Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ahadi

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This is the 2nd time

“I need to be more comfortable” Breh the bytch was wet as a rainforest, talking about I’ll be back in July.

“I just want the moment to be right”

Idk wtf I’m doing.
 

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Then she wanted me to drive her back to her place at 4am lol I’m like no. You can stay here and we can go tomorrow or you can call an Uber.
 

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Went to the eye doctor today
Saw a young Hispanic simp around my age bought food for a thick Hispanic receptionist telling her to not pay him
Shorty and her other co worker were snickering about it after he left to eat
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He gon learn the hard way being too nice
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Most of us here can look back and cringe at the things we did with chicks when we were younger and inexperienced. Sometimes you gotta make these mistakes to grow and wise up. Once you know better, you do better.
 

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Finally I can type.

So out the blue she pops back up, haven’t hit since New Years. She apparently was suppose to buy some house in Texas, but somehow ended back up on my area lol. Hits me up after she sees me “buying coffee”

I’m thinking I’m about to smash, but she wants to talk about “taking it slow”, courting and being a plus 1 for some wedding in Georgia lol.

I’m like huh? Nah I’m gona be out of town, then she wants to take it slow after I smashed lol, goofy as well. Bushes.

Take it slow = waste your time, put you on ice and see what my final options are.

She’s 27 & complains about being tired of working, & it sounds like she’s desperate to cash out lol, which is another reason I might bush cause I don’t want an “accident”

all these chicks hit 26 and hurnt out cause they aint get that CEO promotion of a fortune 50 company they granny told them they’d get
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They looking for a simp to foot the bill on their debt/addictions/uncurable stds/kids
 

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all these chicks hit 26 and hurnt out cause they aint get that CEO promotion of a fortune 50 company they granny told them they’d get
:russ:

They looking for a simp to foot the bill on their debt/addictions/uncurable stds/kids

Yup & she recently got laid off too.

Hitting me up and talking about “wyd, I wana go out and do something”

AKA “go out and spend my money”

Lmao NOPE
 

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lotta women BLESSED that its some dudes who aint scumbags and will just ghost them

That’s exactly what I did. I leave if there’s lack of effort.

When im speaking to women and they’re on this “let’s wait” or “I need to be comfortable” & they’re looking for something possibly for the long term or see me as the “special guy” just because I have my shyt together and the box is priced higher for me because of this.

Ive been using this line recently: “Im not seeing a strong investment on your side to reward this”

- How do I know I’m the only one? You want to go out and spend time, resources, but how do I know I’m not wasting my time?

- What are you going to do to reassure this? Until then, we can’t get to that place until we understand your investment & we can gauge this.
 

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I'm almost half way through doing the same thing this year.

I always manage to get caught up in something in the summer though, but if I do it's gotta be super casual.
I'm not in the right frame of mind to be entertaining anyone seriously this year.
 

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I'm almost half way through doing the same thing this year.

I always manage to get caught up in something in the summer though, but if I do it's gotta be super casual.
I'm not in the right frame of mind to be entertaining anyone seriously this year.

Seeing how flaky some of these broads are out here. A good decision. Keep anything super casual. The sick thing is she'll probably be even more after you.
 

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Been meaning to post this for a while.

I'm starting at ground zero!
My two main chicks I was dating/smashing got boyfriends recently so they stepped away from me.
Had an epiphany to just delete every broad I was entertaining/dealt with previously and to start completely fresh.

Let's see how it goes these next 3 months
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