Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apollo Creed]

No offense breh but y’all went on a few dates that were cool. That’s a long way from any discussion of “long lasting”.

issue when dudes dont pull out the market when they finish a relationship is the next person they meet they using to fill that girlfriend void

its 2022, women just want to “explore their options” us men are still going off the old rules not realizing its a new day.

if a woman doesnt carry your last name or have an engagement you might as well assume she out with a different dude when she aint responding to you.

is it right? Thats a moral debate
Will it end well for these women? I’d argue they have an expiration date when it comes to maximizing their ability to keep this up with quality men, but thats their problem not ours.


If you not trying to marry a woman in a quick turn around (under 1.5 years), you better understand the game is the game and everyone playing it is a self serving mercenary.

 

[The ADD]

issue when dudes dont pull out the market when they finish a relationship is the next person they meet they using to fill that girlfriend void

its 2022, women just want to “explore their options” us men are still going off the old rules not realizing its a new day.

if a woman doesnt carry your last name or have an engagement you might as well assume she out with a different dude when she aint responding to you.

is it right? Thats a moral debate
Will it end well for these women? I’d argue they have an expiration date when it comes to maximizing their ability to keep this up with quality men, but thats their problem not ours.


If you not trying to marry a woman in a quick turn around (under 1.5 years), you better understand the game is the game and everyone playing it is a self serving mercenary.

Yep, especially the bolded.

As a mid-40s breh……..dudes are going to be in for an eye opener playing the field later into life when you are dating women mid-30s and up.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yep

As a mid-40s breh……..dudes are going to be in for an eye opener playing the field later into life when you are dating women mid-30s and up.

i think its only a rude awakening if they didnt handle their business (thus they will be stuck to dealing with the “damaged” women).

they wont have anything to incentivize a younger non “damaged” woman from rocking with them (which will lead to her ultimately continuing to play the field and end up damaged herself).

its all a vicious cycle with no winners unless you are someone who moves with intention.

 

[The ADD]

i think its only a rude awakening if they didnt handle their business (thus they will be stuck to dealing with the “damaged” women).

they wont have anything to incentivize a younger non “damaged” woman from rocking with them (which will lead to her ultimately continuing to play the field and end up damaged herself).

its all a vicious cycle with no winners unless you are someone who moves with intention.

Indeed. Even initially, she could appear to be non-damaged, move with intention and it still not be a fit, definitely had that situation with a few.

 

[Serious]

Not in the pacific northwest, with the former conservative but now neo liberal neo feminist white women @2 one 3

Breh how you not eating off WW in the PNW.


Are you kidding me.


It doesnt any easier than ww in the PNW.

 

[Serious]

Lol my ex and the guy didn't work out, so now we occasionally fukk but she doesn't want to get back together because she wants to see the finished product of me getting certs and getting a tech job and inheriting my family's house this summer because their leaving. She said she stuck with me and "put in the work when we dated for 3 years" I was unsure of what I wanted career-wise and flirted with being a DJ, and doing cybersecurity but didn't take it seriously and was complacent. She, on the other hand, has a good career and makes a lot of money for a 26-year-old and always known her career since college so she thinks her shyt don't stink. I'm 28 and doing pretty average but studying for certs and trying to better myself but she only wants to be there at the end

Stop trolling us with your stories....

We've been told you to leave that bytch for like 3-4 months. Yet here you are with the same woe is me, story every fukking week.

Between you and @Rozay Oro Idk who the bigger pathetic bytch is.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Stop trolling us with your stories....

We've been told you to leave that bytch for like 3-4 months. Yet here you are with the same woe is me, story every fukking week.

Between you and @Rozay Oro Idk who the bigger pathetic bytch is.

I’m minding my business, leave me alone. Wish you the worst fakkit.

 

[Serious]

I’m minding my business, leave me alone. Wish you the worst fakkit.

let me help you pathetic c*nt:

 

[The ADD]

 

[International Playa]

I’ve been fukked up these past few months. Finally got rid of this woman whose been making me unhappy for months. Then boom, I slide into this next thing with no recovery time. And it was going good. Dates were fun. We had communication. Then one week, I sensed the shift. She stopped answering the text right away. She busy all the time now. Yup another nikka. But I didn’t wanna believe it. And then I fukked up by texting her still. She won’t answer for hours. All this bullshyt. Then she finally hit me with the i dunno what I want which is women speak for I want to try this other option and see where it goes. So ima cut my loses and get back in the pool. Already got a date lined up for the weekend. Gonna take it waaaaaaaaaaaay slow with this next one. But I really liked ol girl man. She was fine, nice. Humble. Funny. We chilled at my spot for the Super Bowl and I cooked and she brought wine and rum cup cakes. Thought we had something. But just like that, she gone. Ain’t nothing like…. Long lasting no more? My aunt and uncle married 60 years. Where the fukk is that at? And this chick ain’t young. 37. Divorced. Kid. Yes I know probably shouldn’t even get too deep with this. Whatever.

issue when dudes dont pull out the market when they finish a relationship is the next person they meet they using to fill that girlfriend void

its 2022, women just want to “explore their options” us men are still going off the old rules not realizing its a new day.

if a woman doesnt carry your last name or have an engagement you might as well assume she out with a different dude when she aint responding to you.

is it right? Thats a moral debate
Will it end well for these women? I’d argue they have an expiration date when it comes to maximizing their ability to keep this up with quality men, but thats their problem not ours.


If you not trying to marry a woman in a quick turn around (under 1.5 years), you better understand the game is the game and everyone playing it is a self serving mercenary.

Dope game & some learning lessons in these posts. Keep your options & best believe most women are exploring their options till the exclusive talk begins.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Indeed. Even initially, she could appear to be non-damaged, move with intention and it still not be a fit, definitely had that situation with a few.

yeah thats the thing, alot of women dont move with urgency until its too late (this is assuming she wants marriage and to be a mother, but even still she will reach a ceiling where men will opt for younger on avg thus minimizing her dating pool).

as men we got time on our side to be able to vet damaged vs non damaged, and good fit vs not good fit.

the issue with men is we tend to not nip things in the bud and let BS dwell on until it becomes unmanageable and then we fall off our square

 

[Rich Spirit]

Gotta get these headshots / look book photos on. It’s important to keep updating those social media photos every quarter.

Yea man i need a couple new headshot photos

 

[Urbanmiracle]

Indeed. Even initially, she could appear to be non-damaged, move with intention and it still not be a fit, definitely had that situation with a few.

can you explain move with intention? You mean like make it clear i want a relationship? I thought I did by my efforts and actions. Probably wasn’t enough.

 

[The ADD]

can you explain move with intention? You mean like make it clear i want a relationship? I thought I did by my efforts and actions. Probably wasn’t enough.

I was talking more broadly about some of the lost here. Some are doing things like they want a relationship but really only want sex and then feel put out when they don’t get it and Vice Versa. Big picture you have to know what you want initially and let that dictate your path and expectations from there.

As far as your situation:

Hard to say based what you posted. A few dates and hangouts really don’t mean much and I can’t say it shows intention. Partly because of women deal with guys to use that as a method to sleep with them. That’s just how it goes which was part of my other point. You can have the best intentions and it doesn’t work out. That’s just how it goes.

I will say you would be better served clearing your mind and plate of the previous relationship first before putting that potential expectation on the next chick.

 

[semicko82]

I’m minding my business, leave me alone. Wish you the worst fakkit.

let me help you pathetic c*nt:

Yikes