Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Balla]

Thanks breh but I actually picked up a second job that’s very flexible with hours so it’s not full shifts which means a little extra change and still enough good sleep. That will keep me busy while I work on this debt. I give up on finding gold among these thots. Just get my nut in every once in a while. If I have to be that nikka while they only offer p*ssy, why not just pump and dump?

You do Uber or something on the side? And breh, you been saying you was gonna forget about getting a girl and mess with chicks for a minute now lol. Stop focusing on a gf and live your life.

You only get chicks when you don’t care.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Oh okay they must be student loans then, hopefully it all pans out and you start eating my boy

Credit card lol

 

[Rozay Oro]

You do Uber or something on the side? And breh, you been saying you was gonna forget about getting a girl and mess with chicks for a minute now lol. Stop focusing on a gf and live your life.

You only get chicks when you don’t care.

WFH sales and then retail afterwards lol. My lil fwb I was telling y’all bout want be stupid so I cut her off. I’m just speaking in general all I get is damaged girls smh lol.

It’s hard cause you get so horny. I’m just have to stay busy.

 

[MikelArteta]

look what gets posted by one of the goats. shyt crazy.

Come back @Sharp

 

[Balla]

WFH sales and then retail afterwards lol. My lil fwb I was telling y’all bout want be stupid so I cut her off. I’m just speaking in general all I get is damaged girls smh lol.

It’s hard cause you get so horny. I’m just have to stay busy.

Nah I feel you on that. So that’s why you wanna gf, I thought you was on some lovey dovey shyt.

If that’s the case say that then lmao.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

we met during the pandemic when no one could move around so it was ideal. We faced timed every night. I went to visit her in Cali a bunch of times. I'm in Philly./

I feel like as soon as the summer hit I think she just wanted something closer.

Also I think she would have liked the former version of me better. She's really into music and I used to be a DJ. I'm pretty sure she would have loved the DJ version of me as opposed to the professional gambling version/sports writer even tho I make more money now. I was betting 20K on NBA games and shyt.

I also think she had an ex that she was stuck on.

There's a lot I don't really understand because she was super into me and then over night was just done. I would have felt better about it if I truly got the truth but she hid a lot and got weird and defensive. I also lost someone who I would have been friends with regardless of whether we connected romantically or not. I don't feel bad at all honestly, even about reaching out to her after the fact and getting shytted on. I feel like reaching out to her kinda ended my hopes of getting her back for good and helped me move on even tho it still makes me mad when I think about it.


I actually met a badder chick with better p*ssy in Philly 2 weeks after she got distant but I invested so much in the Cali chick it had me stuck.

I went through a similar situation recently, but I turned it around.

We had a great valentine's date, but the next day I had to go back to where I'm living at the moment, and she went cold. I went a week or two texting her first, and she barely responded, if at all. shyt was fukking with me too because I got feelings for her, so I woke up the other day and just told her everything in a text, and I kept it mature and honest.

To summarize the text, I told her that I realized she's been distant and that it's a complete 180 from when we first started talking. I know as dudes we're supposed to act like we don't care and that we're all playa playa around here (especially on the coli with all these 6 cert brothers), but I kept it honest by saying the shyt was hurting my feelings. Told her straight up to be honest with me if she's no longer feeling this, then so be it, but it's not cool to keep people hanging around if she's not feeling them. I wished her the best and told her if this is our last convo then I'll miss her.

She apologized and told me that she didn't want me to move on. We've been fine ever since.

I'm glad I avoided coming to this thread for advice when the responses would have been advice that makes it worse. Because let's be honest, the responses would have been like: she's bored with you, so move on, you took her on a Vdate nikka someone probably smashing her for nothing while you're gone, etc. instead of telling me to communicate to her that I'm having an issue between us lol.

I changed my way of thinking. I'm not afraid to put in hella effort or show how romantic I can be for a girl anymore. shyt was all ego behind that fear. If a girl is "bored" with me or goes to another dude, she isn't playing me; she only played herself.

If a chick moves on from a solid dude who put in hella work to show interest in her who's seriously taking the L? Girls can get dikk anywhere they want but getting a solid dude who checks all the boxes and is fun to be around not an easy catch.

Providing empathy and having someone interested in you for who you are in this cruel ass world is not easy, especially with social media being at the palm of our hands. Everyone is always in what or who is next, so I've realized I'm winning either way because someone will appreciate it.

But obviously, she realized this after we talked it out because I was ready to bounce.

Sorry your situation didn't work out fam but don't let one interaction change how you move.

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

Lol at the random R&B features on Lunatik Muzik.



Brownstone, Mokenstef and Christion?



Genius.



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[Rozay Oro]

Nah I feel you on that. So that’s why you wanna gf, I thought you was on some lovey dovey shyt.

If that’s the case say that then lmao.

I do want a gf that I can build with and actually become a long term HEALTHY relationship. They don’t want that. So I got a fwb and shorty still crazy. So idk breh

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

I went through a similar situation recently, but I turned it around.

We had a great valentine's date, but the next day I had to go back to where I'm living at the moment, and she went cold. I went a week or two texting her first, and she barely responded, if at all. shyt was fukking with me too because I got feelings for her, so I woke up the other day and just told her everything in a text, and I kept it mature and honest.

To summarize the text, I told her that I realized she's been distant and that it's a complete 180 from when we first started talking. I know as dudes we're supposed to act like we don't care and that we're all playa playa around here (especially on the coli with all these 6 cert brothers), but I kept it honest by saying the shyt was hurting my feelings. Told her straight up to be honest with me if she's no longer feeling this, then so be it, but it's not cool to keep people hanging around if she's not feeling them. I wished her the best and told her if this is our last convo then I'll miss her.

She apologized and told me that she didn't want me to move on. We've been fine ever since.

I'm glad I avoided coming to this thread for advice when the responses would have been advice that makes it worse. Because let's be honest, the responses would have been like: she's bored with you, so move on, you took her on a Vdate nikka someone probably smashing her for nothing while you're gone, etc. instead of telling me to communicate to her that I'm having an issue between us lol.

I changed my way of thinking. I'm not afraid to put in hella effort or show how romantic I can be for a girl anymore. shyt was all ego behind that fear. If a girl is "bored" with me or goes to another dude, she isn't playing me; she only played herself.

If a chick moves on from a solid dude who put in hella work to show interest in her who's seriously taking the L? Girls can get dikk anywhere they want but getting a solid dude who checks all the boxes and is fun to be around not an easy catch.

Providing empathy and having someone interested in you for who you are in this cruel ass world is not easy, especially with social media being at the palm of our hands. Everyone is always in what or who is next, so I've realized I'm winning either way because someone will appreciate it.

But obviously, she realized this after we talked it out because I was ready to bounce.

Sorry your situation didn't work out fam but don't let one interaction change how you move.

yeah I look back on that situation and I realized, I should have fought harder to keep her around. I moved on quickly and even tho I dated a woman who I felt like I had even more chemistry with, I went out without a fight and by the time I doubled back it was too late. If I could do it again, I would have immediately flown out there and exhausted my resources to keep her.

I do believe things happen the way they're supposed to tho so it probably wasn't meant to be.I do feel like I'm going to hear from her again tho. It'll never be the same but I know I'm going to hear from her.

 

[Balla]

I do want a gf that I can build with and actually become a long term HEALTHY relationship. They don’t want that. So I got a fwb and shorty still crazy. So idk breh

I’m not understanding breh. You got a fwb and a shorty, but they crazy so you don’t want them to be wifey? Is that right?

 

[Rozay Oro]

I’m not understanding breh. You got a fwb and a shorty, but they crazy so you don’t want them to be wifey? Is that right?

I see how you got confused. Fwb ended up being crazy.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

yeah I look back on that situation and I realized, I should have fought harder to keep her around. I moved on quickly and even tho I dated a woman who I felt like I had even more chemistry with, I went out without of fight and by the time I doubled back it was too late. If I could do it again, I would have immediately flown out there and exhausted my resources to keep her.

I do believe things happen the way they're supposed to tho so it probably wasn't meant to be.I do feel like I'm going to hear from her again tho. It'll never be the same but I know I'm going to hear from her.

Yeah. There have been times with chicks I didn't truly apply the pressure as I should have.

I do all the time now because nothing is better than knowing you tried your best at something, even if it doesn't work out. This applies to all aspects of life.

Hopefully, you can find someone before she can have the chance to reappear.

 

[Max.]

Got this bytch number and I said send me some pictures of you she said no you can look at my profile. I said well you only got three pictures of one and two of them were kind of blurry so if you can’t even do simple shyt you can eat a fukking dikk. I was like yeah like ur 32 with no car you need to worry about getn a fukking whip

 

[Max.]

Lol my ex and the guy didn't work out, so now we occasionally fukk but she doesn't want to get back together because she wants to see the finished product of me getting certs and getting a tech job and inheriting my family's house this summer because their leaving. She said she stuck with me and "put in the work when we dated for 3 years" I was unsure of what I wanted career-wise and flirted with being a DJ, and doing cybersecurity but didn't take it seriously and was complacent. She, on the other hand, has a good career and makes a lot of money for a 26-year-old and always known her career since college so she thinks her shyt don't stink. I'm 28 and doing pretty average but studying for certs and trying to better myself but she only wants to be there at the end

bro plz leave her before u get used


bytch sounds like she gettn for u to get $$$ n a home …so she can get prego and get fat and not work ever again

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Got theis bytch number and I said a send me some pictures of you she said no you can look at my profile. I said well you only got three pictures of one and two of them were kind of blurry so if you can’t even do simple shyt you can eat a fukking dikk. I was like yeah like ur 32 with no car you need to worry about getn a fukking whip

I just FaceTime them please tell me you didn’t really say the bolded