Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Let's keep 3000, how do you feel when you come across a woman early on that is your type, willing to be submissive and is ready to settle down. :patrice:


How do you feel? :patrice:

It's some scary shyt tbh. :picard:

Woman I'm talking to right now is legit everything I want. From an intellectual, aesthetic(10/10), financial and overall compatibility point of view so far, but I can tell shyt would get super serious real quick. :mjcry:




Deep down, I don't think I'm ready. :sadcam:

But if I don't sample it, someone else will. :hubie:
If you’re not ready, communicate that to her. Tell her you don’t feel prepared to get into a relationship. If you’re not ready due to you not being where you’re suppose to be (finances, physical health, mental space) communicate that and see if she wants to build with you**

If she doesn’t, oh well. This same logical we use about thots coming and going should be applied to dimes (your words). She has all amazing qualities that a man should want, and she’s entitled to get with a man on her level.

**from my experiences and what I’ve seen, it’s rare for a woman to want to genuinely build with you.
 

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Let's keep 3000, how do you feel when you come across a woman early on that is your type, willing to be submissive and is ready to settle down. :patrice:


How do you feel? :patrice:

It's some scary shyt tbh. :picard:

Woman I'm talking to right now is legit everything I want. From an intellectual, aesthetic(10/10), financial and overall compatibility point of view so far, but I can tell shyt would get super serious real quick. :mjcry:




Deep down, I don't think I'm ready. :sadcam:

But if I don't sample it, someone else will. :hubie:

If that kinda woman pops up again, I may have to take her. But you do need that 6-12 month assessment. As like I always say, people are on their best behaviour first 4-6 months of you meeting each other, it’s the person that appears after that which will tell you if anything long term will work.

But it’s good if you know you’re not seriously ready. I’d rather I let a chick go positively than fukk her around and burn that bridge with her. Good women that you truly get along with can sometimes come back around and you may be ready that time.
 

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Let's keep 3000, how do you feel when you come across a woman early on that is your type, willing to be submissive and is ready to settle down. :patrice:


How do you feel? :patrice:

It's some scary shyt tbh. :picard:

Woman I'm talking to right now is legit everything I want. From an intellectual, aesthetic(10/10), financial and overall compatibility point of view so far, but I can tell shyt would get super serious real quick. :mjcry:




Deep down, I don't think I'm ready. :sadcam:

But if I don't sample it, someone else will. :hubie:
Yep, can get scary
 

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If you’re not ready, communicate that to her. Tell her you don’t feel prepared to get into a relationship. If you’re not ready due to you not being where you’re suppose to be (finances, physical health, mental space) communicate that and see if she wants to build with you**

If she doesn’t, oh well. This same logical we use about thots coming and going should be applied to dimes (your words). She has all amazing qualities that a man should want, and she’s entitled to get with a man on her level.

**from my experiences and what I’ve seen, it’s rare for a woman to want to genuinely build with you.
See it's not about part more so, than the super serious part. It's like I can tell, if I really buy in, I'd legit be settled down in a few months.

And that means no more trips to Colombia @Silver Surfer :to:
 

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So I been with my girl since November

A shorty I was really feeling in the summer is in the Air Force and just got back not too long ago off deployment.

We been talking, vibing after not hearing much of her since September. Ngl she’s way better looking than my girl and we vibe.

Dk what to do, I like my girl but she was kinda just a transition move for me. I’m not crazy over her like she is for me. Yeah we go out, I buy her little things and vise versa. She just turned 22 last week whereas this girl is about to be 25 this year. Completely different mindsets and the conversations we have.

Told myself I’d never cheat :francis:
 

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So I been with my girl since November

A shorty I was really feeling in the summer is in the Air Force and just got back not too long ago off deployment.

We been talking, vibing after not hearing much of her since September. Ngl she’s way better looking than my girl and we vibe.

Dk what to do, I like my girl but she was kinda just a transition move for me. I’m not crazy over her like she is for me. Yeah we go out, I buy her little things and vise versa. She just turned 22 last week whereas this girl is about to be 25 this year. Completely different mindsets and the conversations we have.

Told myself I’d never cheat :francis:
Move on. You don’t really care too much for the 22 year old by your own words on a message board……
 

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Move on. You don’t really care too much for the 22 year old by your own words on a message board……
Not capping, she probably has the best personality outta any shorty I’ve dealt with. Always in a good mood, joking around, paints & draws stuff for me to hang up in my work locker.

Best libido too, always DTF. I’ve had sex in some spots I’ve never thought I would.

never a “I’m tired” or “not in the mood” instead a “give me a few hours then I got you”
 

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Not capping, she probably has the best personality outta any shorty I’ve dealt with. Always in a good mood, joking around, paints & draws stuff for me to hang up in my work locker.

Best libido too, always DTF. I’ve had sex in some spots I’ve never thought I would.

never a “I’m tired” or “not in the mood” instead a “give me a few hours then I got you”
Lol but you already got your mind on the other and you haven’t spent much time with her
 
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Not capping, she probably has the best personality outta any shorty I’ve dealt with. Always in a good mood, joking around, paints & draws stuff for me to hang up in my work locker.

Best libido too, always DTF. I’ve had sex in some spots I’ve never thought I would.

never a “I’m tired” or “not in the mood” instead a “give me a few hours then I got you”

if it was me I’d keep shorty simply because I’ve had badder joints that couldn’t sustain what you just mentioned above. Rock with whoever is rocking with you breh and if that’s the 22 year old then I say keep her. It does also depend on what you want relationship wise too. The military joint might get deployed or stationed somewhere else breh. Do you really think that the military joint can keep y’all’s vibe going long term vs the younger joint?
 

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Let's keep 3000, how do you feel when you come across a woman early on that is your type, willing to be submissive and is ready to settle down. :patrice:


How do you feel? :patrice:

It's some scary shyt tbh. :picard:

Woman I'm talking to right now is legit everything I want. From an intellectual, aesthetic(10/10), financial and overall compatibility point of view so far, but I can tell shyt would get super serious real quick. :mjcry:




Deep down, I don't think I'm ready. :sadcam:

But if I don't sample it, someone else will. :hubie:
breh you don't meet a woman until after the wedding/after the baby lol.

Anything before that enjoy the ride snd protect yourself.
 

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if it was me I’d keep shorty simply because I’ve had badder joints that couldn’t sustain what you just mentioned above. Rock with whoever is rocking with you breh and if that’s the 22 year old then I say keep her. It does also depend on what you want relationship wise too. The military joint might get deployed or stationed somewhere else breh. Do you really think that the military joint can keep y’all’s vibe going long term vs the younger joint?
22 year old is mature but not at my level. Never worked a real job, mom & dad still pay for everything, has roommates. She’ll cry when I leave her after a long weekend together cuz I gotta work in the morning.

The Air Force chick well settled in for a 25 year old and she finna get outta the military soon, she been in since she was 19.

Idk, I wish my girl was a bit older & established ig. That’s all. :francis:
 
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22 year old is mature but not at my level. Never worked a real job, mom & dad still pay for everything, has roommates. She’ll cry when I leave her after a long weekend together cuz I gotta work in the morning.

The Air Force chick well settled in for a 25 year old and she finna get outta the military soon, she been in since she was 19.

Idk, I wish my girl was a bit older & established ig. That’s all. :francis:
Ah aight that clarifies things. Yea I see why you want to explore the military joint and I don’t blame you breh. The young joint sounds like a hassle after your explanation. Definitely try things out with the older joint especially if she will be living close by after she gets out the military. That roommate shyt sounds:picard:. Especially if YOU have your own crib. That crying shyt is also :hhh:. Fasho test the waters with the other joint breh :ehh:
 

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Ah aight that clarifies things. Yea I see why you want to explore the military joint and I don’t blame you breh. The young joint sounds like a hassle after your explanation. Definitely try things out with the older joint especially if she will be living close by after she gets out the military. That roommate shyt sounds:picard:. Especially if YOU have your own crib. That crying shyt is also :hhh:. Fasho test the waters with the other joint breh :ehh:
Yeah I got my own spot. When I visit my shorty I gotta wait to use the bathroom, kitchen, or her roommates be hogging the couch & TV:hhh:

only cool thing is dropping the D on shorty and her roommates giving you the :shaq: face when you see em later in then day. Thin walls
 
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