Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Great points I hear you and if it works for you then that's what's matters breh.

It's just I left potential smashes on the table. I look at it like almost a 50/50 thing, sometimes you smash on the second date and sometimes you won't and the Chick will just be wasting your time or wanting free food and attention. That's why I only entertain the idea of a second date if as I said I sense passion there and the chick lets me rub her breast or we have a passionate kiss, things like that. Where it's like I know she wants it but she is fighting the urge and sticking to her guns. That to me eliminates the time wasters who won't want you to touch them at all let alone be passionate with you.

The key is comfort and mileage out of her...

This is why I stress dialing the number and chopping it up on the phone...

A female who doesn't fukk you isn't a loss

A female who doesn't invest in you is
 

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Idk if i posted this


But some dumb bytch i fukked once hit me out the blue…i was like “yeah i needa stop by one night;)” and she was like ow so ur takn me on a date

i was like nah for what? I already smashed…idk why u wana go on a date…lol..i asked this bytch what areur attention’s n she mustered up some bullshyt….in my head i was like this hoe want dinner

foh
 

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Not gonna put it out on the coli but just some things that im sick and tired of.

I've never been afraid to walk away from any woman. I truly believe that I won't be single for long. She got me effed up.

I refuse to put up with foolishness. I'll chuck the deuces in a heartbeat. Part of me misses being single anyway. Don't play with me.

you're in your feelings right now, she aint reading your post and you dont need to convince us how bad someone is (the truth is usually somewhere in the middle, and if she is so bad you would have already broken up, but you haven't),
Just break up with her, take some time to cool off, reflect on the relationship and then move on. Jumping back in the game right from this will just result in you trying to fill a void and potentially ending up in an even worse situation
 

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Well you were right. She just called to apologize and tell me that she doesn't want to lose me. And she is willing to change the things that made me angry.

This post below kind of summarizes how it be during these times. Slide 3 if it doesn't automatically show.





Welp I gotta cancel the sneaky link session I set up. :yeshrug:



Ehhh sorry doesnt mean anything. She could be buying time to keep you while she plans her exit.


We dont know what happened and this could be a vase of lack of maturity/lack if communication.

The stuff that ends a relationship for me is she compromised my manhood (i.e i found out she cheated, she does things i morally dont agree with and find out) or she takes me away from my purpose and i notice a decline in myself(this includes her not following my program causing me to stuff i shouldnt).

most times dudes say that “man ima break up with her” the issue is petty and can be talked about with the woman.
 

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I'm about to join yall single brehs.

I'm so mad at this woman right now...

I've never been this angry before.

A man needs to womanize a whole lot, before he can even decide to play "mature" and have a relationship. Even then, you're dealing with a child.

Don't ever let a woman or anyone else for that matter, live in your head rent free. As Seneca teaches us; Anger is like a ruin, which in falling upon its victim, breaks itself to pieces.
Can anger get shyt done? All the time, and with righteous fury fueling it....but it is no more and certainly no less, than a poison. Eat from the apple, but do not swallow the seed. Be angry for a few minutes, at peace and calculating for a few hours.
 

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Even though I know she’s feeling me, I’m tight I caught feelings as well. Then she tell me she used to be w/ my mans :francis: I be feeling bad about tryna smash but damn it’s too late I’m in deep fukkin w/ her smh
 

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The key is comfort and mileage out of her...

This is why I stress dialing the number and chopping it up on the phone...

A female who doesn't fukk you isn't a loss

A female who doesn't invest in you is
That's a great perspective. Real talk, I agree with that.
 

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Have you ever been talking to a woman. Who is everything you look for. Fine as hell. Just your type. Then a better looking version walks up to both of you (her sister). Then you look around and realize you’re surrounded by baddies (her cousins and friends)? :whew::whoo::blessed:
 

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Even though I know she’s feeling me, I’m tight I caught feelings as well. Then she tell me she used to be w/ my mans :francis: I be feeling bad about tryna smash but damn it’s too late I’m in deep fukkin w/ her smh


You have zero kids with her and aren't married correct?

One day, you can wake up, and fukking vanish. There's no such thing as "in deep" lose that perspective and focus thyself.
 

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You have zero kids with her and aren't married correct?

One day, you can wake up, and fukking vanish. There's no such thing as "in deep" lose that perspective and focus thyself.
Facts breh it’s just the honeymoon/infatuation phase I know people enjoy that, but I don’t like being so open like that.
 
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