Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

I matched with this one chick. App showed her in Atlanta. FaceTimed her. Found out she was in California. Maybe I’m stupid but I assumed she has connections to here and visits back and forth.

“No, I just changed my location to Atlanta. Just to see, never been”
Attempting to use me for attention or energy. Bonkers manlink me to the game he gave out. I believe him, but they front like they too “mature” for that. You seen my age on the profile shawty don’t shy up now

Lazy af and if you click, guess who’s paying for the plane ticket

 

[TRUEST]

Be careful, chicks that usually stay on Apps to long usually aren't quality. Good ones get snatched up and off the apps fast

They get snatched up, used and get back on the app. U shouldn’t be expecting to meet wifey on a app. Yeah I get it. Everyone is dating online now. But the stigma is still there.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

He lied about his age to appear older

@Hennessypapi how do you finesse ya way out of the “on the app it say your…” question?

Lazy af and if you click, guess who’s paying for the plane ticket

mannn not I! Got me fukked

 

[International Playa]

Damn brehs, my ex went out clubbing with her homegirls, dressed up much better & sexier than before. I stupidly ended up commenting on her IG story with fire emojis & said she looks hot. It's only been a month since the break up

 

[Serious]

Damn brehs, my ex went out clubbing with her homegirls, dressed up much better & sexier than before. I stupidly ended up commenting on her IG story with fire emojis & said she looks hot. It's only been a month since the break up

 

[Killigraphy]

What is up with some of these women on these apps?

She suggested me picking her up to get food like around midnight. When I said, "Wait you're serious?" She told told me nevermind because it seemed like I asked what hood she lived in to just make small talk (that's what I was doing).

Later, she hints at it still being an option. When I'm cool with it, she freaks out and accuses me of trying to lure her. Then she blocks me. I'm not even the one who suggested hanging out. I was cautious and slow with my conversation.

They're single and on an app for a reason. If she's anything close to a 6, and not taken, she's got more red flags than a Chinese parade. And yet, they remained entitled. I had the same thing, wants me to go an hour out to the deepest part of Queens, to come meet up for coffee....this bird is from Canada, I bring up "So you had to travel through Manhattan to get there, come down to the city"....replies with "its too far", so I ignored her completely. I'm not traveling more than 10 minutes, for just coffee, I'm either fukking, shes eating my ass, or swallowing, but to chat over coffee? Ha! And that's been my point forever, I don't care how pretty she is, and or how many good times you've had over the phone or through text...Your time, effort, and greatness, are far more important than hers. Always make them come to you.

 

[Killigraphy]

Damn brehs, my ex went out clubbing with her homegirls, dressed up much better & sexier than before. I stupidly ended up commenting on her IG story with fire emojis & said she looks hot. It's only been a month since the break up

Why are you still following her on any of the socials? I know the answer of course, I just want you to admit that there's a problem. Block her....completely.

 

[Killigraphy]

I had a date last night with this red haired white chick. Wholesome type or maybe I'm projecting that on her: 34, no kids, getting masters, medical lab scientist, introvert, doesn't drink, goes to church but getting away from Christianity, doesn't have many friends, and busy with work. Met on bumble. Texted back and forth for a few days before last night. We went to Mexican restaurant. I paid. Had a great convo and she didn't really want it to end so we went and got dessert. Stayed til everyone left. Finally called it a night at 10. Didn't kiss.

She had told me that with affection she has to warm up and feel safe, so I didn't expect it...but I kept getting this lingering feeling she wanted me to come over, but I couldn't tell. Kept biting her lip, staring in my eyes but would sometimes look down, there felt like chemistry but in my past whenever I go out with a wholesome girl and don't make a move out of respect of what the woman has said about affection/intimacy, I end up losing out and not going on a second date bc they really did want it and were just full of shyt. It's always wholesome ones like thst for me that fukk my whole game up, and the truth is its because deep down that is exactly what I want. I am truly hoping she ain't full of shyt.

Texted her when I got home, like she asked, said I enjoyed talking to her and meeting her and thought she was cute. She replied that she had a lovely evening this morning. I responded to thst and said glad she enjoyed herself bc I did as well. Haven't heard shyt since this morning. With her personality that's not surprising but there's always the chance I'm playing myself

You have to be honest with yourself, "Was I simping?" "Am I a simp?", truthfully, its not to insult you, but the world can't be full of guys getting laid and taking all the glory/ass. The majority of men are squares...don't even need to be a simp, you could just be vanilla. If you're afraid to make a move out of respect for some twisted world view on morality....I'd say you're too much a square for your own good....and that's how birds like her get fed, both literally, and figuratively. She got a free meal, and you didn't even get a lousy handjob....not even a kiss

 

[Ahadi]

You have to be honest with yourself, "Was I simping?" "Am I a simp?", truthfully, its not to insult you, but the world can't be full of guys getting laid and taking all the glory/ass. The majority of men are squares...don't even need to be a simp, you could just be vanilla. If you're afraid to make a move out of respect for some twisted world view on morality....I'd say you're too much a square for your own good....and that's how birds like her get fed, both literally, and figuratively. She got a free meal, and you didn't even get a lousy handjob....not even a kiss

& she was old

 

[MikelArteta]

Damn brehs, my ex went out clubbing with her homegirls, dressed up much better & sexier than before. I stupidly ended up commenting on her IG story with fire emojis & said she looks hot. It's only been a month since the break up

Block and delete, you're just delaying your healing
You owe her nothing


Everytime you look it's like a recovering alcoholic taking a shot. Don't do it.

What you don't know can't hurt you

You'll go from looking every day to guys commenting and then next thing you are looking at their profile. To then seeing her with her new guy and getting angry.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

You have to be honest with yourself, "Was I simping?" "Am I a simp?", truthfully, its not to insult you, but the world can't be full of guys getting laid and taking all the glory/ass. The majority of men are squares...don't even need to be a simp, you could just be vanilla. If you're afraid to make a move out of respect for some twisted world view on morality....I'd say you're too much a square for your own good....and that's how birds like her get fed, both literally, and figuratively. She got a free meal, and you didn't even get a lousy handjob....not even a kiss

It's all about what you have done and what you now want. Never did I say anywhere that I don't get laid. Simply said with a certain type I just won't jump all over it. Thats just me and that's because of past negative experiences, put it that way.

 

[MikelArteta]

date today at 1pm (its a holiday over here). So happy I adopted the @VertigoKnight policy, meeting up with these chicks 1-2 days after we first start talking. Not looking to be anyone's text buddy

 

[The ADD]

date today at 1pm (its a holiday over here). So happy I adopted the @VertigoKnight policy, meeting up with these chicks 1-2 days after we first start talking. Not looking to be anyone's text buddy

It’s the only way

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

They're single and on an app for a reason. If she's anything close to a 6, and not taken, she's got more red flags than a Chinese parade. And yet, they remained entitled. I had the same thing, wants me to go an hour out to the deepest part of Queens, to come meet up for coffee....this bird is from Canada, I bring up "So you had to travel through Manhattan to get there, come down to the city"....replies with "its too far", so I ignored her completely. I'm not traveling more than 10 minutes, for just coffee, I'm either fukking, shes eating my ass, or swallowing, but to chat over coffee? Ha! And that's been my point forever, I don't care how pretty she is, and or how many good times you've had over the phone or through text...Your time, effort, and greatness, are far more important than hers. Always make them come to you.

Disregard my previous reply. Just read this and see exactly where your mindset is. We aren't on the same level.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

I need to meet new women but these apps aren't working for me.

99% of the women on these apps in Philly are overweight
I've seen like 27 overweight women in a row
I match with women and they barely respond
Every women I speak to reminds me of how much I miss the last two girls I was dating last year who I never got over
I hate it here