Thanks breh but I actually picked up a second job that’s very flexible with hours so it’s not full shifts which means a little extra change and still enough good sleep. That will keep me busy while I work on this debt. I give up on finding gold among these thots. Just get my nut in every once in a while. If I have to be that nikka while they only offer p*ssy, why not just pump and dump?Might need to do like brehs told me and take a break. Focus on yourself breh. I've also been sober since new years eve (besides weed but ive been off that for about 3 weeks now)
Past few weeks I just haven't had energy to deal with women since my last few situations. Ive focused on other areas of my life. Joined a muay thai/bjj gym (you should join one too if you can afford it), copped a new CZ-75, redoing my wardrobe, applied for a mortgage so i can buy a condo or townhouse, planning a web agency with my boy(i do web development), trying to position myself to be well over 6 figures in the next few years, been going out with my boys more, went to Vegas, went to that Boldy James Earl Sweatshirt and Action Bronson concert, just having fun and enjoying my life not worried about women. There's definitely more to life than trying to find a girlfriend breh trust me. They will come when they see you living a fulfilled life.
Not on no mgtow shyt like if opportunity presents itself imma holla at a chick but ive re-prioritized dating and women and so far so good. Honestly becoming a rich bachelor is starting to sound like more of a reality for meBut yeah before you pick that bottle up start with joining some type of martial arts gym and build some comradery with real men not these soyboys out here. it will do good for your mental health i promise
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Yeah focus on that debt homie, hopefully it’s manageable
I think yall overcomplicate things for whatever reason. Idk if dudes don't want to admit they lack experience (thus act green) or they just hard headed.
You shouldn't be dealing with women if you dont have your house in order. It's that simple. No need to backhand MGTOW or whatever. Y'all let these women ruin you're lives to the point you gotta talk in circles about stuff you should be doing. It's really nothing magical to it.
You shouldn't be dealing with women if you dont have your house in order. It's that simple. No need to backhand MGTOW or whatever. Y'all let these women ruin you're lives to the point you gotta talk in circles about stuff you should be doing. It's really nothing magical to it.
buzzkill
All Star
Yeah thats what's up. Get that emergency fund if u don't have one and get out of debt you'll be set.
Always thought that was a little off message/misaligned here. “Self-Improvement” isn’t going automatically lead to women. To your point it has to be done for the purpose of bettering yourself. If it’s only a reaction to troubles with women then it’s not going to bear much fruit or improve your dealings with women when they do come around.
buzzkill
All Star
Nah this ain't a response to troubles with women. I already had this stuff planned. Breh just sounded depressed so I was just telling him focus on something else for a while.
Talking broadly
yeah we so screwed up where we want to make money, dress good, get in shape, etc. not for ourselves but, to do numbers for women.
Not realizing when you are the best version of yourself, everything else in life falls in play. This why my first response is always tell dudes take some time to fall back and conquer those internal demons and then become the best version of themselves before doing anything else.
In the context of relationships, we often say these women aint ish, yet we bring damaged versions to ourselves to normal women (I won't say good women because humans are imperfect), and hit them with baggage that aint they fault (the same way damaged women do the same to us).
So this is why we get caught up in circles of trying to one up each other, vs simply just being ourselves and standing strong on things we will and will not tolerate.
havoc
Superstar
Breh, I left the dating apps alone years ago. The only girls I can get from online were BBW.Alright brehs I give up
Dming women is not for me
I ain't going to lie. I smashed a few of them and the sex were great. 
You really drop some of the best responses in here
Actually6Foot3
Veteran
look what gets posted by one of the goats.Bruh this chic just showed up to my crib unannounced
Gon call me and say "I'm at your door"
I'm like ...why?!?!?
She Gon say "to surprise you"
I'm like shawty go home I ain't even there
I was but I was just about to head to the gym and even if I wasn’t why tf you showing up unannounced like you live here? Gotta have a Convo about this weirdo shyt. Some shyt you just dont do unless you trying to get cut off
shyt crazy. It very much is and I’ll have profit breh
Fo sho, I’ve wasted so much time with chaotic and/or irresponsible bytches just for a nut.
Thatrogueassdiaz
We're on the blood path now
Took pawg I mentioned last week out on a second date to give her and it one more chance to see if she was just fronting the first date out of formality (I mentioned no kiss or intimacy). Same exact thing happened and I asked if she wanted to kick it at her place after the SECOND place we went to. She said not her place so I was already checked out, but we went to a 3rd place--my old bar from a few years ago. Ended the night, no kiss again. Bushes 
. Wasted 3 weeks on someone who isn't emotionally available. I had asked her some time ago about thoughts on intimacy and got a vague ass response about feeling safe. On top of that during the date it became very clear to me from what she was saying that she is having an existential crisis. Anyways on to the next. No more wasting time and I just need to be more direct in the beginning. I'm not doing this anymore...giving the benefit of the doubt. Hell to the nah.
. Wasted 3 weeks on someone who isn't emotionally available. I had asked her some time ago about thoughts on intimacy and got a vague ass response about feeling safe. On top of that during the date it became very clear to me from what she was saying that she is having an existential crisis. Anyways on to the next. No more wasting time and I just need to be more direct in the beginning. I'm not doing this anymore...giving the benefit of the doubt. Hell to the nah.Oh okay they must be student loans then, hopefully it all pans out and you start eating my boy