because women change
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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because women change
Cold worldDaRealness
I think very deeply
For those who can make it work and are happy, great.
But the game is all kinds of fukked up nowadays and I don't even need to post examples of men getting the short end of the stick when things go bad.
Killigraphy
Banned
Right, my logic applies to both birds you want to pluck and girls you want to be dating. Objectively speaking, you went out with purpose, by your own admission you expected something, it wasn't to get left there with the check and not even a kiss or any kind of forward movement. She even ignored you the next day. So again, you really have to ask yourself "Am I being too much of a simp/square", don't get defensive, take a minute and analyze, both this experience and anything in the past. If you find that you're the one putting up more than the other party, then you might be simping. I know plenty of men don't want to admit or even accept that truth, but if you can't jump into step 1..its gonna be a lot rougher for you in the future.
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Killigraphy
Banned
Sounds like OP just wants a girl, regardless of age, its the desperation tactic, old or young, he's gonna have to realize that he's gonna be playing the game, whether he wants to or not.
Marriage is for suckers
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Yes I’m jaded idgaf. As long as I can cum on a bytch every month or so at minimum idgaf
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Thatrogueassdiaz
We're on the blood path now
what ever happened with the arabial one? I think it was the doctor?Will pm
Set my race only to black
Only swipe above average and attractive chicks
Within 15 miles
25-30
I never like photos just what they wrote
So far I've met 7 women so far in 2022 from hinge
4 was in one week
A doctor
A nurse
A lawyer
As soon as I match I start messaging and try to meet asap .
just wait it out, you'll see it is the best decision you can make for yourself, but just know that choice comes with costs and you could find yourself to be very lonely in your 30s and amongst a lot of over the hill women. But statistically speaking men aren't reaching their strides until 30s anyway and you can always date younger.
I care too much about my own integrity, because I have done a lot and got rewarded with what I wanted, but have also embarrassed myself in certain situations. I do not like that feeling, so I avoid it.
I did not expect anything because I went into it knowing this chick was possibly the type to be either cold at first or manipulating to weed out creeps but really just want to be smutted out. To me there is no inbetween. And she did hit me the next night after I made that post, but that doesn't matter to me if in the end. If she plays herself by not being honest then that's on her; I have been going slow and matching her speed because I'm curious to see if she is a liar. One thing for sure is I have made up my mind that I cannot go out with a girl like this again if it ends up the same way as say the last 2 girls she reminds me of.
nah u good even if shirty average she got 100+ dudes in her dms….apply a lil pressure im guessn she wants a “relationship “ like most broads do lol
buzzkill
All Star
im 28 and not too many people i know are married just have bm's
some of my friends were trying to clown me because ive consistently been a "fukkboi" my entire 20s focusing on leveling up and running through heaux. never really doing a long term thing
now most of em have financial issues and baby mama issues while I'm sitting back stacking bread and doing my thing. Only issue i have is dealing with crazy chicks. i tried to do the long term thing recently a few times but it ended badly. so now im like meh fukk marriage and dating
. maybe when im in my 30s ill be ready but right now im good.the annoying thing is when family starts bringing up settling down and shyt. only thing i want right now is peace and to build my business. I too am jaded and disillusioned.
I am 30 years old. I might be in a minority who believes that marriage or at least being a one woman man has value
the only thing is that men often overlook red flags and marry or breed women who arent really a good fit for them and vice versa. Finding a good catch is tough, especially because women AND men change. But the great equalizer to that change is commitment. I believe that true love is a choice. So marriage can be worth it as long as you are with somebody who understands and makes that choice, and whose core values align with yours.
People like using the word compatibility when talking about relationships but often think of compatibility as meaning constancy and congruence. thats why people end up bored and under stimulated in monotonous situations. In reality we need to be more focused on consistency and complementariness. Thats what will have you in a relationship that is trustworthy and stable yet still nurturing and enabling you to grow or develop as a human being. I can go on and on but i agree with the idea that it isnt something to rush into. All in all, a life as a bachelor is far better than having a woman castrate you and ruin your life.
the only thing is that men often overlook red flags and marry or breed women who arent really a good fit for them and vice versa. Finding a good catch is tough, especially because women AND men change. But the great equalizer to that change is commitment. I believe that true love is a choice. So marriage can be worth it as long as you are with somebody who understands and makes that choice, and whose core values align with yours.
People like using the word compatibility when talking about relationships but often think of compatibility as meaning constancy and congruence. thats why people end up bored and under stimulated in monotonous situations. In reality we need to be more focused on consistency and complementariness. Thats what will have you in a relationship that is trustworthy and stable yet still nurturing and enabling you to grow or develop as a human being. I can go on and on but i agree with the idea that it isnt something to rush into. All in all, a life as a bachelor is far better than having a woman castrate you and ruin your life.
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That chasing tail shyt gets tired and is a major distraction to you if you have real goals and visions in life. Nothing compares to having one solid woman who understands, supports and looks out for you.
i always say that we have to look at life like a long journey. You set your destination (happiness) and along the way you will pick up hitch hikers, run into friends, family etc etc. Not everyone will make it to that destination, but its imperative that you try to reach that destination as in tact and efficiently as possible.
the more women and mileage you accumulate as a man, the more negative experiences you are bound to encounter and the more resources you are sure to waste/expend. Naturally you will deter yourself from reaching that destination/ state of happiness.
That being said, it might make the journey fun, but that fun comes at a cost. Just make sure the cost isnt TOO much to the point you dont make it at all to That destination .
i always say that we have to look at life like a long journey. You set your destination (happiness) and along the way you will pick up hitch hikers, run into friends, family etc etc. Not everyone will make it to that destination, but its imperative that you try to reach that destination as in tact and efficiently as possible.
the more women and mileage you accumulate as a man, the more negative experiences you are bound to encounter and the more resources you are sure to waste/expend. Naturally you will deter yourself from reaching that destination/ state of happiness.
That being said, it might make the journey fun, but that fun comes at a cost. Just make sure the cost isnt TOO much to the point you dont make it at all to That destination .
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Really the only way you win is if
- Finances are in order / she doesn’t worry about bills or she never sees a bill.
- She works about 10-20% (Stays busy)
- Date nights weekly
- Monthly / Quarterly vacations to keep excitement & passion
- Stay in top shape
- She needs to see other women on you
Once you have kids, that’s another battle lol
So friday i was at my gfs apartment…we in living room n she makes a comment about the gift she got me(wallet) i told her nicely i like my wallet and i didnt need a new one so ill put it away for now
this bytch starts whining about the shyt…u dont like my gifts etc…i had to tell this bytch
YA GIFTS fukkN STINK HALF THE TIME!! U GET ME shyt I DONT EVEN NEED/WANT N THAN COMPLAIN WHEN I DONT USE IT…SHE GOT ME THIS WACK ASS SHIRT LAST YEAR I TOLD HER STRAIGHT UP IM NOT WEARING THAT…I HAVE TO TELL THIS bytch WHAT I WANT FOR BDAY N shyt BCUZ SHE GETS THE WORST GIFTS
this bytch starts crying “this is the most ive ever been disrespected” i said word?? When ya ex thru u against a wall and didnt let u leave the apt what wa sthat…stop that cryn shyt or ill leave u…got this army logistics bytch that wana date me i might dump this bytch…
my gf been kissn my ass lately
this bytch starts whining about the shyt…u dont like my gifts etc…i had to tell this bytch
YA GIFTS fukkN STINK HALF THE TIME!! U GET ME shyt I DONT EVEN NEED/WANT N THAN COMPLAIN WHEN I DONT USE IT…SHE GOT ME THIS WACK ASS SHIRT LAST YEAR I TOLD HER STRAIGHT UP IM NOT WEARING THAT…I HAVE TO TELL THIS bytch WHAT I WANT FOR BDAY N shyt BCUZ SHE GETS THE WORST GIFTS
this bytch starts crying “this is the most ive ever been disrespected” i said word?? When ya ex thru u against a wall and didnt let u leave the apt what wa sthat…stop that cryn shyt or ill leave u…got this army logistics bytch that wana date me i might dump this bytch…
my gf been kissn my ass lately
At 30, I don’t feel any type of way. No real pressure. I do value companionship and relationships, because just sex is wack and too easy to me.
With that said, compatibility is everything. If someone isn’t compatible and cooperative then there’s nothing to feel bad about.
Killigraphy
Banned
And even then!
If Celebs/Engineers with millions can't do it...we all have very little hope for LTR. I keep it simple, make her your girlfriend indefinitely, don't get married, focus on thyself, and put her in her place whenever needed.