Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The bolded is gospel. Women get bored easily and generally don’t fall in love with you but what you can do for them. Men are the true idealists in the game of love and sex.

How does it go? given a camera, women point it at themselves, but men point it at the world.


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I have two strategies with online dating. Mainly Tinder, IG, Snapchat, Bumble, BLK.

If a girl has a DTF vibe, I open in with sexual innuendos. Plant ideas in her heads. Set the tone.

Sometimes, I'll open with a random one-liner. Then follow with "come hang out with me". Invite her on what I'm doing.

I use to ask questions with "how are you" and other generic stuff. That's cool. But then, I just started saying what's on my mind.

Voice messages is my ammunition. My voice is deep, so I use that to my benefit.

Online dating isn't hard. Find what works best for you.
 

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Long distance talking stage basically died out over the past month :unimpressed:

Blessing in disguise, have a terrible habit of getting oneitis out of lack of options and effort. Might be able to smash again down the line.

Now I have to work through this drought long term and get my weight up:ufdup:
 

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Long distance talking stage basically died out over the past month :unimpressed:

Blessing in disguise, have a terrible habit of getting oneitis out of lack of options and effort. Might be able to smash again down the line.

Now I have to work through this drought long term and get my weight up:ufdup:
That was low yield prior to Covid can’t imagine it’s worth it going forward. Definitely not trying to start anything in the realm of serious from a long distance start.
 

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That was low yield prior to Covid can’t imagine it’s worth it going forward. Definitely not trying to start anything in the realm of serious from a long distance start.

Im done tryna start anything serious in general, Im only 22 :yeshrug:

Should just be working on myself and running through these jawns. shyt came from scarcity and being idealistic.

It's a process though, I aint getting it in like others around me but this year I'll try my best:wow:
 

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Idk what these women want.

I told this chick out and shes baddd AF. We had video chatted before and I love aggressive women. We were in a closed off spot at a Dave and Busters type place and she jacked me off in public. Said she wants us both to delete dating apps because she only wants to talk to me.

Next date we went to a lounge and she was the finest one in the building. Ass soft as hell so I stuck a finger inside discreetly. We went to my car and she gave me head. Busted 3 times and she swallowed. We put the passenger seat down and fukked. After a while she said she was sore but I had to get one more off. After that she fell asleep in the car. I didn't want her to get a DUI so I chilled before waking her up.

She called me the next day saying I was a little too aggressive and shes been distant since.

My ex called me and wants to get back together even though she knows I've been talking to other women the two weeks we said we were done.
 

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Idk what these women want.

I told this chick out and shes baddd AF. We had video chatted before and I love aggressive women. We were in a closed off spot at a Dave and Busters type place and she jacked me off in public. Said she wants us both to delete dating apps because she only wants to talk to me.

Next date we went to a lounge and she was the finest one in the building. Ass soft as hell so I stuck a finger inside discreetly. We went to my car and she gave me head. Busted 3 times and she swallowed. We put the passenger seat down and fukked. After a while she said she was sore but I had to get one more off. After that she fell asleep in the car. I didn't want her to get a DUI so I chilled before waking her up.

She called me the next day saying I was a little too aggressive and shes been distant since.

My ex called me and wants to get back together even though she knows I've been talking to other women the two weeks we said we were done.
”Watch what she does, not what she says”

sounds like she got what she wanted out of you (sex and since y’all were fukking in public — the thrill), made up a bullshyt excuse for whatever reason, and left it at that. Maybe she’ll come around, maybe she won’t.

as far as your ex, her knowing you back in the field and (if you a decent dude) knowing she let a solid guy go, she wants to rekindle that.
 

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Idk what these women want.

I told this chick out and shes baddd AF. We had video chatted before and I love aggressive women. We were in a closed off spot at a Dave and Busters type place and she jacked me off in public. Said she wants us both to delete dating apps because she only wants to talk to me.

Next date we went to a lounge and she was the finest one in the building. Ass soft as hell so I stuck a finger inside discreetly. We went to my car and she gave me head. Busted 3 times and she swallowed. We put the passenger seat down and fukked. After a while she said she was sore but I had to get one more off. After that she fell asleep in the car. I didn't want her to get a DUI so I chilled before waking her up.

She called me the next day saying I was a little too aggressive and shes been distant since.

My ex called me and wants to get back together even though she knows I've been talking to other women the two weeks we said we were done.
First girl is too much, too soon....

Best way to put it is, when you smash a chick too quick, you don't know how you feel about her yet, she's super serious about you.

With you, she don't know how she feel about you, yet she's giving a piece of herself away early on. Remember women lose leverage the more of themselves that they give away.

And as far as ya ex, she probably tested the dating market and saw how terrible it was then decided to come back.
 

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Or you could be looking to teach breh, to stop the chicanery and get on your level of maturity. Its not about how pretty they are, but how many you can pluck. Also about being realistic....there's no place in the world where 8,9 and 10's hangout in droves. I would say your friend needs to be grounded, or just told to stop with the bullshyt, no one believes him, and its better if he actually looked for help with getting said women he desires. If he's not open to that, he's a lost cause.
Breh got too much of an ego to be taught anything.
Napoleon complex for the win lol
 

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And that’s why I can’t be mad at them like I was when I was younger. Women are silly and don’t deserve the ire they get. They are who they are and they ain’t gonna change. Best to act accordingly and not take them too seriously. Men have literally destroyed themselves putting too much stock into women.
This. I tell men all the time....they're children, capricious, lonely losers, by design. You have to learn to ignore, feed em, and fukk em from time to time. Its like having a talking pet, doesn't matter how much good you want for it...unattended, it will run int othe train tracks.
@Babyface can you nikkas write a book on bytches or start a podcast. I have never been successful keeping a bytch for more than a few months.
 

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Haven't heard from her since our date and we kissed on Thursday. she texts me today shes been down with a migraine and just got out of bed how am I doing? :russ:
 

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Yeah I'm not even attracted to her anymore. Honestly I was so new to dating.

During my 20s I was a DJ and just smashed women. Vagina just fell into my lap. Now I'm just trying to actually date to find a partner so I'm having all these bumps in the road and it's painful.
I'm with you. It's very painful.
 
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