That’s human nature, I don’t believe shyt I hear and only half of what I see anyways
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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InGodWeTrust
Tall & Handsome in ATL
What a night!
Met up at the lounge. Had a blast. Took her to my car since we were parked nearby. She swallowed 3 times then I let the passenger seat down and fukked her to sleep.
Let her rest for a while because I don’t want her to get a DUI going home but just admired like
I love the feeling of having a fine chick being all on me in public
What a night
Met up at the lounge. Had a blast. Took her to my car since we were parked nearby. She swallowed 3 times then I let the passenger seat down and fukked her to sleep.
Let her rest for a while because I don’t want her to get a DUI going home but just admired like
I love the feeling of having a fine chick being all on me in public
What a night
How many redflags you need breh.....
Dating shouldnt be and ain't this hard fam....
The right situation won't have you doubting and thinking about ass backwards shyt....
Remember cooperation is key, she ain't even taking accountability, she shifting it someone else, like she isnt a whole adult.
Not saying you can't potentially force a situation to happen but remember, a relationship built on a faulty foundation, only prolongs the inevitable.
I want to smash an egyptian, had a chance back in college but was too timid, she was dtf on the low....
If I come across one in LA, its on.
Truthfully it don't matter in the grand scheme of things.How do you guys feel about a homeboy who is always capping about the type of women he pulls?
On social media you claim to pull 7 and ups, but when I see you it's always a fat white woman on your arm
Only thing I care about is what my dikk is hitting.
With that said, his opinion is null and void, but so is most of the coli, until proven otherwise.
The same cats on this forum won't produce valid pics of women they knocking. Also in this same forum cats will lust after a 3 or 4, like she's a 10.
Found these scribbles i wrote when I was in the mud years ago
The emotional connection can be forged quickly or can be a slow
and meticulous process. However when it becomes distorted it will
have you taking back a cheater, abuser, liar and accepting all forms
of shadiness while destroying your self-worth as well as overriding
your gut / intuition and logical thinking.
It will have you constantly checking up on an ex on Facebook,
Instagram, Twitter or whatever form of social media they may
utilize continually looking for information and setting you back time
and time again. It will allow you to lose your dignity by professing
your “love” in long letters and participating in ridiculous “games” to
try and win back your former sweetheart. It will have you accepting
bread crumbs, disrespect and demotion since as long as you get a hit
of them the chain of emotional connection stays attached. It will
have you residing in stagnant relationships long past the expiry date
and it will water the unpleasant seed of codependency.
So how do you eradicate the emotional connection that has been
distorted?
1. Emotional Distance by cutting the cord and leaving no “ins”
A) Total Withdrawal!!
Just like how if someone is in the process of dumping you or cutting
you out of their life, they slowly make their withdrawal, physically
and emotionally......now it is your turn to do the same but totally.
The emotional connection will have to starve to death without any
form of contact, just like if you have Candida overgrowth by
eliminating sugar it will slowly starve the excess Candida.
B) Leaving No “Ins”
If you have roaches in your household, you will take measures to
eradicate them. If you call pest control and they spray your property
but you still leave food out and crumbs they will continually come
back again and again. You have to leave ZERO ins, patch up any
openings, leave no crumbs, whether that may be blocking on social
media or deactivating it totally, changing your number, being
“mean” in the sense you totally ignore, all these steps and maybe
more will have to be taken. Remember this is for you! The time is
now to put yourself first.
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It was over and I accepted it was for the best, yet day after day I would sign into Facebook and head straight to her page for my daily updates of the on goings in her life.
It became my reading the newspaper with a bagel in my house robe daily ritual. Ah I already knew I would feel like crap afterwards and see something I did not want to see but I just could not help myself; the urge was so strong and I just gave in – take me ahh. Day after day I got my fix, the highs ah then once that dissipated the lows of feeling miserable, sad, and angry at myself.
No mas, No more I would say as I would hold out for a few days or weeks and then the withdrawal – oh let me just take a quick glance and there I would be, catching up on everything I missed – Binge snooping so to speak. Who are these new guys she’s adding? Wow all these guys are so thirsty and pathetic! Who are those people she’s taking photos with? That stomach churning feeling in my belly ah she’s still single……Oh Crap she’s now in a relationship?
Why the heck I’m I viewing this guy’s page? I don’t even know him but hate him already. Why the hell are my “friends” clicking like on their photos together? It doesn’t matter it won’t even last yep he’s just a rebound would soothe my thoughts. I’m so much better looking in each and every way. Here I was wishing the worst on someone I once said I cared about how fake I was.
Argh I can’t stop looking, let me find the hottest girl I can and start dating and take photos and make it my display photo – manipulation tactics 101. Ah look she’s single again karma haha. This was no way to live but I was so consumed and could not let go (insert I probably needed therapy at this stage and point).
Until one day I finally had my wakeup call. Why am I wasting so much precious time and attention on this so I just defriended and blocked. Of course it was hard but I fought through it and filled my mind with much more joyous thoughts as I stopped trying to hold onto the façade that I could be “friends” even on Facebook. Went straight cold turkey and never peered again, as the weeks turned into months and months to years I never looked again and it was one of the best decisions I ever made.
like i said i been there breh DONT DO IT
Free Game
Might need to up this post every few months to remind the brehs who come in here in pain
<<TheStandard>>
I Am A God
How many redflags you need breh.....
Dating shouldnt be and ain't this hard fam....
The right situation won't have you doubting and thinking about ass backwards shyt....
Remember cooperation is key, she ain't even taking accountability, she shifting it someone else, like she isnt a whole adult.
Not saying you can't potentially force a situation to happen but remember, a relationship built on a faulty foundation, only prolongs the inevitable.
Yeah I realized that. This was back in 2018 but she just came back around and had me thinking about this.
The program works for guys who are public figures and business men with powerful networks who need a marriage material woman who knows how to conduct herself and support her man’s business.
Lol image huh
VertigoKnight
Veteran
A lot of men lose their social and support network when they get married, your wives friends /other couples become yours as you spend the most time with them.
When things end who do you think they’ll still be in touch with?
This is why I’ll say to any brehs getting married don't neglect your own friendships outside of your marriage, keep them strong and open and if it ever comes to divorce you’ll get back on your feet quicker as you’ll have people to reach out to outside of just family. This is why women ‘bounce back’ a lot quicker when shyts ends, well a couple of reasons she’s already emotionally pulled back. But her and her friends have throughly discussed every facet of why this is a good thing for her.
Guy's tend to pull back and not share how they're really feeling.
I was married for 7 yrs and 12 years overall in a relationship. I’m still recovering from that in terms of starting socially again.
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Met up with the white girl. Damn, she's even prettier in person. I swore off white chicks but may have to make an exception for this one. Vibes were good,conversation flowing. I paid for the movie, she paid for dinner.
Walked her home and genuinely had to use her bathroom but I stayed for a bit and we made out whilst I waited for my cab. Sucked her titties before I left
and we've arranged to meet later in the week to watch a movie at my place.
Walked her home and genuinely had to use her bathroom but I stayed for a bit and we made out whilst I waited for my cab. Sucked her titties before I left
and we've arranged to meet later in the week to watch a movie at my place.
<<TheStandard>>
I Am A God
Found these scribbles i wrote when I was in the mud years ago
The emotional connection can be forged quickly or can be a slow
and meticulous process. However when it becomes distorted it will
have you taking back a cheater, abuser, liar and accepting all forms
of shadiness while destroying your self-worth as well as overriding
your gut / intuition and logical thinking.
It will have you constantly checking up on an ex on Facebook,
Instagram, Twitter or whatever form of social media they may
utilize continually looking for information and setting you back time
and time again. It will allow you to lose your dignity by professing
your “love” in long letters and participating in ridiculous “games” to
try and win back your former sweetheart. It will have you accepting
bread crumbs, disrespect and demotion since as long as you get a hit
of them the chain of emotional connection stays attached. It will
have you residing in stagnant relationships long past the expiry date
and it will water the unpleasant seed of codependency.
So how do you eradicate the emotional connection that has been
distorted?
1. Emotional Distance by cutting the cord and leaving no “ins”
A) Total Withdrawal!!
Just like how if someone is in the process of dumping you or cutting
you out of their life, they slowly make their withdrawal, physically
and emotionally......now it is your turn to do the same but totally.
The emotional connection will have to starve to death without any
form of contact, just like if you have Candida overgrowth by
eliminating sugar it will slowly starve the excess Candida.
B) Leaving No “Ins”
If you have roaches in your household, you will take measures to
eradicate them. If you call pest control and they spray your property
but you still leave food out and crumbs they will continually come
back again and again. You have to leave ZERO ins, patch up any
openings, leave no crumbs, whether that may be blocking on social
media or deactivating it totally, changing your number, being
“mean” in the sense you totally ignore, all these steps and maybe
more will have to be taken. Remember this is for you! The time is
now to put yourself first.
--------------
It was over and I accepted it was for the best, yet day after day I would sign into Facebook and head straight to her page for my daily updates of the on goings in her life.
It became my reading the newspaper with a bagel in my house robe daily ritual. Ah I already knew I would feel like crap afterwards and see something I did not want to see but I just could not help myself; the urge was so strong and I just gave in – take me ahh. Day after day I got my fix, the highs ah then once that dissipated the lows of feeling miserable, sad, and angry at myself.
No mas, No more I would say as I would hold out for a few days or weeks and then the withdrawal – oh let me just take a quick glance and there I would be, catching up on everything I missed – Binge snooping so to speak. Who are these new guys she’s adding? Wow all these guys are so thirsty and pathetic! Who are those people she’s taking photos with? That stomach churning feeling in my belly ah she’s still single……Oh Crap she’s now in a relationship?
Why the heck I’m I viewing this guy’s page? I don’t even know him but hate him already. Why the hell are my “friends” clicking like on their photos together? It doesn’t matter it won’t even last yep he’s just a rebound would soothe my thoughts. I’m so much better looking in each and every way. Here I was wishing the worst on someone I once said I cared about how fake I was.
Argh I can’t stop looking, let me find the hottest girl I can and start dating and take photos and make it my display photo – manipulation tactics 101. Ah look she’s single again karma haha. This was no way to live but I was so consumed and could not let go (insert I probably needed therapy at this stage and point).
Until one day I finally had my wakeup call. Why am I wasting so much precious time and attention on this so I just defriended and blocked. Of course it was hard but I fought through it and filled my mind with much more joyous thoughts as I stopped trying to hold onto the façade that I could be “friends” even on Facebook. Went straight cold turkey and never peered again, as the weeks turned into months and months to years I never looked again and it was one of the best decisions I ever made.
like i said i been there breh DONT DO IT
Man, I reached out to a girl back in December who left me in the Summer. I remember texting her I valued and cherished our friendship and hoped we could reconnect and basically let me know that she wanted nothing to do with me and then blocked me on twitter. I remember calling her after and it was clear she didn't give a fukk about me. Shorty said she felt like I was trying to force a friendship. That's when I knew I completely lost my dignity but I felt like I had to know if something was still there. I'm still friends with her on Facebook and IG but I have her muted. I def would do the same type of snooping. It was just wild to me because the way she left, she was on some I just need a break and then the next day she sent me naked flicks and then I never heard from her again.
It took so much for me to learn that when a woman just goes distant, she's done with you.
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women who are overly clingy to their moms / care about what their moms think is a huge turnoff. I find it childish and it reeks of insecurity. I like a woman with confidence and conviction personally.
<<TheStandard>>
I Am A God
Yeah I'm not even attracted to her anymore. Honestly I was so new to dating.
During my 20s I was a DJ and just smashed women. Vagina just fell into my lap. Now I'm just trying to actually date to find a partner so I'm having all these bumps in the road and it's painful.