Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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How are you going about hooking up with women without taking them out on dates? :beli: I get a lot of matches but I don't want to take any woman on dates :mjlol:. I am finding myself spending 80 plus on dates. I am not a drinker but it seems these woman must get a drink :beli:.
Two girls I have been dating, I know they want me lol but ultimately, I already I am not going to make any of them my long term girlfriend.
Just choose a chill venue where you can walk around a bit… coffee shop, town plaza, or a nice bar

Easier if you choose a bar by your spot. Vibe with her, make sure she ain’t crazy and just go for the makeout. She’ll be sucking your dikk in the car in no time, pull her back to yours.

Never treat a date as a date. Just look at is as “I’m just making sure this chick ain’t crazy/catfish, vibing a bit, and making the move”

Easy as pie - “dates” aren’t a real concept. There’s been a few women that have told me no sex on the first date after we made out and shyt. But idgaf I just drop em afterwards no sense in wasting time
 

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Parks, weather change may be free festivals around town. Get an annual membership at the big musuem in your city too. Have chicks meet yout at a salad joint or hole in the wall mom and pop ethinc restaurant (those are usually cheap meals)
Yeah bold is solid idea

My folks gave me their pass to AGO downtown and it came handy even if it was to meet with colleagues to network or see some of the more fun exhibits.
 

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I am not a drinker but it seems these woman must get a drink :beli:

1) As a former non-drinker, there's more going on when you deal with chicks that "have to have a drink".

And

Costs go UP and not down, when you make one of them your GF.

2) Right now, you're getting the best dollar per punani performance. Even if the chick if she got a model face, IG Baddie Body and hits you with that porn star experience - the pleasure just gets to be the norm, and now you gotta deal with all of her BS and baggage.

WIA
 

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Yeah bold is solid idea

My folks gave me their pass to AGO downtown and it came handy even if it was to meet with colleagues to network or see some of the more fun exhibits.

Many Musuems offer National Network access, so for an annual price you usually get entry for you + 1 guest to said museum + national network when you travel in the USA. If a chick aint down for a museum toss her in the trash anyways
 

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Parks, weather change may be free festivals around town. Get an annual membership at the big musuem in your city too. Have chicks meet yout at a salad joint or hole in the wall mom and pop ethinc restaurant (those are usually cheap meals)
@Mirin4rmfar if you are still in Atlanta. The High Museum has/had free admission for city residents like once a month I think.

Also with the weather breaking, the Beltline closer to Ponce has a lot of possibilities.
 

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I really like dating in the summer

It’s so cold in this bytch year round that you’re forced into dinner or something sit down friendly in Toronto

Might cop a picnic blanket and a big cooler or use my Foodora bag lool
 

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How are you going about hooking up with women without taking them out on dates? :beli: I get a lot of matches but I don't want to take any woman on dates :mjlol:. I am finding myself spending 80 plus on dates. I am not a drinker but it seems these woman must get a drink :beli:.
Two girls I have been dating, I know they want me lol but ultimately, I already I am not going to make any of them my long term girlfriend.

Be more picky. When I was younger I could take any girl interested on a date. If I did that these days I'd be out every day or the week and would be double booked on the weekend.
 

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Be more picky. When I was younger I could take any girl interested on a date. If I did that these days I'd be out every day or the week and would be double booked on the weekend.
I used to like going on dates back in day, I cant imagine the amount I blew in those times. I remember one run I think I went out every single day in the month, imagine the waste.

I took a throwback out last week to Mila and bill came back just under $400 for 2 people. I aint fukking with tapas style establishments anymore :mjlol:, I know my flat top growing in tho cuz that shyt had me kinda tight, never used to happen before. Oh well, where do I sign? :flabbynsick:
 

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I used to like going on dates back in day, I cant imagine the amount I blew in those times. I remember one run I think I went out every single day in the month, imagine the waste.

I took a throwback out last week to Mila and bill came back just under $400 for 2 people. I aint fukking with tapas style establishments anymore :mjlol:, I know my flat top growing in tho cuz that shyt had me kinda tight, never used to happen before. Oh well, where do I sign? :flabbynsick:

Man in college I could take a chick to Applebee's or IHOP the first date. Now I don't even eat there anymore and the type of women I like wouldn't go for that either.

One of my cribs is like 400K. I can't just bring a randoms over. I got Guns, Jordan's everywhere, MacBooks, Cameras, Drones, Flat screens on every floor. Even a hoe might try to walk out with top shelf liqour. It's just not possible.
 

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Man in college I could take a chick to Applebee's or IHOP the first date. Now I don't even eat there anymore and the type of women I like wouldn't go for that either.

One of my cribs is like 400K. I can't just bring a randoms over. I got Guns, Jordan's everywhere, MacBooks, Cameras, Drones, Flat screens on every floor. Even a hoe might try to walk out with top shelf liqour. It's just not possible.
Facts breh! Game evolves every few years for us as we move thru stages of life..
 

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I genuinely think one of, if not the biggest reason dating has become so fukked up today is because women have either dated/fukked, been exposed or have access to the top 2-3% of men.

Therefore it becomes very challenging for a woman to go from any of that to the remaining 97-98% of men.

And that’s not the fault of the 97-98%….
 
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