Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DapMeUp!]

Listen to your gut. Stay busy.

Always.

I had a conversation with my friend about this recently

We both thought back to times when we thought things were off, and we both couldn't recall a single time when we were wrong about the energy shift.
Whether I listened to my gut at the time is another story

 

[Apollo Creed]

This is facts, I thought I could switch the game back easy on when I came out of a long relationship - nope

Just really getting back into it making amateur mistakes, looking back at some texts I sent like

i think yall over complicate talking to women.

and all this texting all day getting yall in trouble

 

[DapMeUp!]

i feel like this chick i been smashing since late oct is starting to pull away

idk if i should listen to my gut or if im overthinking

how yall usually handle this?
think its time to return the energy and focus on some other chicks and see what happens

One of two things will happen.

You pullback and never hear from her again, or she will reach out after a while.

Tbh both Scenarios suggest someone else is in the frame. Give her space and time will tell.

 

[Ahadi]

i think yall over complicate talking to women.

and all this texting all day getting yall in trouble

You really shouldn’t be talking too much (leading up to smashing) because you’re bound to say something to turn her off.

Be mysterious.

 

[Ahadi]

“Don’t let time invested keep you in a situation you no longer value”

Do not be afraid to walk away, if you feel you are not benefitting her or if the relationship is not benefitting yourself.

(Growth, Excites you, Motivates you, etc)

 

[Apollo Creed]

You really shouldn’t be talking too much (leading up to smashing) because you’re bound to say something to turn her off.

Be mysterious.

Yeah i mean if dudes are like teens or broke college kids i guess but when you grown and ive said before texting is to
1.set up a meet
2.quick check in if yall havent talked flr a while
3.share something you saw that you thought the person may be interested in.


Dudes texting so damn much they wont have anything to talk about in person lol, and if you are actually charismatic you arent worried about text game.

 

[buzzkill]

i think yall over complicate talking to women.

and all this texting all day getting yall in trouble

Thing is I only really text her to set up time to meet up. I already learned my lesson years ago about texting my way out of p*ssy

 

[Apollo Creed]

Thing is I only really text her to set up time to meet up. I already learned my lesson years ago about texting my way out of p*ssy

Yeah bro, chicks know already if they wanna sleep with you, the interactions more so give them confirmation of what box they want to put you in

 

[buzzkill]

Listen to your gut. Stay busy.

Yeah thats the plan. Wasn't gonna hit her til like next thurs or fri and try to set up some time to chill. See if she hits me first. If she ain't trying to kick it or she don't hit me first then imma next her.

 

[J Money]

Yeah thats the plan. Wasn't gonna hit her til like next thurs or fri and try to set up some time to chill. See if she hits me first. If she ain't trying to kick it or she don't hit me first then imma next her.

In the same situation right now. Decided to also just no contact her and if she doesn't hit back up then oh well

 

[buzzkill]

In the same situation right now. Decided to also just no contact her and if she doesn't hit back up then oh well

And they say men are the ones who be playing games

 

[buzzkill]

One of two things will happen.

You pullback and never hear from her again, or she will reach out after a while.

Tbh both Scenarios suggest someone else is in the frame. Give her space and time will tell.

man its 2022 i lowkey always assume they are talking to someone else . Definitely not that naive to think im the only man a woman is seeing any more

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Damn it’s true about that add a little of being a dikk/absent. The passion coming from this one chick i tried it on

 

[Rozay Oro]

How do I go back to just fukking hoes with full detachment?

I got Nice Guys and Players book. I have a job with the city with many benefits and makes me 2k a month. I get two - three days a week off.

Currently quarantining because I caught rona.
What can I learn to make more money or what job can I get for the city that makes more? My position is dead end.

 

[Capitol]

Players book? What is that @Rozay Oro