Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The most productive way to

a) get a woman to let you fukk
b) get a woman to continuously let you fukk

is to build a genuine connection with her, even if it's fake (oxymoronic I know). Which leads me back to treating a woman like a friend (homeboy), you need to give her cool chilled vibes not putting the p*ssy on the pedestal so it's best to treat her like someone you've known for years.

It's one of the oldest tricks in the socialising book, when you meet someone treat them like an old friend you haven't seen in many years, in my life this trick has opened so many doors on the occasions I've used it(user discretion advised).

I digress though, I've really been out here fukking bytches for years. 6 Summers straight on fire, all facts no cap.
bytches dont want to fukk there friends. this makes no sense.
 

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You guys sending following up messages if they don’t respond in a few days? I send them and lot of times I been getting unmatched. Is it better to let it go or at least send one follow up message and they might unmatch you? Not responding and unmatching is pretty much same thing?
To be honest, I don't.

What I have done is months down the line while unmatching old matches I'd send a message along the lines of 'Hey, I got a degree, above 6ft with a full beard, I'm caviar out here don't miss out, lets talk'

I haven't got replied and even a number from it, but in reality it comes off as thirsty and sets you back on being socially approved so I wouldn't advise to do it, just chalk it to the game.
 

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bytches dont want to fukk there friends. this makes no sense.
My use of the word friends is synonymous with genuine connection. Women wanna fukk guys they have genuine connections with hence why all the chicks have 'swipe left if you want a one night stand', you gotta play the game bro.

When you have a crazy roster of chicks it's because they all value their connection with you, whatever capacity that is.
 

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My use of the word friends is synonymous with genuine connection. Women wanna fukk guys they have genuine connections with hence why all the chicks have 'swipe left if you want a one night stand', you gotta play the game bro.

When you have a crazy roster of chicks it's because they all value their connection with you, whatever capacity that is.
you still gotta have that sexual connection/energy tho. I feel what youre saying but in general bytches dont get wet from thinking about a friend. plus when you are a friend you are too readily available.
 

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You guys sending following up messages if they don’t respond in a few days? I send them and lot of times I been getting unmatched. Is it better to let it go or at least send one follow up message and they might unmatch you? Not responding and unmatching is pretty much same thing?
I didn’t/wouldn’t on an app. 2-3 days of decent convo accounting for the fact she likely works during the day and then I did/would ask for the number and take it offline.
 

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You guys sending following up messages if they don’t respond in a few days? I send them and lot of times I been getting unmatched. Is it better to let it go or at least send one follow up message and they might unmatch you? Not responding and unmatching is pretty much same thing?
Goal is to get off the app as fast as possible, and in general dont even speak to chicks if you arent serious about meeting with in a week
 

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you still gotta have that sexual connection/energy tho. I feel what youre saying but in general bytches dont get wet from thinking about a friend. plus when you are a friend you are too readily available.

You don't literally give her friend vibes, like I said I lay my game down flat and tell her I want to pin her against a wall so she's clear. This technique works if you're a desirable male because you can work with that sexual attraction.

Women want men they believe or think other women want. You gotta be that catch lol.
 

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The most productive way to

a) get a woman to let you fukk
b) get a woman to continuously let you fukk

is to build a genuine connection with her, even if it's fake (oxymoronic I know). Which leads me back to treating a woman like a friend (homeboy), you need to give her cool chilled vibes not putting the p*ssy on the pedestal so it's best to treat her like someone you've known for years.

It's one of the oldest tricks in the socialising book, when you meet someone treat them like an old friend you haven't seen in many years, in my life this trick has opened so many doors on the occasions I've used it(user discretion advised).

I digress though, I've really been out here fukking bytches for years. 6 Summers straight on fire, all facts no cap.

I totally get where you coming from...

But everyone doesn't have the patience to pull it off..it's a science within itself
 
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The most productive way to

a) get a woman to let you fukk
b) get a woman to continuously let you fukk

is to build a genuine connection with her, even if it's fake (oxymoronic I know). Which leads me back to treating a woman like a friend (homeboy), you need to give her cool chilled vibes not putting the p*ssy on the pedestal so it's best to treat her like someone you've known for years.

It's one of the oldest tricks in the socialising book, when you meet someone treat them like an old friend you haven't seen in many years, in my life this trick has opened so many doors on the occasions I've used it(user discretion advised).

I digress though, I've really been out here fukking bytches for years. 6 Summers straight on fire, all facts no cap.
some brehs are taking the "old friend" portion and misinterpreting it, but i get what you mean, and totally agree. it's really just a matter of making a bytch feel like a person, even if you truly only see them as a vagina with limbs.

asking probing questions that require answers beyond yes/no, breadcrumbing, influencing them to share their opinion, building comfort. these nikkas see it as simping or whatever, but being a skilled conversationalist is invaluable in all facets of life.
 

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I totally get where you coming from...

But everyone doesn't have the patience to pull it off..it's a science within itself
Completely agree.



some brehs are taking the "old friend" portion and misinterpreting it, but i get what you mean, and totally agree. it's really just a matter of making a bytch feel like a person, even if you truly only see them as a vagina with limbs.

asking probing questions that require answers beyond yes/no, breadcrumbing, influencing them to share their opinion, building comfort. these nikkas see it as simping or whatever, but being a skilled conversationalist is invaluable in all facets of life.
To someone that's not deep in the game, it will sound like I'm speaking spanish. You clearly got the vision so you probably been out here mann.

Sometimes you need the vision to over stand teachings, that's why the real game is to be sold and not told.

This threads dope tho, summers in full swing, Imma stepping it up this year :salute:
 

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You guys sending following up messages if they don’t respond in a few days? I send them and lot of times I been getting unmatched. Is it better to let it go or at least send one follow up message and they might unmatch you? Not responding and unmatching is pretty much same thing?
Just had a thought avoit my own question. Since it’s all about leverage and Framing the relationship from the jump sending follow up messages just gives them the upper hand.

What I’m a do is wait like a week and send a follow up that says “what’s up, name?”. Becsuse you do have to give some women benefit of the doubt maybe they are busy or got Covid. By just saying what’s up and waiting s week you kind of resetting the conversation. And I’m only sending one follow ip.
 
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i've been on an unprecedented run the last few months, but still have these moments where i think about my stupid ass ex.

like damn, how much new p*ssy is it going to take to completely expunge this bytch from my consciousness?
 

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Just had a thought avoit my own question. Since it’s all about leverage and Framing the relationship from the jump sending follow up messages just gives them the upper hand.

What I’m a do is wait like a week and send a follow up that says “what’s up, name?”. Becsuse you do have to give some women benefit of the doubt maybe they are busy or got Covid. By just saying what’s up and waiting s week you kind of resetting the conversation. And I’m only sending one follow ip.
A week?!:why:

How many times we got to tell y’all?
 

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i've been on an unprecedented run the last few months, but still have these moments where i think about my stupid ass ex.

like damn, how much new p*ssy is it going to take to completely expunge this bytch from my consciousness?

Imagine her doing a shyt every time you think about her
 
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