16 up to like 25 i always had a chick on valentines day, past 3 years its just been me

sad thing is id make a great father and husband but its just not worth it

i posted a link to a story i came across today and i was reading some of the comments

I completely understand the wish to commit suicide in this circumstance - been there, but didn't quite do it. My wife left me for another man when my children were a little over a year old - to say I was blind-sided is putting it mildly. The hole that one feels in one's life in this circumstance is hard to describe, but it is aching and corrosive.

Immediately after you've been told that the love of your life actually doesn't think much of you, the lawyers jump in and in neat legalese, tell you that your relationship with your children is forever fractured, and that you have NO CHANCE of custody. Oh - and you owe her and your lawyers a ton of money. Matrimonial home? The dream home you purchased together? She keeps it because it will be good for the kids. Your new digs will be a rented apartment in a slightly dodgy building.

So - you're alone. Worse, you know that the one person you loved most in the world feels contempt for you (how else could you cuckold someone?) and is doing all the things you did - sharing all the moments, the intimacies, the shared experiences that you valued with someone else. Oh - and you're broke. At the time our divorce was finalized, I was able to rescue about $110k from the smoking ruins of my life - but stupidly, I allowed my wife to pay it out in installments which she frequently missed and never fully paid. If I missed one ( I did - but only once - the cheque bounced) of my child support payments however... ! Between child support and alimony I was paying, at the start, about $25k a year - my gross pay was a little over $65k... after taxes that left me a little over $20k a year to live on... do able - but not easy.

no - I understand the wish to off oneself all too well. I went as far as buying the aluminium hose and duct tape to poison/suffocate myself in my car... in the end the only reason I didn't was that I didn't want my sons to grow up without their real father around.

My point? Divorce is probably the most difficult thing that most people can conceive of. I realize now that the divorce was hard on my ex wife too - the difference however, is that in our society, divorces seem, disproportionately, to be blamed on men (we were too insensitive, didn't pay attention, didn't work hard enough,earn enough etc etc etc.), and divorce LAW is written for the protection of women (and ostensibly children). The result is that in divorce, men are usually seen as the culpable party regardless of the circumstances, are immediately estranged from their own families, and presented with what is often crippling debt.

I'm not surprised that men commit suicide after divorce. I was suicidal for a full 2 and a half - 3 years following my divorce - and I am not someone who had EVER considered such a thing - it's not in my nature. No - I am surprised that more men don't commit suicide after divorce.

like i said not worth it

 

[MikelArteta]

Sounds like me. Except not as often. People knock it but like your coworker said its fun without the hassles. When my status is bigger down the line, If I am single I will be doing it more often.

For the most part no annoying questions, or leeches who want to be in your personal business.

"prostitutes are the most honest women"

i dont knock it, i live a life of abstience but if i was back in my old ways id probably dable in it, find like two chicks and you become a regular will prob charge you 20-25% less, just in and out no strings attached.

 

[MikelArteta]

Husband of mom murdered in Turkey posted notes about infidelity before she went missing - NYPOST.com

Staten Island wife slain in Turkey had sex in bar restroom before murder in Istanbul - NYPOST.com

Her wake will be on Valentines Day; You cannot get more ironic than that folks

Her secret lover, identified by Turkish media only as Tarkan K., began communicating with Sierra three or four months ago, his lawyer said.

Ozkan Polat said his client “comes from a good family and completed a master’s program abroad. . . . [He’s] very demoralized.”

The two met online and Sierra, 33, e-mailed him, “I’m coming to Turkey. Can we meet?” Polat told Turkish media.


shouts from the mountain top keylogger

two kids at home and a faithful husband but life is boring no thrills, let me fly halfway across the wrld by myself to meet a foreign person who will screw my brains out, kids? husband? who cares.

i bet the sex wasnt even protected, and now shes dead and her husband knows she cheated on him, and her kids google and know their mommy wasnt faithful

GET MARRIED BREHS

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

There are many reasons that I would call this man "unmanly" on looks alone, but that sign just seals the deal. shyt is cringe worthy. This is pretty much the last guy that I would go to for reassurance that taking it up the ass with a strap on isn't unmanly.

 

[Ohene]

how do i copy a link to a twitter post?

none of you nikkas better out me...but peep the post on this page about:

https://twitter.com/menacedesociety

"Girl's lets be serious, were only in our 20s, do you know how much more people were going to me"

That was enough forme to . Because it's true, a girl shouldnt strap herself down or necesssarily settle. Compromise yes, bus not settle. But peep the first reply:

"Never get tricked into a life of slavery, go out and gets lots of young big cock"

My generation is fukked