Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I’m going to stay strong and ignore shawty

but damn this shyt kicking my ass emotionality:dead:

her favorite artist is j. Cole and he had some simp song on 2k that just took me in a bad spot
 

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and my favorite, sleep. Most people don't get 8 hours, at all. Always aim for the 7 range.

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Sooooo underrated. I was talking with this girl and I used to be up until like 1-2am talking with her and I had to be up @ 6am for work. Everything started suffering, I was tired and angry at work, ran out of energy in the gym, no sleep just kills your outlook on life..lol

Cut her off and started going to sleep around 10-11pm. Made a world of difference. Waking up and feeling refreshed makes everything easier.
 

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Sooooo underrated. I was talking with this girl and I used to be up until like 1-2am talking with her and I had to be up @ 6am for work. Everything started suffering, I was tired and angry at work, ran out of energy in the gym, no sleep just kills your outlook on life..lol

Cut her off and started going to sleep around 10-11pm. Made a world of difference. Waking up and feeling refreshed makes everything easier.

If I go to sleep at 6 am....best believe you won't see or hear from me till 3 pm. I'm gon get dat sleep. Seriously, everyone talks about how their 30's were rough, and for me its been a joke. I never felt stronger and energetic. I realize people just simply don't take care of their body....or walk...or go to the gym. If the Pope has time to do 10 pushups every day when he wakes up....who the fukk am I to say different?
 

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My mentality now is finding chicks who aren't toxic. Looking for women with A1 personalities, ambition, fun, cooperative and feminine.

If she isn't vibrant, she doesn't deserve my presence.

I had one and convinced myself i need a thot, i need help. dont be like me. stay strong kings
 

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Mandem, any of ya’ll wish happy bday to a girl who things recently went sour with?

Casual situation that lasted for awhile up until 2 weeks ago when things just shifted from her end for 1 reason or another. She called me last week after 1 week of no contact and basically said she was starting to resent me because she felt the relationship/situation was uneven as she was/has been vulnerable with me and i wasn’t really changing and said how she didn’t mean anythin to me seeing as how i could go a long time without speaking to her (which tells me she purposely avoided contact to see if i would crack?). Thing is, she was always the one that reached out to me first but now all of a sudden something made her stop and now she wants to test me? Anyways, I managed to calm her down/tell her some things and we ended the call on a good note and she was her normal self compared to when she called and i could tell in her voice she was very bothered by something. Thought that call would’ve smoothen things out but it seems like it hasn’t as she hasn’t contacted me this week. I’ve been consistent with my actions from day 1 and even though she kept saying she was frustrated that i wasn’t opening up or that i was difficult/complex/emotionless/“playing her” that never stopped her from messaging me/calling me/snapping me/opening up/becoming vulnerable with me until recently when something obviously instantly switched. So technically, we both were consistent. Things however, are now off/tense and i’m definitely not going to start chasing her or doing things differently to get her back, as she’ll lose respect for me.

I’ve accepted its done, but would any of ya’ll still send a simple happy bday text?
 
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Mandem, any of ya’ll wish happy bday to a girl who things recently went sour with?

Casual situation that lasted for awhile up until 2 weeks ago when things just shifted from her end for 1 reason or another. She called me last week after 1 week of no contact and basically said she was starting to resent me because she felt the relationship/situation was uneven as she was/has been vulnerable with me and i wasn’t really changing and said how she didn’t mean anythin to me seeing as how i could go a long time without speaking to her (which tells me she purposely avoided contact to see if i would crack?). Thing is, she was always the one that reached out to me first but now all of a sudden something made her stop and now she wants to test me? Anyways, I managed to calm her down/tell her some things and we ended the call on a good note and she was her normal self compared to when she called and i could tell in her voice she was very bothered by something. Thought that call would’ve smoothen things out but it seems like it hasn’t as she hasn’t contacted me this week. I’ve been consistent with my actions from day 1 and even though she kept saying she was frustrated that i wasn’t opening up or that i was difficult/complex/emotionless/“playing her” that never stopped her from messaging me/calling me/snapping me/opening up/becoming vulnerable with me until recently when something obviously instantly switched. So technically, we both were consistent. Things however, are now off/tense and i’m definitely not going to start chasing her or doing things differently to get her back, as she’ll lose respect for me.

I’ve accepted its done, but would any of ya’ll still send a simple happy bday text?
I don’t see the purpose. You don’t care for her so it’s an empty gesture.
 

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Mandem, any of ya’ll wish happy bday to a girl who things recently went sour with?

Casual situation that lasted for awhile up until 2 weeks ago when things just shifted from her end for 1 reason or another. She called me last week after 1 week of no contact and basically said she was starting to resent me because she felt the relationship/situation was uneven as she was/has been vulnerable with me and i wasn’t really changing and said how she didn’t mean anythin to me seeing as how i could go a long time without speaking to her (which tells me she purposely avoided contact to see if i would crack?). Thing is, she was always the one that reached out to me first but now all of a sudden something made her stop and now she wants to test me? Anyways, I managed to calm her down/tell her some things and we ended the call on a good note and she was her normal self compared to when she called and i could tell in her voice she was very bothered by something. Thought that call would’ve smoothen things out but it seems like it hasn’t as she hasn’t contacted me this week. I’ve been consistent with my actions from day 1 and even though she kept saying she was frustrated that i wasn’t opening up or that i was difficult/complex/emotionless/“playing her” that never stopped her from messaging me/calling me/snapping me/opening up/becoming vulnerable with me until recently when something obviously instantly switched. So technically, we both were consistent. Things however, are now off/tense and i’m definitely not going to start chasing her or doing things differently to get her back, as she’ll lose respect for me.

I’ve accepted its done, but would any of ya’ll still send a simple happy bday text?


Would she do the same? You answered your own question, she would lose respect for you, and would likely not be a grown up and contact you. Women are like this, capricious children who whine for a toy, but never really want anything with meaning. Move on. You're the rockstar, she's just a fading fan.
 

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I’m moving to southern italy next week for remote work for 3 months got my own Airbnb. Got my hinge and tinder already set up :lolbron: no matches as of yet but going to make it clear I’m only there temporarily should be an interesting winter

Looks like there is an American navy base in Naples already seen a few navy chicks on hinge
 

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I’m moving to southern italy next week for remote work for 3 months got my own Airbnb. Got my hinge and tinder already set up :lolbron: no matches as of yet but going to make it clear I’m only there temporarily should be an interesting winter

Looks like there is an American navy base in Naples already seen a few navy chicks on hinge

Nice.

Enjoy yourself breh & keep that head on a swivel.
 

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Always heard 2nd hand accounts of women listening to their stupid ass friends about their own independent relationship, but to have it actually happen to you is :mjlol:

misery loves company
 

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I’m moving to southern italy next week for remote work for 3 months got my own Airbnb. Got my hinge and tinder already set up :lolbron: no matches as of yet but going to make it clear I’m only there temporarily should be an interesting winter

Looks like there is an American navy base in Naples already seen a few navy chicks on hinge

eat breh :salute:
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Mandem, any of ya’ll wish happy bday to a girl who things recently went sour with?

Casual situation that lasted for awhile up until 2 weeks ago when things just shifted from her end for 1 reason or another. She called me last week after 1 week of no contact and basically said she was starting to resent me because she felt the relationship/situation was uneven as she was/has been vulnerable with me and i wasn’t really changing and said how she didn’t mean anythin to me seeing as how i could go a long time without speaking to her (which tells me she purposely avoided contact to see if i would crack?). Thing is, she was always the one that reached out to me first but now all of a sudden something made her stop and now she wants to test me? Anyways, I managed to calm her down/tell her some things and we ended the call on a good note and she was her normal self compared to when she called and i could tell in her voice she was very bothered by something. Thought that call would’ve smoothen things out but it seems like it hasn’t as she hasn’t contacted me this week. I’ve been consistent with my actions from day 1 and even though she kept saying she was frustrated that i wasn’t opening up or that i was difficult/complex/emotionless/“playing her” that never stopped her from messaging me/calling me/snapping me/opening up/becoming vulnerable with me until recently when something obviously instantly switched. So technically, we both were consistent. Things however, are now off/tense and i’m definitely not going to start chasing her or doing things differently to get her back, as she’ll lose respect for me.

I’ve accepted its done, but would any of ya’ll still send a simple happy bday text?

I wouldn't

I put it back to work, if your work canned you two weeks before your 20th anniversary would you still want to receive that plaque?

And vice versa

when im done with a chick im done, and you know how women are if it was your birthday you probably wouldn't get anything
 
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