Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

The ADD

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I can relate to that. I’m getting women effortlessly. Do you feel any pressure to find the right one though? I’ve been juggling so many but I just can’t seem to find the right one, they’re fun but I can’t build anything emotional with them. Granted I recently broke up with my ex of 2 years(4 months ago) cause of some shyt I did. Maybe it’s just that, my heart ain’t really in it.

Let’s be reality.

  • You are fresh off a 2 year relationship
  • You are juggling multiple chicks
Of course you can’t connect with emotionally. Nothing about that leads to “finding the one”.
 
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Brehs I'm rusty as fukk and need some help.


I spent last year in jail and have only been out for a few weeks. Idk how to navigate this dating scene with the covid shyt going on.


I haven't had much success with the online apps either...I ain't ugly, I ain't fat, I got 2 college degrees, but also got no job. I been honest about my situation in my profiles, about the jail time and shyt ... Should I not do that? Should I just fake the funk for now until I get my feet wet?
 

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Update….i texted the bytch that gave me her # and she never replied :russ::mjgrin:


Whats the whole point of givn me the #…id rather of been curved

I chalk it up to safety reasons. There’s been times where I misread the moment and put a woman in an awkward spot to where she gave up the # when she didn’t want to.
 

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Brehs I'm rusty as fukk and need some help.


I spent last year in jail and have only been out for a few weeks. Idk how to navigate this dating scene with the covid shyt going on.


I haven't had much success with the online apps either...I ain't ugly, I ain't fat, I got 2 college degrees, but also got no job. I been honest about my situation in my profiles, about the jail time and shyt ... Should I not do that? Should I just fake the funk for now until I get my feet wet?
What are you trying to do?

  • Date/work towards something long term
  • Casual situation
 

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Brehs I'm rusty as fukk and need some help.


I spent last year in jail and have only been out for a few weeks. Idk how to navigate this dating scene with the covid shyt going on.


I haven't had much success with the online apps either...I ain't ugly, I ain't fat, I got 2 college degrees, but also got no job. I been honest about my situation in my profiles, about the jail time and shyt ... Should I not do that? Should I just fake the funk for now until I get my feet wet?
Me personally bruh, if I just finished a jail bid and had no job… women would truly be the LAST thing on my mind.
 
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Me personally bruh, if I just finished a jail bid and had no job… women would truly be the LAST thing on my mind.


I ain't trying to make women the focal point of my life but it would be nice to have some to text on the side or smash or just flirt with at least.

Nothing serious for now
 

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My relationship of 3 years just ended this week. I caught her talking to some next dude. I thought she was "the one". We were in the process of buying a house, planning to get married & have a baby in 2022:to:

I'm going to take a few months to process this & get over it. I will focus on my career, gym, self improvement etc. Spring/Summer i will be back on the dating scene since 2018
 

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My relationship of 3 years just ended this week. I caught her talking to some next dude. I thought she was "the one". We were in the process of buying a house, planning to get married & have a baby in 2022:to:

I'm going to take a few months to process this & get over it. I will focus on my career, gym, self improvement etc. Spring/Summer i will be back on the dating scene since 2018
Jeez man

That’s foul
 

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Tell us about when you’ve thought a girl was “different” and she let you down, this will help a lot of the bruhs in here the most.

The thing is the good ones will catch you off guard no signs or warnings sometimes and your sitting there like wth :mjcry: what did I do wrong? I don’t understand or FML
When it comes down too it you just gotta hope for the best expect the worse. You can’t be stressing if or when save a piece of yourself so if it ever happens it won’t break u. Never trust 100% I say 90% max idc how great she is because that 10% can ease the pain or blow if comes to fruition. Sure you should still do right by her just know you can get played for a fool and not see it coming and nothing you can do. Just enjoy the time memories love etc….
Its a cruel world out there whether ur a simp, alpha male , 6 figs, 6ft tall your replaceable as easy as a woman’s underwear
Just have a sense of balance of happiness and awareness.
 
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Let’s be reality.

  • You are fresh off a 2 year relationship
  • You are juggling multiple chicks
Of course you can’t connect with emotionally. Nothing about that leads to “finding the one”.

:lolbron:That’s the thing though, I’m only juggling multiple chicks cause I can’t find one that one that keeps me interested like that. I used to do that back then too and then ended up meeting my ex and things just made sense so fast. However back then I felt no pressure at all. But since things ended and i’m in my late 20s now I’m starting to feel some pressure cause I thought I was set in that area.
 
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