Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Ayo son this bytch really ignored my text :what:

I was gonna delete her number but if I ever get a message from her ima just send her some dikk pics instead :umad: your loss hoe

I never double text
average person is on their phone 5-6 hours a day, takes two seconds to send a text.
 

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Always remember there is nothing wrong with being single, there's someone in a relationship right now stressed, getting beaten on, strangled, killed, cheated on etc., sometimes when you're single for a while you think of relationships as this exotic thing like damn i want one :to:

yeah a great loving relationship is great, but being single beats a bunch of other ish the majority deal with in a relationship relax brehs
 

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Always remember there is nothing wrong with being single, there's someone in a relationship right now stressed, getting beaten on, strangled, killed, cheated on etc., sometimes when you're single for a while you think of relationships as this exotic thing like damn i want one :to:

yeah a great loving relationship is great, but being single beats a bunch of other ish the majority deal with in a relationship relax brehs

Quiet & Peace >>>>>>>>>>
 

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Mandem, any of ya’ll wish happy bday to a girl who things recently went sour with?

Casual situation that lasted for awhile up until 2 weeks ago when things just shifted from her end for 1 reason or another. She called me last week after 1 week of no contact and basically said she was starting to resent me because she felt the relationship/situation was uneven as she was/has been vulnerable with me and i wasn’t really changing and said how she didn’t mean anythin to me seeing as how i could go a long time without speaking to her (which tells me she purposely avoided contact to see if i would crack?). Thing is, she was always the one that reached out to me first but now all of a sudden something made her stop and now she wants to test me? Anyways, I managed to calm her down/tell her some things and we ended the call on a good note and she was her normal self compared to when she called and i could tell in her voice she was very bothered by something. Thought that call would’ve smoothen things out but it seems like it hasn’t as she hasn’t contacted me this week. I’ve been consistent with my actions from day 1 and even though she kept saying she was frustrated that i wasn’t opening up or that i was difficult/complex/emotionless/“playing her” that never stopped her from messaging me/calling me/snapping me/opening up/becoming vulnerable with me until recently when something obviously instantly switched. So technically, we both were consistent. Things however, are now off/tense and i’m definitely not going to start chasing her or doing things differently to get her back, as she’ll lose respect for me.

I’ve accepted its done, but would any of ya’ll still send a simple happy bday text?
It’s clear she likes u more than u like her. That being the case, no need to be harsh with her. If she’s been good to u, send her a happy birthday. Wish her the best.
 

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Damn my gf just ended our 3 years relationship and I feel empty and at the same time I know she never loved me... cuz she already with someone in less than 2 week

Of course she does breh...

Majority of women swing from branch to branch. They don't tend to let go of one unless they know they have a firm grip on the other branch:manny:

This has most likely been months in the making breh sorry to break it to you :manny:
 

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Sooooo underrated. I was talking with this girl and I used to be up until like 1-2am talking with her and I had to be up @ 6am for work. Everything started suffering, I was tired and angry at work, ran out of energy in the gym, no sleep just kills your outlook on life..lol

Cut her off and started going to sleep around 10-11pm. Made a world of difference. Waking up and feeling refreshed makes everything easier.
:mjlol: glad you learned
 

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Mandem, any of ya’ll wish happy bday to a girl who things recently went sour with?

Casual situation that lasted for awhile up until 2 weeks ago when things just shifted from her end for 1 reason or another. She called me last week after 1 week of no contact and basically said she was starting to resent me because she felt the relationship/situation was uneven as she was/has been vulnerable with me and i wasn’t really changing and said how she didn’t mean anythin to me seeing as how i could go a long time without speaking to her (which tells me she purposely avoided contact to see if i would crack?). Thing is, she was always the one that reached out to me first but now all of a sudden something made her stop and now she wants to test me? Anyways, I managed to calm her down/tell her some things and we ended the call on a good note and she was her normal self compared to when she called and i could tell in her voice she was very bothered by something. Thought that call would’ve smoothen things out but it seems like it hasn’t as she hasn’t contacted me this week. I’ve been consistent with my actions from day 1 and even though she kept saying she was frustrated that i wasn’t opening up or that i was difficult/complex/emotionless/“playing her” that never stopped her from messaging me/calling me/snapping me/opening up/becoming vulnerable with me until recently when something obviously instantly switched. So technically, we both were consistent. Things however, are now off/tense and i’m definitely not going to start chasing her or doing things differently to get her back, as she’ll lose respect for me.

I’ve accepted its done, but would any of ya’ll still send a simple happy bday text?
I ain’t read all that, but nah kim
 
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