Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[EffYou]

Thanks breh but I actually picked up a second job that’s very flexible with hours so it’s not full shifts which means a little extra change and still enough good sleep. That will keep me busy while I work on this debt. I give up on finding gold among these thots. Just get my nut in every once in a while. If I have to be that nikka while they only offer p*ssy, why not just pump and dump?

Yeah focus on that debt homie, hopefully it’s manageable

 

[Apollo Creed]

I think yall overcomplicate things for whatever reason. Idk if dudes don't want to admit they lack experience (thus act green) or they just hard headed.

You shouldn't be dealing with women if you dont have your house in order. It's that simple. No need to backhand MGTOW or whatever. Y'all let these women ruin you're lives to the point you gotta talk in circles about stuff you should be doing. It's really nothing magical to it.

 

[buzzkill]

Thanks breh but I actually picked up a second job that’s very flexible with hours so it’s not full shifts which means a little extra change and still enough good sleep. That will keep me busy while I work on this debt. I give up on finding gold among these thots. Just get my nut in every once in a while. If I have to be that nikka while they only offer p*ssy, why not just pump and dump?

Yeah thats what's up. Get that emergency fund if u don't have one and get out of debt you'll be set.

 

[The ADD]

I think yall overcomplicate things for whatever reason. Idk if dudes don't want to admit they lack experience (thus act green) or they just hard headed.

You shouldn't be dealing with women if you dont have your house in order. It's that simple. No need to backhand MGTOW or whatever. Y'all let these women ruin you're lives to the point you gotta talk in circles about stuff you should be doing. It's really nothing magical to it.

Always thought that was a little off message/misaligned here. “Self-Improvement” isn’t going automatically lead to women. To your point it has to be done for the purpose of bettering yourself. If it’s only a reaction to troubles with women then it’s not going to bear much fruit or improve your dealings with women when they do come around.

 

[buzzkill]

Always thought that was a little off message/misaligned here. “Self-Improvement” isn’t going automatically lead to women. To your point it has to be done for the purpose of bettering yourself. If it’s only a reaction to troubles with women then it’s not going to bear much fruit or improve your dealings with women when they do come around.

Nah this ain't a response to troubles with women. I already had this stuff planned. Breh just sounded depressed so I was just telling him focus on something else for a while.

 

[The ADD]

Nah this ain't a response to troubles with women. I already had this stuff planned. Breh just sounded depressed so I was just telling him focus on something else for a while.

Talking broadly

 

[Apollo Creed]

Always thought that was a little off message/misaligned here. “Self-Improvement” isn’t going automatically lead to women. To your point it has to be done for the purpose of bettering yourself. If it’s only a reaction to troubles with women then it’s not going to bear much fruit or improve your dealings with women when they do come around.

yeah we so screwed up where we want to make money, dress good, get in shape, etc. not for ourselves but, to do numbers for women.

Not realizing when you are the best version of yourself, everything else in life falls in play. This why my first response is always tell dudes take some time to fall back and conquer those internal demons and then become the best version of themselves before doing anything else.

In the context of relationships, we often say these women aint ish, yet we bring damaged versions to ourselves to normal women (I won't say good women because humans are imperfect), and hit them with baggage that aint they fault (the same way damaged women do the same to us).

So this is why we get caught up in circles of trying to one up each other, vs simply just being ourselves and standing strong on things we will and will not tolerate.

 

[havoc]

Alright brehs I give up online dating is not for me
Dming women is not for me I think imma just stick with public interaction cuz my shooting percentage for dming women is like 4%

Breh, I left the dating apps alone years ago. The only girls I can get from online were BBW. I ain't going to lie. I smashed a few of them and the sex were great.

 

[The ADD]

yeah we so screwed up where we want to make money, dress good, get in shape, etc. not for ourselves but, to do numbers for women.

Not realizing when you are the best version of yourself, everything else in life falls in play. This why my first response is always tell dudes take some time to fall back and conquer those internal demons and then become the best version of themselves before doing anything else.

In the context of relationships, we often say these women aint ish, yet we bring damaged versions to ourselves to normal women (I won't say good women because humans are imperfect), and hit them with baggage that aint they fault (the same way damaged women do the same to us).

So this is why we get caught up in circles of trying to one up each other, vs simply just being ourselves and standing strong on things we will and will not tolerate.

You really drop some of the best responses in here

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Bruh this chic just showed up to my crib unannounced

Gon call me and say "I'm at your door"

I'm like ...why?!?!?

She Gon say "to surprise you "

I'm like shawty go home I ain't even there

I was but I was just about to head to the gym and even if I wasn’t why tf you showing up unannounced like you live here? Gotta have a Convo about this weirdo shyt. Some shyt you just dont do unless you trying to get cut off

look what gets posted by one of the goats. shyt crazy.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Yeah focus on that debt homie, hopefully it’s manageable

It very much is and I’ll have profit breh

 

[Rozay Oro]

Yeah thats what's up. Get that emergency fund if u don't have one and get out of debt you'll be set.

Fo sho, I’ve wasted so much time with chaotic and/or irresponsible bytches just for a nut.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Took pawg I mentioned last week out on a second date to give her and it one more chance to see if she was just fronting the first date out of formality (I mentioned no kiss or intimacy). Same exact thing happened and I asked if she wanted to kick it at her place after the SECOND place we went to. She said not her place so I was already checked out, but we went to a 3rd place--my old bar from a few years ago. Ended the night, no kiss again. Bushes . Wasted 3 weeks on someone who isn't emotionally available. I had asked her some time ago about thoughts on intimacy and got a vague ass response about feeling safe. On top of that during the date it became very clear to me from what she was saying that she is having an existential crisis. Anyways on to the next. No more wasting time and I just need to be more direct in the beginning. I'm not doing this anymore...giving the benefit of the doubt. Hell to the nah.

 

[EffYou]

It very much is and I’ll have profit breh

Oh okay they must be student loans then, hopefully it all pans out and you start eating my boy

 

[Balla]

Thanks breh but I actually picked up a second job that’s very flexible with hours so it’s not full shifts which means a little extra change and still enough good sleep. That will keep me busy while I work on this debt. I give up on finding gold among these thots. Just get my nut in every once in a while. If I have to be that nikka while they only offer p*ssy, why not just pump and dump?

You do Uber or something on the side? And breh, you been saying you was gonna forget about getting a girl and mess with chicks for a minute now lol. Stop focusing on a gf and live your life.

You only get chicks when you don’t care.