Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Uno Venova]

I can’t wait to find out what happens next

Things can absolutely go wrong, but I doubt it has anything to do with having fun with each others families.

At least I'm not bitter praying on anyones downfall

 

[360dagod]

That’s a difference between proposing very soon though, especially without knowing if she actually wants that after a few months

Once she has you meet family as a couple, in her mind, she thinking full steam ahead for baby and/or marriage...

This is nature Lowkey at play...

If you on that time, then by any means..

But the Thanksgiving/Xmas combo is where they make their "changes"

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

My unc said if you putting it in a chick she checking your social media all the time

that true?

 

[360dagod]

Women over 30 wit no kids...I'm don't think I'm built for this....

I need me a young lit bytch

 

[Uno Venova]

Once she has you meet family as a couple, in her mind, she thinking full steam ahead for baby and/or marriage...

This is nature Lowkey at play...

If you on that time, then by any means..
But the Thanksgiving/Xmas combo is where they make their "changes"

She would be an amazing wife

 

[360dagod]

She would be an amazing wife

If you ready for it, then go for it..

 

[noumena]

Something I've figured out as I've gotten more experience...sometimes women don't pick "the best option". I like to think I'm the best option for them. And that may be true, but that doesn't guarantee anything. Women and humans in general make terrible decisions all the time. Sometimes all of your friend group/coworkers/peers will smash on a certain chick and you won't because you missed your opportunity. She'll get locked down to some dude, she'll move away, etc. That doesn't reflect YOUR worth. And sometimes God closes doors to open windows for you. I'd say every single time there was someone I thought I wanted he showed me their ugly side and introduced a better woman soon after. And sometimes those Ls accumulate enough that you get a bounce back with a truly GREAT person coming into your life. There's a woman I'm seeing now and I'm more attracted to her than most any women I've ever met. We don't see the code in the matrix sometimes. We think we'll never win in a big way but in reality Gods waiting for a season in your life to start blessing you.

 

[Rozay Oro]

I want some p*ssy

 

[MikelArteta]

Something I've figured out as I've gotten more experience...sometimes women don't pick "the best option". I like to think I'm the best option for them. And that may be true, but that doesn't guarantee anything. Women and humans in general make terrible decisions all the time. Sometimes all of your friend group/coworkers/peers will smash on a certain chick and you won't because you missed your opportunity. She'll get locked down to some dude, she'll move away, etc. That doesn't reflect YOUR worth. And sometimes God closes doors to open windows for you. I'd say every single time there was someone I thought I wanted he showed me their ugly side and introduced a better woman soon after. And sometimes those Ls accumulate enough that you get a bounce back with a truly GREAT person coming into your life. There's a woman I'm seeing now and I'm more attracted to her than most any women I've ever met. We don't see the code in the matrix sometimes. We think we'll never win in a big way but in reality Gods waiting for a season in your life to start blessing you.

preach

 

[Apollo Creed]

Something I've figured out as I've gotten more experience...sometimes women don't pick "the best option". I like to think I'm the best option for them. And that may be true, but that doesn't guarantee anything. Women and humans in general make terrible decisions all the time. Sometimes all of your friend group/coworkers/peers will smash on a certain chick and you won't because you missed your opportunity. She'll get locked down to some dude, she'll move away, etc. That doesn't reflect YOUR worth. And sometimes God closes doors to open windows for you. I'd say every single time there was someone I thought I wanted he showed me their ugly side and introduced a better woman soon after. And sometimes those Ls accumulate enough that you get a bounce back with a truly GREAT person coming into your life. There's a woman I'm seeing now and I'm more attracted to her than most any women I've ever met. We don't see the code in the matrix sometimes. We think we'll never win in a big way but in reality Gods waiting for a season in your life to start blessing you.

i say this respectfully, but this reads like someone about to take a horrible L.

You put too much stock in people that make emotional non logic decisions actually mattering. if a woman dont want you its a blessing and means move the hell on.

 

[noumena]

i say this respectfully, but this reads like someone about to take a horrible L.

You put too much stock in people that make emotional non logic decisions actually mattering. if a woman dont want you its a blessing and means move the hell on.

Nah breh, I've been lucky enough to have more than one good lady in my life. I have options. I'm not really emotionally invested like that. I've learned that's not really how you're supposed to operate as a man anyways.

As for putting stock into those things, I'd say I put more stock in the validation when I've now learned more fully, that does not reflect your value as a person. I wasn't looking for "love" I was looking for sex. Sometimes I'd get it other times it didn't work out, sometimes I myself didn't want it. Really you basically said my post in different words anyways lol.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Nah breh, I've been lucky enough to have more than one good lady in my life. I have options. I'm not really emotionally invested like that. I've learned that's not really how you're supposed to operate as a man anyways.

As for putting stock into those things, I'd say I put more stock in the validation when I've now learned more fully, that does not reflect your value as a person. I wasn't looking for "love" I was looking for sex. Sometimes I'd get it other times it didn't work out, sometimes I myself didn't want it. Really you basically said my post in different words anyways lol.

if you only want sex from women there no such thing as a “good woman”. Yall just having sex. Being a functional adult doesnt make someone a “good woman”. “Good woman” is a qualifier places on a woman being vetted as a mate.

the issue is you dudes play boyfriend in order to get sex which leads yall into a world of confusion, hence why this thread is so damn long

 

[Rich Spirit]

if you only want sex from women there no such thing as a “good woman”. Yall just having sex. Being a functional adult doesnt make someone a “good woman”. “Good woman” is a qualifier places on a woman being vetted as a mate.

the issue is you dudes play boyfriend in order to get sex which leads yall into a world of confusion, hence why this thread is so damn long

What sort of questions would you ask if you're looking for a wife?

 

[Apollo Creed]

What sort of questions would you ask if you're looking for a wife?

You’re looking at it wrong. Lotta fokks looking for a wife cause society says you should get married.

before you deal with women you need to figure out
1.what is your purpose (why do you wake up, what motivates you)
2.can a woman make your purpose run more efficiently?
3.what “job” can you give a woman in your purpose that will keep her busy + keep your purpose going.
3a.does the woman have skills/traits that meet the requirements of the “job” you want to “hire” her for.
4. Do you want kids (if you dont want kids makes no sense to get married imo)
4a.does the woman have motherly traits (listen to how she speaks of kids, and how she acts around them)
5. Define YOU MORAL CODE
5a.does she live a life thst aligns with your code?
I.e you dont smoke yet she enjoys weed.
6.observe her being angry, and ask yourself could you handle being at the other end of it.

i feel if yoy nail those questions, most other things can he worked around

 

[TRUEST]

You’re looking at it wrong. Lotta fokks looking for a wife cause society says you should get married.

before you deal with women you need to figure out
1.what is your purpose (why do you wake up, what motivates you)
2.can a woman make your purpose run more efficiently?
3.what “job” can you give a woman in your purpose that will keep her busy + keep your purpose going.
3a.does the woman have skills/traits that meet the requirements of the “job” you want to “hire” her for.
4. Do you want kids (if you dont want kids makes no sense to get married imo)
4a.does the woman have motherly traits (listen to how she speaks of kids, and how she acts around them)
5. Define YOU MORAL CODE
5a.does she live a life thst aligns with your code?
I.e you dont smoke yet she enjoys weed.
6.observe her being angry, and ask yourself could you handle being at the other end of it.

i feel if yoy nail those questions, most other things can he worked around

if things go south, who stands to benefit most financially from the union? - all those things u mentioned makes perfect sense. But under no circumstance should u allow urself to get permanently attached to a woman who essentially would be hitting the lottery by getting with u. Aside from making sure she’s a good person at heart, make sure she doesn’t need ur money.