I was literally thinking yesterday how well I thought things were going between us and I like her more than most. But I can't deal with shyt like that anymore.
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I was literally thinking yesterday how well I thought things were going between us and I like her more than most. But I can't deal with shyt like that anymore.
if yall FWBs you shouldn't be catching feelings. Like yeah she a cool person and yall have a good time and you care for her as a human, but you shouldn't catch girlfriend type feelings (the word 'like'). I know you used the term FWB but if this is getting to you sounds like this really may just be a situationship or you too nice for a FWB situation lol
@Krisrunner2049 Neg me for what breh, lol. I'm definitely on the young side as far as this thread goes
Nah you right. So many of my friendships turn in to this because they eventually want to start fukking and I'm terrible at boundaries
Nah you right. So many of my friendships turn in to this because they eventually want to start fukking and I'm terrible at boundaries
i`d be careful. I dont care what any woman tells you, they not built for FWB status, any woman that is is emotionally void or something. Naturally if a woman is continuously having sex with you, spending time, having good convo, she gonna want more than friend status (the fact she texted you her issue tells me this, because a pure sex partner she would confine to someone else with that). Honestly FWB always end horribly hence the concept of having a roster, so you can abort mission early vs letting it crash and burn then you in a drought, and end up chasing chicks you need to avoid because you thirsty for sex.
One Night stands are optional but your volume will be much lower and many dudes cant deal with those stretches, and chicks who use you literally just for sex can happen but you'd need to worry about your health (as in she removes your humanity as a man and literally just hits you up like she ordering uber eats)
Truly adore your honestly. It's vulnerability but power at the same time.
Respect.
I don't fukk homegirls or married women (if i don't know in advance that they are, that is)... but I can see where most times we tend to allow our other head to swell and make our decisions for us.
Boundaries are important... and it's what separates the mice from men. The pits from the poodles.
The captains from the crunch.
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No lies told
I'm kind of in a weird place right now where I'm not in to the one night stand life no more but I'm not meeting anyone I can take seriously enough for a relationship.
To be completely honest I have a hard time being attracted to people if I'm not grabbed by their personality first. That's something that's changed the last few years. Hence why I end up in these FWB with girls I've been around for a while. So basically, no I don't think I'm built for that lifestyle.
i mean we men, and by nature we enjoy the company of a woman, but you may need to find other things to keep you bush to minimize that desire/keep you busy so when you do meet someone its someone with your time and if they arent worth your time you have other stuff of importance to focus on where you dont force something that shouldnt happen.
OmegaK2099
Gettin' It In
My ex came back earlier this year and took advantage of my depression and suicidal thoughts. She ended up leaving me in worse shape than I was in before. She's married and I tried exposing her to her husband. It didn't turn out so well because she turned practically all of my friends against me, lied her ass off about everything and even spun it to where she was made to look like the victim in the end. She still throws shots at me even now, like sending my friends selfies of herself. I'm still here though. Does time eventually put broads like this in there place?
We told you not to do it. Stop worrying about her and get yourself together.
Worrying about karma re: her is a waste of time. Trust me, everything you've posted about her tells me she's miserable inside. She's living her karma every day.
I had a girl do me dirtier than I've ever been done before earlier this year and I spent a lot of time being bitter over it, hoping she gets hers etc. but once the fog cleared I remembered she hates that she has to live every day inside her head.
But even thinking like that gets you nowhere. It's the cliche answer but you just gotta block her out and focus on your own life minus her. My girl told lies on me too but luckily my circle knew the deal. You're better off without those "friends" that she turned against you.
OmegaK2099
Gettin' It In
When she starts sending your friends selfies of herself. It's kind of hard to not Pay attention to that shyt.
Tell your friends to stop updating you on shyt like that
OmegaK2099
Gettin' It In
I've cut them off but shyts fukking with me
J.E.T.S
Lookahere mayne...
Has it ever been hard for you to leave someone?
boy, love hits different!
I finally found the strength. We were together almost four years. I got busted cheating because she went through my phone. She said she was done, but I didn’t believe her. We stopped fukking and going out for four months… didn’t get better. My anxiety and shyt was through the roof! That hurt and pain from rejection was terrible.
FINALLY came to grips with reality and got a new crib. Toughest thing I ever been through was leaving.
Her giving me the cold shoulder and standing on what she said actually helped me heal because she wasn’t leading me on or dropping that p*ssy on me fukking with my emotions.
Cheating be feeling oh so good, until you get caught. lol
boy, love hits different!
I finally found the strength. We were together almost four years. I got busted cheating because she went through my phone. She said she was done, but I didn’t believe her. We stopped fukking and going out for four months… didn’t get better. My anxiety and shyt was through the roof! That hurt and pain from rejection was terrible.
FINALLY came to grips with reality and got a new crib. Toughest thing I ever been through was leaving.
Her giving me the cold shoulder and standing on what she said actually helped me heal because she wasn’t leading me on or dropping that p*ssy on me fukking with my emotions.
Cheating be feeling oh so good, until you get caught. lol
RaspberryFitted
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Has it ever been hard for you to leave someone?
boy, love hits different!
I finally found the strength. We were together almost four years. I got busted cheating because she went through my phone. She said she was done, but I didn’t believe her. We stopped fukking and going out for four months… didn’t get better. My anxiety and shyt was through the roof! That hurt and pain from rejection was terrible.
FINALLY came to grips with reality and got a new crib. Toughest thing I ever been through was leaving.
Her giving me the cold shoulder and standing on what she said actually helped me heal because she wasn’t leading me on or dropping that p*ssy on me fukking with my emotions.
Cheating be feeling oh so good, until you get caught. lol
Did you think after she found you cheating she wasn’t going to leave? You wasted four months in limbo trying to avoid an outcome you already knew.