Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Spacejam23
Rookie
How many apps are you. OnYeah, it's free. They do have a paid tier where you can see who likes you. But you can also just swipe through and find them.
Pros
- The women I've met on there seem to be a lot more clear-headed about what they're seeking. And actually do value clear communication. Also all the women I've met on there liked me first. I feel as a man that she's signalled she's interested and it takes a lot of the guesswork out. You've passed her initial attraction test.
- I set up my profile to attract a certain type of woman and so far it's worked. I make three things very clear in my profile, I'm seeing other women, I value good communication and no foolishness. And I take my sexual health very, very seriously and they need to as well. I even share the place I get my checkups. A lot of women who connect with me say they really liked that I mentioned that.
- Met an Indian chick on there I mentioned in this thread a few weeks ago. Seen her a few times now and she's great company and the sex with her is amazing. The body on this woman is sinful. But along with that, I like that I can have fulfilling conversations along with us having sex. And it's a very no-pressure hangout. I've found that with all the women I've met here.
- I now like meeting kink-friendly women, so this is a great place for that. And these chicks want a man who they trust and who can follow through.
Cons?
- How good are you with sex-positive lingo? If you can speak it you'll do great on here. Women on here value aftercare. Especially the ones into the more play kink scenarios
- All women like spanking, but there is a skill to that. So get good at it and man these women will go wild.
- The quality of women you'll see depends on where you live. In big cities, you should have a good amount of decent looking women.
- Also and I've seen people mention it on here before for the other dating apps. If the women in your area are bigger that's probably what you'll be seeing on here. I've seen 1 or 2 bigger women but it's mostly been slim and women who keep fit.
- You need patience. Don't think just because the women on here are a lot more open about their sexual wants that they'll want to fukk asap. If you're the type of guy who needs a reply from a chick asap and will send three messages in a row, each one getting angrier and angrier this app won't work for you.
- You may get guys or couples liking your profile
but you can minus people from your feed and you won't see them.
Basically come across as a fun guy who knows how to do stuff like spank a woman properly. And you'll do well
But to reiterate again you will need the patience to start off here. I have a roster so I'm not bothered with waiting for a chick to get back to me.
but like normal apps the sooner you get her onto whatsapp etc the sooner you'll
Im currenlty signed up to.l all
4tinder,hinge, bumble , feeld
Its kunda overwhelming whichs ones are besst.
I just got on feeld would say it better in vancouver than in other areaz
Spacejam23
Rookie
Just trying to get some good results the more i hear about these the more nuanced this stuff it kinda gets me kinda mad like whst am i missing or i start doubting myself . Thinking its me.cause im not getting results like others
Seen one of my hinge matches at a party. She was dancing on women. I assumed she was bi which had me interested. Had her come to the crib. She says she not bi and just dances with her friends 
also said she had been celibate for 3 years but I hit the next morning
I would cut her off but she got a phatty
also said she had been celibate for 3 years but I hit the next morning I would cut her off but she got a phatty
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Atm only really on Feeld. My other accounts are paused.
I've met up with women from all 4 apps.
Atm, for you I'd say stick to Hinge and Bumble. Tinder has been fully overtaken by escorts, IG thots looking for followers and women who don't even live in the country.
For feeld you need a bit of experience under your belt. As women are expecting to see certain terms before they believe you know what you're talking about. You could bullshyt, but she'll twig fairly quickly.
I'll never class myself as a dating expert, but I know what mostly works for me. A lot of this is nuance. The more dates and romantic interactions you have the more you learn to read a woman. Like I know when a woman is open to being touched or kissed and when she's not.
Now she's never going to straight-up tell you to kiss her, but she will create the opportunity for you to make your move. Like the chick, I went on a date with yesterday evening. Her asking me to walk her to her building entrance was her signalling she wanted me to say goodnight properly. And thus I kissed her and she reciprocated.
Sex will come when you are relaxed and the woman is as well. Trying to skip the opening steps will make her pull back. Just focus on having a good time and everything else will fall into place.
Like, ask yourself what do you want at this moment? A girlfriend? Just a hookup, FWB situation, once you've worked that out you can begin to at least work things out a bit more. And not waste your time or a chick looking for something different.
Deathstroke
Pro
Guys I’m confused with this new chick I started seeing. Mixed african chick from Europe and moved to my city about 2months ago. Met her 3weeks ago and asked her out the same day I got her ig, and she said yes. She’s really great and I’m digging her. She’s also very honest with me. Told me from the jump she wants something real and she’s real careful so things always move slow with her. I say yea for sure cause that’s what they all say. I still tried kissing her on the second date because I thought I was the shyt and I’m a fly nikka
(we were touching a lot, she was staring in my soul and shyt) and she playfully dodged it and started laughing. I was mad af cause this the first time it ever happens to me, but I kept it playa and turned it into a “damn I thought I was Casanova” joke . Made a few other jokes about it and she seemed surprised by my reaction and laughed a lot. I was going to fall back but the next day she asked me out and she’s been initiating to see me a lot since(she paid for a few dates as well). Never had an issue not seeing her, she was only mad once when I told her I couldn’t make it anymore cause she took too long and I was out with friends. Still ended up seeing her later that day though.
Now we’ve been trying to get to know each other. The issue is she has the same personality as me, we joke a lot, tease a lot, we’re comfortable but we’re also sort of shy and quiet in general. I’m used to dating girls who are way more talkative and extrovert than me. In this case, she behaves too much like me so I have to behave differently and find to ways to get her to open. On saturday, she even mentioned she finds me very mysterious and that she’s trying to figure me out but she can’t and feels like I don’t talk that much about myself. However she can tell I’m someone who puts in efforts and she likes that.
I was like girl your ass is the exact same
and she started laughing and agreed.
How do I proceed with this shyt? Should I apply that pressure/keep seeing her that much or should I fall back ?
(we were touching a lot, she was staring in my soul and shyt) and she playfully dodged it and started laughing. I was mad af cause this the first time it ever happens to me, but I kept it playa and turned it into a “damn I thought I was Casanova” joke . Made a few other jokes about it and she seemed surprised by my reaction and laughed a lot. I was going to fall back but the next day she asked me out and she’s been initiating to see me a lot since(she paid for a few dates as well). Never had an issue not seeing her, she was only mad once when I told her I couldn’t make it anymore cause she took too long and I was out with friends. Still ended up seeing her later that day though.Now we’ve been trying to get to know each other. The issue is she has the same personality as me, we joke a lot, tease a lot, we’re comfortable but we’re also sort of shy and quiet in general. I’m used to dating girls who are way more talkative and extrovert than me. In this case, she behaves too much like me so I have to behave differently and find to ways to get her to open. On saturday, she even mentioned she finds me very mysterious and that she’s trying to figure me out but she can’t and feels like I don’t talk that much about myself. However she can tell I’m someone who puts in efforts and she likes that.
I was like girl your ass is the exact same
and she started laughing and agreed.How do I proceed with this shyt? Should I apply that pressure/keep seeing her that much or should I fall back ?
Thelonious Napz
All Star
Wrong thread lol
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Thelonious Napz
All Star
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Pause her and come back to it later. You only on this high with her cause you chasing.Guys I’m confused with this new chick I started seeing. Mixed african chick from Europe and moved to my city about 2months ago. Met her 3weeks ago and asked her out the same day I got her ig, and she said yes. She’s really great and I’m digging her. She’s also very honest with me. Told me from the jump she wants something real and she’s real careful so things always move slow with her. I say yea for sure cause that’s what they all say. I still tried kissing her on the second date because I thought I was the shyt and I’m a fly nikka
Now we’ve been trying to get to know each other. The issue is she has the same personality as me, we joke a lot, tease a lot, we’re comfortable but we’re also sort of shy and quiet in general. I’m used to dating girls who are way more talkative and extrovert than me. In this case, she behaves too much like me so I have to behave differently and find to ways to get her to open. On saturday, she even mentioned she finds me very mysterious and that she’s trying to figure me out but she can’t and feels like I don’t talk that much about myself. However she can tell I’m someone who puts in efforts and she likes that.
I was like girl your ass is the exact same
How do I proceed with this shyt? Should I apply that pressure/keep seeing her that much or should I fall back ?
agpxknt
AGCxKMT
when a female start throwing choosing signals I gotta jump on it immediately, I keep screwing myself over waiting for too long 
fukk it! I'ma get some creeper boots.
Live your life Breh lol
BRUH THE FEELD APP GOT SOME BAD ONES!!!!! And they DTF!
Killigraphy
Banned
It really depends. If shes obedient, always DTF, I don't need to text much, just meet up, a compliment here and there, ask for some nudes and then follow up with meet ups. I rarely entertain texts from women, I'd had ex's try to start full blown debates through, text, till I destroy their whole life and then just tell me to call them later/show me their t*ts.How often do y'all be texting these chicks?
I feel like I get a better feel for em when I text em every day but I don't have time for that
When I text em every few days or so some of them take days to reply or don't text back at all
Women are silly, ans should never be taken seriously. Unless you're playing the long game.
Keep your room and/or car messy if they come over
Not neccessarily nasty but just a little messy
If your house/car is spotless clean, it’s almost like your too perfect & there is nothing to fix.
It feeds their narcissistic drive to fix a man, and you get a free maid.
Trust me on this.
Not neccessarily nasty but just a little messy
If your house/car is spotless clean, it’s almost like your too perfect & there is nothing to fix.
It feeds their narcissistic drive to fix a man, and you get a free maid.
Trust me on this.
Yes can co-sign lol
I’ve had 3 women clean different parts of my place
Start washing dishes, putting clothes in a hamper / doing laundry, making my bed, etc