Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Capitol]

The best way to get better with women is to talk to women. It's really that straight forward. They shyt and wipe their ass the same way you do it's not rocket science that you need a PHD in.

You can better yourself and still practice. Like when I'm in a relationship I still flirt with new women to keep that muscle active.

Yeah this is solid advice. I'm starting to embrace the fact that there really is nothing wrong with making mistakes and trying to use it as a learning experience. The anxiety and regret is 1000x worse for me anyway

Its funny you said "keep that muscle active" because I'm realizing this is a whole aspect of my brain/personality that I was never even using for real. When I wanted to bust a nut I just looked at porn so I never bothered learning how to flirt or look for signs .

 

[Killigraphy]

why are yall chit chatting all day on an app opposed to getting the number and setting something up?

For me its just a faster way to cut through the bullshyt in person; If she's already sent nudes, and talked about getting my dikk stuck in her throat; then in person its a green light for everything.

I don't do 10 dates just to finger some bird then play "just the tip". I'm either all in, or I'm out. Texting eliminates those wasted hours dating, essentially its digital flirting, which for me is perfect.

 

[Apollo Creed]

For me its just a faster way to cut through the bullshyt in person; If she's already sent nudes, and talked about getting my dikk stuck in her throat; then in person its a green light for everything.

I don't do 10 dates just to finger some bird then play "just the tip". I'm either all in, or I'm out. Texting eliminates those wasted hours dating, essentially its digital flirting, which for me is perfect.

If im not willing to text all day why would I go on 10 dates?

 

[Killigraphy]

If im not willing to text all day why would I go on 10 dates?

"Texting all day" is a huge exaggeration, even when I say it....with that posted, I'm not her diary, I'm making sure she knows what to expect when we meet. Because a lot of these birds (especially in this season) will try and act like they aren't the biggest whores. Not much has changed since just the land line days, talk for a bit, flirt, set up a date, and fukk. Texting is far easier than say; staying on the phone for a couple of hours.

 

[RealCrownHeights]

This. They're just... women


You in your head cause the ass and titties getting you all worked up but you can't pay attention to that stuff, breh. You gotta block out the noise.

Women don't like nervous men. Pretend that you cool, even if on the inside you sweating like @Love Bizarre at a pawg convention.

Fake it till you make it. It's what I did.

As I said earlier, women want men that other women want. If you losing your mind every time you see a fat ass and some titties, it's obvious that you aint getting no play. Seeing titties and ass is supposed to be just another day for you.

I used to be just like you, stammering and stuttering like a punk when I was around women


I had to realize... they just women.

Women get nervous around me, not me around them.

Watch some Denzel movies. You see how Denzel talks with conviction, not too fast, not too slow, but his words are impactful? Practice that.

Look at his mannerisms. You see how he aint nervous walking with his head down, looking like he scared? Notice how he aint speed walking?

In fact, he slows down his walk, his mannerisms to let the people around him take him in.

Look at some of his interviews when he was younger, women were tryna inpress him. They were the ones stuttering and stammering, not him.

Learn from that stuff.

And I'm not saying to go practice Denzel impressions before one of yall brehs takes it too far left field


But what I'm saying is... look at cool brothas, brothas that women want. And watch them, see what women like about them. Nice dressers, cool, confident, collected.

Then add that to your personality.

It dont have to be Denzel. It can be anybody. But watch some film of some brothas that get women. And just look at how they carry themselves. There are some lessons to be learned.

Reinvent yourself. Man is the only creature that can choose what he wants to be. You don't have to be what you were yesterday.

You might have been a nerdy fakkit yesterday. Tomorrow you can be the coolest brotha in the room. Just work on yourself.

Denzel, Idris Elba, Sean Connery Bond, Marlon Brando

 

[CountryBoyL]

Welp ya boy got catfished last night
Had the brown skin joint slid thru late night. She said she was half Dominican and her pics she looks brown skin. I had a inkling that her body wasn’t on point tho. Opened the door and tried not to laugh. Didn’t even want to smash. Whole time we did have some great convo with some crown royal

Told shorty I was going to bed as she kept asking did I want her to leave. I can’t front it was a funny experience though. Bout to set something up with the 39 year old redbone for next weekend. Unless she wants to slide on me this weekend. Y’all fellas have fun outchea

 

[Action Mike]

That pulling away shyt is even more annoying when they're the one who reignited things and was extra about it

I dont want to hear shyt in February

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

Damn I guess this cold gotta wait when a woman wants to fukk…I’ll try to hide my coughs

 

[Serious]

See it ain’t that serious ^^

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

See it ain’t that serious ^^

What, getting p*ssy, or what dudes be going through to get it?

 

[Wargames]

Damn I guess this cold gotta wait when a woman wants to fukk…I’ll try to hide my coughs

I can’t do that to a woman because I would hate a bytch if she did that too me.

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

I can’t do that to a woman because I would hate a bytch if she did that too me.

For me I only got one shot. If I put it off then that’s it….on to the next

 

[Wargames]

For me I only got one shot. If I put it off then that’s it….on to the next

I am just talking about regular colds bro. I can’t even imagine if it was Covid.

 

[Capitol]

I punked out when I was about to ask someone for their number. Idk why when I was talking to her everything was smooth and I wasn't nervous, then I got hit with a wave of anxiety when it seemed like the conversation was dying down and I had to make my move. I thought I was passed this type of shyt

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

I am just talking about regular colds bro. I can’t even imagine if it was Covid.

Yeah I wouldn’t have even met if I had COVID. I’m on the ending of my cold anyways…the worst is over…lasted for about 4-5 days.