Don't hit her up again unless she responds but honestly her lack of response is telling, even if a chick is "busy" they find the time regardless of what they've got going on.
Sounds like you aren't even remotely a priority breh, bush her.
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Sounds like you aren't even remotely a priority breh, bush her.
Virtuous_Brotha
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8 days of cold silence since a hinge first date (we've been texting for 2 months and finally met), this isn't good sign. Previous date i went on (different chick) this also happened but i dropped my guard and broke the silence after a week. bytch said she is no longer interested in me after meeting in person but was nervous to tell me. To not even get a it was nice meeting you text shortly after usually suggests she ain't feeling me.
I'm not expected to be the one to reach out first again to this one am i ? Probably gonna hear the same shyt i'd rather just not know and naturally fade out of existence to her
I'm not expected to be the one to reach out first again to this one am i ? Probably gonna hear the same shyt i'd rather just not know and naturally fade out of existence to her
8 days……It’s done keep it pushing8 days of cold silence since a hinge first date (we've been texting for 2 months and finally met), this isn't good sign. Previous date i went on (different chick) this also happened but i dropped my guard and broke the silence after a week. bytch said she is no longer interested in me after meeting in person but was nervous to tell me. To not even get a it was nice meeting you text shortly after usually suggests she ain't feeling me.
I'm not expected to be the one to reach out first again to this one am i ? Probably gonna hear the same shyt i'd rather just not know and naturally fade out of existence to her
Why did you wait two months to meet?
Probably wouldn’t have waited that long after either situation to contact them if you were interested.
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Virtuous_Brotha
Superstar
She actually deleted her hinge account and dropped her number saying contact if you wanna keep in touch so i wasn't on some eager beaver shyt thinking she might not actually be focussed on meeting anyone so wasn't in no hurry. I kinda purposefully took it slow, although we spoke quite a lot but yeah gonna write this one off just can't see any scenario of a date going well and having a week of silence. Unless as the man i'm meant to be chasing more but fuk that8 days……It’s done keep it pushing
Why did you wait two months to meet?
Probably wouldn’t have waited that long after either situation to contact them if you were interested.
I lurk in this thread every now and then. I remember when I was that dude who was stressed if a chick would reply back to me or not.
In my present state I would laugh and clown at that dude.
The best thing going is to be a little cold to some of these women.
In my present state I would laugh and clown at that dude.
The best thing going is to be a little cold to some of these women.
The little games and things was your downfall. She deleted the app and gave you the number and you played it slow. That makes zero sense. If they don’t want to meet they won’t.She actually deleted her hinge account and dropped her number saying contact if you wanna keep in touch so i wasn't on some eager beaver shyt thinking she might not actually be focussed on meeting anyone so wasn't in no hurry. I kinda purposefully took it slow, although we spoke quite a lot but yeah gonna write this one off just can't see any scenario of a date going well and having a week of silence. Unless as the man i'm meant to be chasing more but fuk that
You are supposed to chase to a reasonable degree. Waiting to follow-up after a date if you want the chick should be the move. You don’t have to be thirsty but if you want her make the move. Of course if you got an entire roster and don’t really want her that’s a different story.
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These women all retarded as hell.Time to blow it up and chill for a few months.
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Virtuous_Brotha
Superstar
Highly doubt the amount of time it took to meet was a factor as you said she wouldn't have agreed to it in the first place. It's more about how the meeting actually went which was probably shyt given the silence
Yeah but how much time did you waste playing it safe to get that result? That’s my point.Highly doubt the amount of time it took to meet was a factor as you said she wouldn't have agreed to it in the first place. It's more about how the meeting actually went which was probably shyt given the silence
It's absurd to be waiting two months to meet a chick in 2022. If a chick isn't ready to meet within the first two weeks (absent extraordinary circumstances), unmatch, because she is probably using you for attention. Duke wasted an extra month and a half of his life talking to a chick that didn't amount to shyt.
African Peasant
Veteran
Be serious and don't take women seriously.
Woman I messed with last night turned out to be a single mom lol. I get on my KS and start grilling. Shes 24 with 2 boys (Ages - 3 & 5), I’m like so… what does the father do?
“Hes good, he’s there, she’s suces-MOTIVATED” lmao
And you ended it why?
“He didn’t wana go to the next level?”
Marriage?
“Yes”
Shouldn’t you have thought about that before having 2 kids with him?
“Wow you’re 29 with no kids! That’s rare”
“Hes good, he’s there, she’s suces-MOTIVATED” lmao
And you ended it why?
“He didn’t wana go to the next level?”
Marriage?
“Yes”
Shouldn’t you have thought about that before having 2 kids with him?
“Wow you’re 29 with no kids! That’s rare”
havoc
Superstar
So, after she made that comment that you are a rare childless 29 year old man, did you guys had a good time ?Woman I messed with last night turned out to be a single mom lol. I get on my KS and start grilling. Shes 24 with 2 boys (Ages - 3 & 5), I’m like so… what does the father do?
“Hes good, he’s there, she’s suces-MOTIVATED” lmao
And you ended it why?
“He didn’t wana go to the next level?”
Marriage?
“Yes”
Shouldn’t you have thought about that before having 2 kids with him?
“Wow you’re 29 with no kids! That’s rare”