Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Wargames]

Ya’ll ever swear you are done with trying to keep a rotation and are going to slow down and then a girl reaches out of the blue and wants to hook up.



I wasn’t looking to fukk her but I know am going to end up fukking her, but I got a whole other chick I am with.


This shyt is the universe. I literally swore I was going to quit last week. This chick even remembers I referred to her as my 2nd job in my phone.

 

[MikelArteta]

just got back from my date it went well. Chick was taller than me, she said I was cute and I ended up driving her home. Only thing is she reminds me so much of my ex fiance, they have the exact same name both are from the same tribe, and she went to the same university in nigeria . All we got is like a couple of drinks she was willing to pay but I said nah



anyways next up is the gynecologist on wed. Do I even pay for dinner?

The average pay for an OB/GYN is $316,607 a year, when this chick is making in a year what takes me like 3

 

[98Ntu]

My younger cousin is freshly 18. He’s going to college in a few months. He’s a nice guy who came from a single mother household. Really religious and has deep empathy for others. I just don’t want to see him get hurt and am trying to teach him how dating and sex go down in our society but he’s really idealistic. He expects to find a wife very soon.

I’m trying to tell him how to move and be a little detached without being a prick. I also told him to put himself first and don’t get super sentimental for no reason.

How can I help this kid? There are lessons he will have to learn on his own but what seeds can I plant? How do you talk to a younger male about women without making him bitter? What things could I say?

 

[Wargames]

My younger cousin is freshly 18. He’s going to college in a few months. He’s a nice guy who came from a single mother household. Really religious and has deep empathy for others. I just don’t want to see him get hurt and am trying to teach him how dating and sex go down in our society but he’s really idealistic. He expects to find a wife very soon.

I’m trying to tell him how to move and be a little detached without being a prick. I also told him to put himself first and don’t get super sentimental for no reason.

How can I help this kid? There are lessons he will have to learn on his own but what seeds can I plant? How do you talk to a younger male about women without making him bitter? What things could I say?

If he gets involved with the church crowd at college he might find a wife. The majority of couples I know that got married met there. Not all, but a lot

It's not a guarantee but that crowd is more likely to want to find a spouse they meet in college than most. So encourage his love of the Lord.

Other than that if he isn't ready to see the world a certain way, you can't make him. If anything teach him the signs of a woman who would manipulate him. Things he can do in a check list form like "Would she treat me like that if I was Michael B Jordan?", "Does she seem like someone I would want to introduce to my mother", "Does she like me for me or is she lonely and wants attention, and if she likes me what does she do to show it?" and most importantly the importance of safe sex to avoid unwanted pregnancies and disease.

You can't stop him from being hurt but you might keep him from the deep end of the pool where the THOTS, and the heartbreakers stay if he applies those questions to the girls he meets.

 

[Ohene]

Let's keep 3000, how do you feel when you come across a woman early on that is your type, willing to be submissive and is ready to settle down.


How do you feel?

It's some scary shyt tbh.

Woman I'm talking to right now is legit everything I want. From an intellectual, aesthetic(10/10), financial and overall compatibility point of view so far, but I can tell shyt would get super serious real quick.




Deep down, I don't think I'm ready.

But if I don't sample it, someone else will.

Do your due diligence
If everything checks out and you dont date her seriously than youre a fool. And im not saying that in an insultive way but rather for emphasis

If you see yourself wanting to get married and all that, then you should give a woman whos shown her worth a chance. If marriage isnt for you though, then i can respect it

 

[Max.]

So im at work bored and i get a knock its a janitor lady…30ish white girl..wearing yoga pants..locked her keys in the building…so we chat for like 5 mins and im about to leave n ask

“are u single?” She smiles hela big and says yes and she like ill take ya # n she texted me on the spot

 

[Apollo Creed]

just got back from my date it went well. Chick was taller than me, she said I was cute and I ended up driving her home. Only thing is she reminds me so much of my ex fiance, they have the exact same name both are from the same tribe, and she went to the same university in nigeria . All we got is like a couple of drinks she was willing to pay but I said nah



anyways next up is the gynecologist on wed. Do I even pay for dinner?

The average pay for an OB/GYN is $316,607 a year, when this chick is making in a year what takes me like 3

if you gotta ask just cancel the date because you seem star struck lol

 

[Apollo Creed]

My younger cousin is freshly 18. He’s going to college in a few months. He’s a nice guy who came from a single mother household. Really religious and has deep empathy for others. I just don’t want to see him get hurt and am trying to teach him how dating and sex go down in our society but he’s really idealistic. He expects to find a wife very soon.

I’m trying to tell him how to move and be a little detached without being a prick. I also told him to put himself first and don’t get super sentimental for no reason.

How can I help this kid? There are lessons he will have to learn on his own but what seeds can I plant? How do you talk to a younger male about women without making him bitter? What things could I say?

you cant help him. He already lost growing up in a single parent “religious” (aka BS) home thinkimg wt 18 he gonna find a wife soon. Dude cant even wipe ass.

let him fail and be there to build him back up. His father should be the one who prepped him, and unfortunately he didnt have that.

 

[MikelArteta]

if you gotta ask just cancel the date because you seem star struck lol

thanks for the honesty

 

[Apollo Creed]

thanks for the honesty

if i know a chick works i still take lead, i more so observe how much skin in the game she puts in. I’m not finna sugar baby a career woman, so i observe how things move and pull out accordingly.

 

[Krazy]

My younger cousin is freshly 18. He’s going to college in a few months. He’s a nice guy who came from a single mother household. Really religious and has deep empathy for others. I just don’t want to see him get hurt and am trying to teach him how dating and sex go down in our society but he’s really idealistic. He expects to find a wife very soon.

I’m trying to tell him how to move and be a little detached without being a prick. I also told him to put himself first and don’t get super sentimental for no reason.

How can I help this kid? There are lessons he will have to learn on his own but what seeds can I plant? How do you talk to a younger male about women without making him bitter? What things could I say?

Your intentions are good but he just gotta go through the motions and experience.

Best seed you can plant in him is literally just be social and enjoy college, try new things and meet new people...Obviously whilst still working hard to get his grades.
I dunno his personality etc and if he already someone thats social and confident but yeah.

One of my biggest regrets was not being social and enjoying college as I should have.

 

[Krazy]

Body looking crazy, making good $, working on my brain, and tryna evolve in nearly everyway. I want to get better w sex though. Talking to ladies is fine, getting em into me is fine, but when it come to sex I run into a big mental hurdle. Where sex should be fun it’s really stressful.

sometimes I blow fast, or I have trouble staying up (not like attraction is a big issue). i always make sure the ladies get off nd all, but stuff like that has been getting me down, and it stays in my head in new encounters. physically, i know im healthy so im thinking it’s a mental thing, ion even meat beat. however i had similar happen a couple years ago during a cut

Yeah can relate!
In the past especially made me shy away from certain women who were practically throwing it at me, thought of it sent my anxiety through the roof.
Especially if we had mutual friends.

My things always been blowing fast especially new women embarassing, but as you said seems mental for you.

Maybe try relaxing meditation (sounds corny) before an encounter if its a planned one.
Obviously cant do that if its unexpected, see if that helps.

I think mines mental but also psychological..Im working on it.

 

[Action Mike]

Ya’ll ever swear you are done with trying to keep a rotation and are going to slow down and then a girl reaches out of the blue and wants to hook up.



I wasn’t looking to fukk her but I know am going to end up fukking her, but I got a whole other chick I am with.


This shyt is the universe. I literally swore I was going to quit last week. This chick even remembers I referred to her as my 2nd job in my phone.

Rotation never stops until I'm committed on my terms. Ever.

Also I don't know what it is, but when in a relationship they can smell that shyt and demonically now all want you

 

[Neuromancer]

It still baffles me how the female equivalent of this is rarely upped and this is stickied.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

It still baffles me how the female equivalent of this is rarely upped and this is stickied.

wouldn't that have to do with this site having a larger male user base than female?