Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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She has to pay the "blood price" as I like to say. So if she wants to come back, she gets the food, and is eating my ass before I even touch her. To be fair, if she fukked up, it better be something light, if its betrayal, then she's never gonna see me again. But if she ghosted me, and all of a sudden wants to come back, then she knows already. Debase yourself for my attention, kill yourself for my time.

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Body looking crazy, making good $, working on my brain, and tryna evolve in nearly everyway. I want to get better w sex though. Talking to ladies is fine, getting em into me is fine, but when it come to sex I run into a big mental hurdle. Where sex should be fun it’s really stressful.

sometimes I blow fast, or I have trouble staying up (not like attraction is a big issue). i always make sure the ladies get off nd all, but stuff like that has been getting me down, and it stays in my head in new encounters. physically, i know im healthy so im thinking it’s a mental thing, ion even meat beat. however i had similar happen a couple years ago during a cut
 

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Body looking crazy, making good $, working on my brain, and tryna evolve in nearly everyway. I want to get better w sex though. Talking to ladies is fine, getting em into me is fine, but when it come to sex I run into a big mental hurdle. Where sex should be fun it’s really stressful.

sometimes I blow fast, or I have trouble staying up (not like attraction is a big issue). i always make sure the ladies get off nd all, but stuff like that has been getting me down, and it stays in my head in new encounters. physically, i know im healthy so im thinking it’s a mental thing. however i had similar happen a couple years ago during a cut
If it happened during a cut it might be dietary. If you aren’t getting sufficient fats that could throw hormones off along with the mental part
 
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Saw my ex fiance on hinge :heh:

That nurse that I work with who I met up with twice and then she went silent then popped back up. I messaged her yesterday :yeshrug: she replied back she was working the night shift and I had to go in today. Met up after her shift:myman:

Have a date tonight with this other chick, will see how it goes
 

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It’s crazy how many women is damaged out here :wow:


Women will tell on themselves if you let them and be judgement free.

Yup just sit back and wait

Was talking to this girl and she mentioned how she hates her dad, and used to do casual sex a lot but now she's looking for something serious, and the last date she went on after they went out to eat the guy asked her for some puzzy

I just :hubie:

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not saying im perfect or anything but I keep saying there is a reason why many women are single if you just sit back and wait
 

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Yup just sit back and wait

Was talking to this girl and she mentioned how she hates her dad, and used to do casual sex a lot but now she's looking for something serious, and the last date she went on after they went out to eat the guy asked her for some puzzy

I just :hubie:

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not saying im perfect or anything but I keep saying there is a reason why many women are single if you just sit back and wait
I was talking with chick last night she’s 9/10.

Sounds like an LSA divestor but “isn’t”.

But she constantly meets dude that bump and dump her.

Really wants a serious relationship but didn’t know how to act when she was in one her early 20’s because she was constantly cheating on a good dude. She still thinks about that dude to this day, but was mad that he was a good dude.

I mean breh the hypocrisy is insane. :mindblown:


I just kept feeding her ego and letting her talk while I was like hell no. I think I’ll smash with a condom on though.
 

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I was talking with chick last night she’s 9/10.

Sounds like an LSA divestor but “isn’t”.

But she constantly meets dude that bump and dump her.

Really wants a serious relationship but didn’t know how to act when she was in one her early 20’s because she was constantly cheating on a good dude. She still thinks about that dude to this day, but was mad that he was a good dude.

I mean breh the hypocrisy is insane. :mindblown:


I just kept feeding her ego and letting her talk while I was like hell no. I think I’ll smash with a condom on though.


Im actually shocked as well the amount of women in their late 20s and 30s I talk too that their longest relationships are like 4 months and ish.
 

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Im actually shocked as well the amount of women in their late 20s and 30s I talk too that their longest relationships are like 4 months and ish.

The longest I hear is a year.

I’m like a year?!

They sound shocked when I say my longest was 12 yrs.

It used to be most people would be around 2 yrs together now that has definitely dropped.
 

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The longest I hear is a year.

I’m like a year?!

They sound shocked when I say my longest was 12 yrs.

It used to be most people would be around 2 yrs together now that has definitely dropped.

Yup it's crazy. It's this generation also the same with work how folks switch jobs like every year etc. I'm 36 and I've only worked for 3 places in my life :heh:
 

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The longest I hear is a year.

I’m like a year?!

They sound shocked when I say my longest was 12 yrs.

It used to be most people would be around 2 yrs together now that has definitely dropped.

It's the grass is greener mentality again.
Definitely noticed people in shorter relationships since dating apps lost the stigma over the years.
 

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It's the grass is greener mentality again.
Definitely noticed people in shorter relationships since dating apps lost the stigma over the years.

Yep, and it’s alway the type of people who put all their business up on social media then fall out and be deleting videos and pictures. Every few months.

Women I’m dating, dont be posting anything up on social media that light either of us up. Privacy and discretion is a lost art with a lot of people.

Only people I usually know are her close friends and some of her fam.
 
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Let's keep 3000, how do you feel when you come across a woman early on that is your type, willing to be submissive and is ready to settle down. :patrice:


How do you feel? :patrice:

It's some scary shyt tbh. :picard:

Woman I'm talking to right now is legit everything I want. From an intellectual, aesthetic(10/10), financial and overall compatibility point of view so far, but I can tell shyt would get super serious real quick. :mjcry:




Deep down, I don't think I'm ready. :sadcam:

But if I don't sample it, someone else will. :hubie:
 

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Let's keep 3000, how do you feel when you come across a woman early on that is your type, willing to be submissive and is ready to settle down. :patrice:


How do you feel? :patrice:

It's some scary shyt tbh. :picard:

Woman I'm talking to right now is legit everything I want. From an intellectual, aesthetic(10/10), financial and overall compatibility point of view so far, but I can tell shyt would get super serious real quick. :mjcry:




Deep down, I don't think I'm ready. :sadcam:

But if I don't sample it, someone else will. :hubie:

Heaven on earth :noah:
 
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