Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

LiveFromLondon

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invest in yourself brehs, the stock that will never fail. As I wind down my old job ends on friday, I'm moving to bigger and better things. Women come and go
At this point this type of comment needs to be put as a header or opening message upon opening this thread. Brehs can't keep making the same mistakes for this to be continually posted.
I got 2 kids that I have custody of
Might as well try make things work with your baby mama
sometimes God closes doors to open windows for you. I'd say every single time there was someone I thought I wanted he showed me their ugly side and introduced a better woman soon after. And sometimes those Ls accumulate enough that you get a bounce back with a truly GREAT person coming into your life. There's a woman I'm seeing now and I'm more attracted to her than most any women I've ever met. We don't see the code in the matrix sometimes. We think we'll never win in a big way but in reality Gods waiting for a season in your life to start blessing you.
God wants no part whatsoever in your lustful relations with women and most certainly isn't blessing you with one:stopitslime:
No :stopitslime:
 

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We should do an experiment. If it’s not this thread then we should avoid advice, GMB, and relationship threads.

Those threads make a lot of posters hostile. The tone of resentment reeks through a lot of posts and I bet you that shyt carries through in real life for a lot of guys.


The L is already there in the approach. Out here carrying stigma from articles or Twitter clips, when those examples be happening in the most random locations around the world, should not be a reflection of every girl in a 50 mile radius of you.


shyt is honestly reveals the insecurity of not being good enough and it shows you’re afraid of wasting your time.


I get it.

but you gotta look at the game like driving a car. There’s a possibility of you getting in a car crash every time you do it right? But you drive or ride transportation almost everyday


It’s like cleaning your mind from all that junk on social media. Might make your interactions better.
 

Ahadi

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this is the idiotic thing with women of today, we equals but they wont plan a date :russ:


When ever a woman hints at what she wants to do play stupid, if she aint grown enough tk :mjlol:say “hey lets go do” or plan the date for yall bush her.

we gotta stop giving leeway to stupidity.

Oh I agree lol. She needed to put her big girl pants on and said “how bout we check out the Christmas lights”

Instead of leaving bread crumbs and dropping hints.
:lolbron:

I didn’t know he had to pay.
 

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She wanted the event Christmas lights I just walked her around Atlantic Station since it was a first date didn’t see the need to buy tickets and we went to an arcade as well

Oh you needed to pay tickets. I got you.

:patrice:

She may have wanted you to play photographer, so she could get the IG flick then / “bump” into her other friends.

:mjlol:
 

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but you gotta look at the game like driving a car. There’s a possibility of you getting in a car crash every time you do it right? But you drive or ride transportation almost everyday.

the issue is dudes don’t wear their seatbelt, want to drive cross country with 1/8 of gas left, don’t use blinkers then get upset a car honked at them, drive a 2012 Nissan Altima.

there’s risk in everything you do but man do people add unnecessary roadblocks when performing said risk.
 

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the issue is dudes don’t wear their seatbelt, want to drive cross country with 1/8 of gas left, don’t use blinkers then get upset a car honked at them, drive a 2012 Nissan Altima.

there’s risk in everything you do but man do people add unnecessary roadblocks when performing said risk.
You gotta ask yourself why those roadblocks are there in the first place.

It might be unnecessary to us but maybe that person just went through one of those said “car crashes” so going through a roadblock is sometimes necessary if you really think it could be something


And if these roadblocks are really unnecessary for no reason other than to be there then don’t drive on that road.

There’s too much ego and insecurity going on when you realize Ls are bound to happen; this happens to everyone. Some won’t matter to you and then there will be some that will hurt af. Gotta admit shyt like that and take it on the chin then keep it move.

the ultimate belief should be that as long as you do your best and you fukks with yourself regardless of outside exterior

I’m just saying a lot of this shyt we consume here we take personal which in my opinion takes away from a lot of opportunities and potential relationships one could be enjoying
 

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There’s too much ego and insecurity going on when you realize Ls are bound to happen; this happens to everyone. Some won’t matter to you and then there will be some that will hurt af. Gotta admit shyt like that and take it on the chin then keep it move

That’s all you really have to do sometimes. I’ll get clowned for this, but I used to journalize thoughts and emotions I had on certain situations not just women. I read it outline, rip it to shreds, and move on.

Going online to echo those emotions and not fully understand them, only to soak in a pool of misery with others, is why people are where they’re at.
 
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