Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
- Start date
My experience:
- Generally not settled enough
- Likely quicker to look for a relationship
Edit: I think I had it set for like 33-36 so a pretty small range.
Over the hill women, go younger
Thatrogueassdiaz
We're on the blood path now
I never said I haven't. I said this one I did not. Where do yall get this stuff AND DO YOU LIVE HERE? I have fukkrd nothing but white women in Oregon for the last 6 years, and that's nothing to gloat about. Opps and 1 or 2 Hispanics.
Yeah l would agree with 29 and down. 30-33 kind of get the itch if they deal with a generally put together guy.
Define long term
Urbanmiracle
Brooklyn the planet...
Agreed. I’ll put a little more detail cuz last night I was in my emotions about it. Me and her were cool since summer time. My and gf split right before this new chicks bday which is after x mas. So from summer to x mas it was just texting and chatting every other day. We hung out one time during the summer and I didn’t think of it being romantic. Then I hung out with her for bday. Then we started seeing and expressing interest in each other from there. Seeing each other every weekend for about month till recently this past two weekends she was busy with family. Then she started to flake on the text. She says she got alot on her mind and she doesn’t know what she wants to do. So I just naturally fell back and didn’t put the focus on her. Only reason it hurts a little cuz me her bonded over that period from summer to us starting seeing each other. It seems like it was quick and it was but we been talking and stuff for a min. So I dunno what’s up with her. Probably another dude. Probably her home life. Probably whatever. I like her a lot but should I wait? Should I just waste time? I got a few other women who want to see what’s up with me. This chick has my heart as a friend and hopefully something more but I’m realistic. I know how the game goes. Can’t have all ya baskets in one egg…
You got to move on. If you’ve known her that long and it stalled after a month of dates then she’s not interested in anything more.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Usually it's because another dude is in the picture. Fall back & focus on other women. If she decides to hit you back up, you can decide whether you want to continue.
and all his butt buddies in this thread
Straw Hat Luffy
Veteran
Read that post I made on the page before about a similar situation I had but turned it around.
If you like her and want to still talk to her you gotta at least apply pressure or at least express how you feel about the situation before it ends.
We gotta stop this "I'm a fallback" mentality. All this falling back we do takes any accountability away from them, and this is why they do the things they do. They're never called out on their BS so it's an endless cycle of girls putting guys through shyt and nothing happens because they were "going through things" and we pretend to not care even though we do.
None of this has to come from an angry place, even if you are angry. We're adults and should be able to communicate with one another in a respectable manner. Addressing the issue might not repair the relationship but it could probably help prevent her from doing that to other men in the future.
You also brought up in another post asking do relationships last anymore. I'm in my late 20s and my best friends are still dating their gfs of 5 plus years and the other is reaching ten. My parents are still together.
There's not gonna be a time on this earth where man doesn't have to deal with the bs from the other gender and vice versa. Every chick has her own issues that you will have to deal with and there will always be chicks that either challenge you or lose interest.
We're supposed to find the right ones we believe are worth putting in work for.
But none of that work ever happens if you just fall back.