Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I already know what she'll do. Regardless of how she feels she'll just hit me with the "Ok." reply.

in person or through text

trust me man just end it.. she isn't respecting you at all in any way with how she is acting. The ONLY exceptions EVER in situations like these where your woman would act this way would possibly be a huge family problem like in terms of a death,etc.

If nothing is going on personally then there is no exception. Just end it. That is what will show her true colors to you. Especially if you look at the guy she ends up with after. Or if you see her with someone else a day after.
 

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trust me man just end it.. she isn't respecting you at all in any way with how she is acting. The ONLY exceptions EVER in situations like these where your woman would act this way would possibly be a huge family problem like in terms of a death,etc.

If nothing is going on personally then there is no exception. Just end it. That is what will show her true colors to you. Especially if you look at the guy she ends up with after. Or if you see her with someone else a day after.

You and I both know its not that easy bro. I been with this chick for 5 yrs. Been through mad shyt. It's not that easy. I'm not Pretty Tony or f*cking casanova lol
 

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Reminds me of the story on here somewhere on the Coli about how this girl was getting flabby and sick and basically not taking the marriage seriously anymore, randomly saying one day that she thinks the two of them should move on.....

And pretty much teasing and doing that "game Playing" some of these girls do to get a reaction,

The dude on here(cant remember who) then surprised the hell out of her and showed her divorce papers shortly after and long story short all of a sudden now she wants to be all "we dont have to go that far baby"

Going as far as to wake him up in the morning sucking his dikk because now all of a sudden she doesnt want it to end :upsetfavre:

I would honestly tell you to just break up with your girl and tell us what her reaction will be.

that n1gga is in love and aint got the heart to end it. all the advice in the world aint gonna set him straight.

breakups are only valid if done from a stance of apathy.
 
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that n1gga is in love and aint got the heart to end it. all the advice in the world aint gonna set him straight.

breakups are only valid if done from a stance of apathy.
it sound more like he's scared of taking a L and leaving because it would mean he wasted 5 years of his life he invested into her

@NerdNash if you know ya girl wouldn't care if you left why not just get some p*ssy on the side? :leon:
 
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I already know what she'll do. Regardless of how she feels she'll just hit me with the "Ok." reply.

in person or through text

:skip: Breh, you don't need to be in a relationship with a woman you know would have that reaction to you breaking up. The day a man starts caring more about the relationship than the woman (ESPECIALLY before marriage) is the day the countdown to unhappiness/disrespect begins :to:
 

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:skip: Breh, you don't need to be in a relationship with a woman you know would have that reaction to you breaking up. The day a man starts caring more about the relationship than the woman (ESPECIALLY before marriage) is the day the countdown to unhappiness/disrespect begins :to:

":he who cares less wins"
 
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man.........

My girl started back school again so she been busy but i still be trying to f*ck and she just doesn't to like that anymore. she's saying its because she's always tired and has school on her mind. So we got into it....

basically her saying school is more important (she's right) ... but still... a n1gga needs the box....

plus, i been down on hard times a little bit so i've been kinda insecure, thinking she's sneaking around and sh1t...

thats a short summary lol

You share that girl :skip:
You probably are sharing her though :sadcam:
 

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If I can remember the site I'll post it here but I read an article in which a neo feminist talked about a woman's right to choose. She basically said paternity shouldn't solely be biological. She went on to say that a woman should be able to procreate with any man she wants, and in turn have another man provide the financial, and emotional support. How crazy is that? Some women strictly view us as a means to an end.

Those type of women are not even worthy of discussion. They want their so called "alpha" male baby being raised by a spineless dude and treat dudes like cars.
 

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You and I both know its not that easy bro. I been with this chick for 5 yrs. Been through mad shyt. It's not that easy. I'm not Pretty Tony or f*cking casanova lol

So your issue is youre worried you wont pull another? :beli:

That kind of crippling mindset is a disease that probably wasted the last 5 years of your life. Throw her in the bushes and find another woman, theyre not hard to come by. Most of them dont even get approached in real life.
 

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Help a breh out.

Tonight I invited a much older Spanish chick to join me at bar/ lounge.

This is the first time I ever kicked it with a chick much older then me. Especially one that's had a lot experience dealing with nikkas.

First date was good convo (she was feeling me)

We on Date 2 tonight. how should I play this in my favor?

Edit:
-Im 22
-She's 27 pushing 28
-only been living the states for 6-7 years
-no kids (:win: go figure)
 

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Help a breh out.

Tonight I invited a much older Spanish chick to join me at bar/ lounge.

This is the first time I ever kicked it with a chick much older then me. Especially one that's had a lot experience dealing with nikkas.

First date was good convo (she was feeling me)

We on Date 2 tonight. how should I play this in my favor?

Edit:
-Im 22
-She's 27 pushing 28
-only been living the states for 6-7 years
-no kids (:win: go figure)

she's been living in the states? so she's not a citizen? just make sure she aint trying to use u to get papers.
 
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