Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Rozay Oro]

Lol my ex and the guy didn't work out, so now we occasionally fukk but she doesn't want to get back together because she wants to see the finished product of me getting certs and getting a tech job and inheriting my family's house this summer because their leaving. She said she stuck with me and "put in the work when we dated for 3 years" I was unsure of what I wanted career-wise and flirted with being a DJ, and doing cybersecurity but didn't take it seriously and was complacent. She, on the other hand, has a good career and makes a lot of money for a 26-year-old and always known her career since college so she thinks her shyt don't stink. I'm 28 and doing pretty average but studying for certs and trying to better myself but she only wants to be there at the end

Breh fukk that bytch, just keep giving her dikk until it’s over or you find a woman that appreciates you. Don’t ever take that selfish bytch back PLEASE

edit:
It’s ok to vent breh. Everyone is literally on different levels in dating and “phases” in life in this thread. Ignore the cynical that think immersing solely in lust is the fix all solution. They fukk nikkas.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Lol my ex and the guy didn't work out, so now we occasionally fukk but she doesn't want to get back together because she wants to see the finished product of me getting certs and getting a tech job and inheriting my family's house this summer because their leaving. She said she stuck with me and "put in the work when we dated for 3 years" I was unsure of what I wanted career-wise and flirted with being a DJ, and doing cybersecurity but didn't take it seriously and was complacent. She, on the other hand, has a good career and makes a lot of money for a 26-year-old and always known her career since college so she thinks her shyt don't stink. I'm 28 and doing pretty average but studying for certs and trying to better myself but she only wants to be there at the end

my god move the fukk on.

 

[Rozay Oro]

my god move the fukk on.

Let that nikka vent

 

[Ahadi]

Bruh this chic just showed up to my crib unannounced

Gon call me and say "I'm at your door"

I'm like ...why?!?!?

She Gon say "to surprise you "

I'm like shawty go home I ain't even there

I was but I was just about to head to the gym and even if I wasn’t why tf you showing up unannounced like you live here? Gotta have a Convo about this weirdo shyt. Some shyt you just dont do unless you trying to get cut off

The downside of inviting women over to your crib. In those situations, having a doorman / security is the best.

Ive thankfully never had that happen.

 

[Ohene]

my god move the fukk on.

Bro

it’s crazy. The signs are blatant and dudes ignore them

 

[Ohene]

Bruh this chic just showed up to my crib unannounced

Gon call me and say "I'm at your door"

I'm like ...why?!?!?

She Gon say "to surprise you "

I'm like shawty go home I ain't even there

I was but I was just about to head to the gym and even if I wasn’t why tf you showing up unannounced like you live here? Gotta have a Convo about this weirdo shyt. Some shyt you just dont do unless you trying to get cut off

Shorty whilin

 

[360dagod]

Lol my ex and the guy didn't work out, so now we occasionally fukk but she doesn't want to get back together because she wants to see the finished product of me getting certs and getting a tech job and inheriting my family's house this summer because their leaving. She said she stuck with me and "put in the work when we dated for 3 years" I was unsure of what I wanted career-wise and flirted with being a DJ, and doing cybersecurity but didn't take it seriously and was complacent. She, on the other hand, has a good career and makes a lot of money for a 26-year-old and always known her career since college so she thinks her shyt don't stink. I'm 28 and doing pretty average but studying for certs and trying to better myself but she only wants to be there at the end

Where is your pride Bruh

 

[360dagod]

Bruh this chic just showed up to my crib unannounced

Gon call me and say "I'm at your door"

I'm like ...why?!?!?

She Gon say "to surprise you "

I'm like shawty go home I ain't even there

I was but I was just about to head to the gym and even if I wasn’t why tf you showing up unannounced like you live here? Gotta have a Convo about this weirdo shyt. Some shyt you just dont do unless you trying to get cut off

You can't even just cut her off because if she does that, that bytch is legit crazy

 

[VertigoKnight]

Lol my ex and the guy didn't work out, so now we occasionally fukk but she doesn't want to get back together because she wants to see the finished product of me getting certs and getting a tech job and inheriting my family's house this summer because their leaving. She said she stuck with me and "put in the work when we dated for 3 years" I was unsure of what I wanted career-wise and flirted with being a DJ, and doing cybersecurity but didn't take it seriously and was complacent. She, on the other hand, has a good career and makes a lot of money for a 26-year-old and always known her career since college so she thinks her shyt don't stink. I'm 28 and doing pretty average but studying for certs and trying to better myself but she only wants to be there at the end

No homo but my dikk wouldn’t get hard for a woman who obviously does not respect me.

She’s hedging her bets on you, Hedge her to the bushes.

Cut off all communication, she’s using occasional sex as a way to keep you tethered to her. Best believe a better option pop up she’s off again.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

Lol my ex and the guy didn't work out, so now we occasionally fukk but she doesn't want to get back together because she wants to see the finished product of me getting certs and getting a tech job and inheriting my family's house this summer because their leaving. She said she stuck with me and "put in the work when we dated for 3 years" I was unsure of what I wanted career-wise and flirted with being a DJ, and doing cybersecurity but didn't take it seriously and was complacent. She, on the other hand, has a good career and makes a lot of money for a 26-year-old and always known her career since college so she thinks her shyt don't stink. I'm 28 and doing pretty average but studying for certs and trying to better myself but she only wants to be there at the end

please don’t get back with this chick.

sounds like you were just waiting on the sidelines for them to break up and she is just keeping you around as a backup plan.

you need to go no contact with this chick starting tonight so you can get some (self)respect back. Don’t link, don’t text, don’t call.

People only value things they have a fear of losing. You always around.

 

[havoc]

Lol my ex and the guy didn't work out, so now we occasionally fukk but she doesn't want to get back together because she wants to see the finished product of me getting certs and getting a tech job and inheriting my family's house this summer because their leaving. She said she stuck with me and "put in the work when we dated for 3 years" I was unsure of what I wanted career-wise and flirted with being a DJ, and doing cybersecurity but didn't take it seriously and was complacent. She, on the other hand, has a good career and makes a lot of money for a 26-year-old and always known her career since college so she thinks her shyt don't stink. I'm 28 and doing pretty average but studying for certs and trying to better myself but she only wants to be there at the end

She doesn't deserve to hop on the bandwagon after you establish yourself. If your ex isn't going to stand by your side while you are honing your IT skills, leave her alone. She is nothing but a distraction and a waste of time.

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Lol my ex and the guy didn't work out, so now we occasionally fukk but she doesn't want to get back together because she wants to see the finished product of me getting certs and getting a tech job and inheriting my family's house this summer because their leaving. She said she stuck with me and "put in the work when we dated for 3 years" I was unsure of what I wanted career-wise and flirted with being a DJ, and doing cybersecurity but didn't take it seriously and was complacent. She, on the other hand, has a good career and makes a lot of money for a 26-year-old and always known her career since college so she thinks her shyt don't stink. I'm 28 and doing pretty average but studying for certs and trying to better myself but she only wants to be there at the end

She's 26 and says she "put in the work"?.....that's called a regular romantic relationship.....that's wildly entitled.......if she don't wanna ride when you're in the trenches I think you TRULY know what to do with this situation. Get out of the sentimentality lane and fear of the possible unknown. You gonna be cert'd up and on an upward trajectory.....plenty of women will be around. THey ain't going anywhere......and let me remind you of "half your age plus 7"....

 

[buzzkill]

I get sex but no woman really wants to date me. It’s been like that for years now. Last August I met a girl I developed feelings for but she eventually dumped me after taking her on several dates. The one I’d mess with in my car after our dates. I was the rebound to her ex fiancé but she realized she didn’t want to really date because she was scared of getting hurt. It took me until January to get out of my depression.

Now I feel like that, I only do apps and hook ups because my self esteem has been shot so low, irl I just curve the occasional girl that be choosing or flirty. I’m just not sure if it’s my personality or other variables. I’m not taking any of these heaux on another date ever in my life.

Might need to do like brehs told me and take a break. Focus on yourself breh. I've also been sober since new years eve (besides weed but ive been off that for about 3 weeks now)

Past few weeks I just haven't had energy to deal with women since my last few situations. Ive focused on other areas of my life. Joined a muay thai/bjj gym (you should join one too if you can afford it), copped a new CZ-75, redoing my wardrobe, applied for a mortgage so i can buy a condo or townhouse, planning a web agency with my boy(i do web development), trying to position myself to be well over 6 figures in the next few years, been going out with my boys more, went to Vegas, went to that Boldy James Earl Sweatshirt and Action Bronson concert, just having fun and enjoying my life not worried about women. There's definitely more to life than trying to find a girlfriend breh trust me. They will come when they see you living a fulfilled life.

Not on no mgtow shyt like if opportunity presents itself imma holla at a chick but ive re-prioritized dating and women and so far so good. Honestly becoming a rich bachelor is starting to sound like more of a reality for me But yeah before you pick that bottle up start with joining some type of martial arts gym and build some comradery with real men not these soyboys out here. it will do good for your mental health i promise

 

[DapMeUp!]

Might need to do like brehs told me and take a break. Focus on yourself breh. I've also been sober since new years eve (besides weed but ive been off that for about 3 weeks now)

Past few weeks I just haven't had energy to deal with women since my last few situations. Ive focused on other areas of my life. Joined a muay thai/bjj gym (you should join one too if you can afford it), copped a new CZ-75, redoing my wardrobe, applied for a mortgage so i can buy a condo or townhouse, planning a web agency with my boy(i do web development), trying to position myself to be well over 6 figures in the next few years, been going out with my boys more, went to Vegas, went to that Boldy James Earl Sweatshirt and Action Bronson concert, just having fun and enjoying my life not worried about women. There's definitely more to life than trying to find a girlfriend breh trust me. They will come when they see you living a fulfilled life.

Not on no mgtow shyt like if opportunity presents itself imma holla at a chick but ive re-prioritized dating and women and so far so good. Honestly becoming a rich bachelor is starting to sound like more of a reality for me But yeah before you pick that bottle up start with joining some type of martial arts gym and build some comradery with real men not these soyboys out here. it will do good for your mental health i promise

I found you miss the game the initial month or two, but once you start making real tangible progress it barely comes to mind.

To echo your thoughts I'm not on this MGTOW bullshyt, when the time is right I will re-enter the game
...but once your making huge strides you start to realize just how much a distraction women can be if you don't already have your shyt together.

I'm actually grateful I gave myself this time cause lord knows I wouldn't be on track if I had a woman in my life right now.
I'm not doing this cause I'm strong I'm doing this because I'm weak The game is addictive.

 

[buzzkill]

I found you miss the game the initial month or two, but once you start making real tangible progress it barely comes to mind.

To echo your thoughts I'm not on this MGTOW bullshyt, when the time is right I will re-enter the game
...but once your making huge strides you start to realize just how much a distraction women can be if you don't already have your shyt together.

I'm actually grateful I gave myself this time cause lord knows I wouldn't be on track if I had a woman in my life right now.
I'm not doing this cause I'm strong I'm doing this because I'm weak The game is addictive.

Facts its real addictive like I shot my shot at my nurse last week and catch myself browsing hinge every now and then. But then I just don't feel like pursuing. I think I'll wait until like summer time or at least until I move to start actually trying again.