Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Virtuous_Brotha]

8 days of cold silence since a hinge first date (we've been texting for 2 months and finally met), this isn't good sign. Previous date i went on (different chick) this also happened but i dropped my guard and broke the silence after a week. bytch said she is no longer interested in me after meeting in person but was nervous to tell me. To not even get a it was nice meeting you text shortly after usually suggests she ain't feeling me.
I'm not expected to be the one to reach out first again to this one am i ? Probably gonna hear the same shyt i'd rather just not know and naturally fade out of existence to her

 

[The ADD]

8 days of cold silence since a hinge first date (we've been texting for 2 months and finally met), this isn't good sign. Previous date i went on (different chick) this also happened but i dropped my guard and broke the silence after a week. bytch said she is no longer interested in me after meeting in person but was nervous to tell me. To not even get a it was nice meeting you text shortly after usually suggests she ain't feeling me.
I'm not expected to be the one to reach out first again to this one am i ? Probably gonna hear the same shyt i'd rather just not know and naturally fade out of existence to her

8 days……It’s done keep it pushing

Why did you wait two months to meet?

Probably wouldn’t have waited that long after either situation to contact them if you were interested.

 

[Ohene]

Should I just charge it to the game and keep moving? Ole girl I went out with on Wednesday(got some drinks) the entire time was dope she was engaging and shyt… pretty good back and forh even before the date she would text me good morning every day….. anyway on Thursday I hit her up on some shyt and she never texted back… her family came over to visit so she been posting all of that on Instagram…. Now I’m not new to this game but I’m guessing she not interested? My pride won’t let me hit her up again after no response the 1st time lmaooo






No smileys is ass

This is women for you nowadays

Its so frustrating cause they don’t realize something as simple and potentially innocent as this impedes dating

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

8 days……It’s done keep it pushing

Why did you wait two months to meet?

Probably wouldn’t have waited that long after either situation to contact them if you were interested.

She actually deleted her hinge account and dropped her number saying contact if you wanna keep in touch so i wasn't on some eager beaver shyt thinking she might not actually be focussed on meeting anyone so wasn't in no hurry. I kinda purposefully took it slow, although we spoke quite a lot but yeah gonna write this one off just can't see any scenario of a date going well and having a week of silence. Unless as the man i'm meant to be chasing more but fuk that

 

[semicko82]

I lurk in this thread every now and then. I remember when I was that dude who was stressed if a chick would reply back to me or not.
In my present state I would laugh and clown at that dude.
The best thing going is to be a little cold to some of these women.

 

[The ADD]

She actually deleted her hinge account and dropped her number saying contact if you wanna keep in touch so i wasn't on some eager beaver shyt thinking she might not actually be focussed on meeting anyone so wasn't in no hurry. I kinda purposefully took it slow, although we spoke quite a lot but yeah gonna write this one off just can't see any scenario of a date going well and having a week of silence. Unless as the man i'm meant to be chasing more but fuk that

The little games and things was your downfall. She deleted the app and gave you the number and you played it slow. That makes zero sense. If they don’t want to meet they won’t.

You are supposed to chase to a reasonable degree. Waiting to follow-up after a date if you want the chick should be the move. You don’t have to be thirsty but if you want her make the move. Of course if you got an entire roster and don’t really want her that’s a different story.

 

[semicko82]

These women all retarded as hell. Time to blow it up and chill for a few months.

What happened breh?

This

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

The little games and things was your downfall. She deleted the app and gave you the number and you played it slow. That makes zero sense. If they don’t want to meet they won’t.

You are supposed to chase to a reasonable degree. Waiting to follow-up after a date if you want the chick should be the move. You don’t have to be thirsty but If you are any her make the move. Of course if you got an entire roster and don’t really want her that’s a different story.

Highly doubt the amount of time it took to meet was a factor as you said she wouldn't have agreed to it in the first place. It's more about how the meeting actually went which was probably shyt given the silence

 

[The ADD]

Highly doubt the amount of time it took to meet was a factor as you said she wouldn't have agreed to it in the first place. It's more about how the meeting actually went which was probably shyt given the silence

Yeah but how much time did you waste playing it safe to get that result? That’s my point.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Yeah but how much time did you waste playing it safe to get that result? That’s my point.

It's absurd to be waiting two months to meet a chick in 2022. If a chick isn't ready to meet within the first two weeks (absent extraordinary circumstances), unmatch, because she is probably using you for attention. Duke wasted an extra month and a half of his life talking to a chick that didn't amount to shyt.

 

[The ADD]

Exactly.

 

[African Peasant]

Be serious and don't take women seriously.

 

[Ahadi]

Woman I messed with last night turned out to be a single mom lol. I get on my KS and start grilling. Shes 24 with 2 boys (Ages - 3 & 5), I’m like so… what does the father do?

“Hes good, he’s there, she’s suces-MOTIVATED” lmao

And you ended it why?

“He didn’t wana go to the next level?”

Marriage?

“Yes”

Shouldn’t you have thought about that before having 2 kids with him?



“Wow you’re 29 with no kids! That’s rare”

 

[havoc]

Woman I messed with last night turned out to be a single mom lol. I get on my KS and start grilling. Shes 24 with 2 boys (Ages - 3 & 5), I’m like so… what does the father do?

“Hes good, he’s there, she’s suces-MOTIVATED” lmao

And you ended it why?

“He didn’t wana go to the next level?”

Marriage?

“Yes”

Shouldn’t you have thought about that before having 2 kids with him?



“Wow you’re 29 with no kids! That’s rare”

So, after she made that comment that you are a rare childless 29 year old man, did you guys had a good time ?

 

[Ahadi]

So, after she made that comment that you are a rare childless 29 year old man, did you guys had a good time ?

This was after. I walked her to her car & saw a car seat. Then I started to ask the questions.

She didn’t have it on her bio, but I should of asked the questions, even if I’m not looking for anything serious.