Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

I’m tired of starting the convo. These hoes need to talk.

 

[Rich Spirit]

@Babyface drop some more gems

 

[Apollo Creed]

I’m tired of starting the convo. These hoes need to talk.

On apps or real life? You gotta understand most women are lame and have nothing to talk about. Men create culture lol

 

[Ahadi]

On apps or real life? You gotta understand most women are lame and have nothing to talk about. Men create culture lol

Apps (Hinge specifically). I’ll leave a comment and then we’ll match and they will “Invite me to start the chat”

I then repeated the comment and give them about 1-2 hours to respond. If I don’t get a response I just unmatch. These hoes are on their phones every minute. No way, I’m waiting for a response.

But yeah it’s true. Men gotta facilitate everything.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Apps (Hinge specifically). I’ll leave a comment and then we’ll match and they will “Invite me to start the chat”

I then repeated the comment and give them about 1-2 hours to respond. If I don’t get a response I just unmatch. These hoes are on their phones every minute. No way, I’m waiting for a response.

But yeah it’s true. Men gotta facilitate everything.

i dont even message chicks first, and when i do its a mass text/generic opener.

you gotta use these apps passively lol, monitoring it will drive yoy nuts especially cause most women use these apps only yo boost self esteem

 

[Ahadi]

i dont even message chicks first, and when i do its a mass text/generic opener.

you gotta use these apps passively lol, monitoring it will drive yoy nuts especially cause most women use these apps only yo boost self esteem

Yeah that’s true.

I think it’s cause the few girls I messaged with, we conversed quick, got the number and moved off of the app. Gotta take each situation / match case by case.

 

[Rich Spirit]

Apps (Hinge specifically). I’ll leave a comment and then we’ll match and they will “Invite me to start the chat”

I then repeated the comment and give them about 1-2 hours to respond. If I don’t get a response I just unmatch. These hoes are on their phones every minute. No way, I’m waiting for a response.

But yeah it’s true. Men gotta facilitate everything.

Like ol dude said you gotta use it passively. Women don't take these apps seriously so why should you? Its all a numbers game

 

[VertigoKnight]

When clingy bytch at the club calls your (fake) phone number in front of you and it’s not you that picks up

Told you boys about that Google number or those apps like burner



Almost got caught out like this before but had that burner number on deck.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

Told you boys about that Google number or those apps like burner



Almost got caught out like this before but had that burner number on deck.

Google numberis it like textnow when it goes to voicemail and says “this textnow subscriber can not answer the phone rn”. Last thing I want is some of these women to know they got the burner # and get upset

 

[Guvnor]

Why didn’t I ask the girl I was talking to at this party on Friday for her number?

You live and you learn breh. Maybe you see her again or something though.

My ex broke up with me …mostly my fault I got too comfortable wasn’t treating her right…big fight begged her stay she moved out …about two weeks later she hit me up saying she miss me yardda yadda…


We be kicking it for the past couple weeks I tell her I want us to be serious again she says no she doesn’t want a relationship now


I tell her cool we need stop hanging out and dating then if we not going to be exclusive I need my space and give my key back


She calls me selfish
Am I wrong ?I am going miss her but I’m not waiting on nobody
She says she wants to stay connected to me because she likes being around me which I think is selfish sorry for the vent lol
I think she doesn’t care I think she is mad that I broke it off first

Can't front I had to learn this lesson a couple of times but when a relationship breaks up, it's over. Ain't no coming back and all that shyt. If you try to give things a second chance 9 times out of 10 they come back and are worse off for you almost like they came back with a vengeance from hell ready to destroy your life. Most of the time people don't change in life period so if a woman comes back ain't shyt change just cause you broke up with them, you're more than likely to be in the same predicament or even worse.

Should have just keep her around for the smash but never took her serious. Like Ams said make her suck a whole lot of dikk and if she ain't wanna do that kick her to the curb or simply ghost her. Should not have took her seriously unless she wanted to be serious with you and even then you make her work for it and prove she wants you bad. You use the upper hand to your advantage.

 

[Guvnor]

If she don’t come to the crib after the first date I cut her off I strategically take them on dates that are a block or two from my place though.

I found myself being that way after a string of ONS but then I thought about it and was like I can get why they don't and I'm missing out on a lot of opportunities here let me chill. A lot of them don't wanna look like a hoe which I respect and on top of that they don't know you too well so I get why they may say No. Even if they really want to have sex they will refuse or fight the urge.

I give them to the second date to warm up but I got to at least touch a titty, grab/spank they ass or in the very least kiss them the first date though.

i said before bros gonna keep losing cause they dont even know why the hell they entertaining chicks, its like they just programmed to simp


They egos so big they gonna remix the situation to sound like they in control when they were just in here saying they messed up.

1.IF you only wanna smash why the hell you going on hella dates
2.IF you looking for a buddy, sex shouldn't matter, nor her job or anything else, if she cool and yall have good convo thats all that matters.
3.If you looking for a wife all them random ass simp dates aint doing nothing to vet if a woman has the qualities to be a wife. And you damn sure aint using no roster talk either.

Before brehs even step out the house they need to outline what they looking for in life, so they can be aware when things deviate from that goal, so they can pull out before they mess themselves up.

So how do you feel one vets a woman and examines she has wife qualities?


As for breh @Atlrocafella he's going with the flow and not rushing it cause he's looking at it long term and not concerned with just smashing as he said and I respect that. Many of us in his shoes would try to hit ASAP but my question is has that approach worked for you before?

I mean think about it, what if she is pulling it back cause she wants sex and you ain't make your move yet. I'd view a woman as wifey potential but Id still try to create that passion. It seems if you don't the relationship can lose its spark and next thing you know you get hit with the let's just be friends or she pulls back/ghosts you.

 

[Guvnor]

Google numberis it like textnow when it goes to voicemail and says “this textnow subscriber can not answer the phone rn”. Last thing I want is some of these women to know they got the burner # and get upset

Not sure about google but with TextNow you can turn off voicemail entirely so it doesn't do that. If you have an iPhone they can still figure out you gave them a burner cause of the green text though.

 

[Atlrocafella]

I found myself being that way after a string of ONS but then I thought about it and was like I can get why they don't and I'm missing out on a lot of opportunities here let me chill. A lot of them don't wanna look like a hoe which I respect and on top of that they don't know you too well so I get why they may say No. Even if they really want to have sex they will refuse or fight the urge.

I give them to the second date to warm up but I got to at least touch a titty, grab/spank they ass or in the very least kiss them the first date though.

So how do you feel one vets a woman and examines she has wife qualities?


As for breh @Atlrocafella he's going with the flow and not rushing it cause he's looking at it long term and not concerned with just smashing as he said and I respect that. Many of us in his shoes would try to hit ASAP but my question is has that approach worked for you before?

I mean think about it, what if she is pulling it back cause she wants sex and you ain't make your move yet. I'd view a woman as wifey potential but Id still try to create that passion. It seems if you don't the relationship can lose its spark and next thing you know you get hit with the let's just be friends or she pulls back/ghosts you.

You on point with everything you said. The deal will be sealed shortly, but I wasn’t pressed because I actually like kicking it with her and Vice-versa. This ain’t one I’m tryna just smash and do away with. I can do that easily with lower quality women. This one is worth a little more to me

but I appreciate the input from you and my guy @The ADD

 

[Apollo Creed]

I found myself being that way after a string of ONS but then I thought about it and was like I can get why they don't and I'm missing out on a lot of opportunities here let me chill. A lot of them don't wanna look like a hoe which I respect and on top of that they don't know you too well so I get why they may say No. Even if they really want to have sex they will refuse or fight the urge.

I give them to the second date to warm up but I got to at least touch a titty, grab/spank they ass or in the very least kiss them the first date though.

So how do you feel one vets a woman and examines she has wife qualities?


As for breh @Atlrocafella he's going with the flow and not rushing it cause he's looking at it long term and not concerned with just smashing as he said and I respect that. Many of us in his shoes would try to hit ASAP but my question is has that approach worked for you before?

I mean think about it, what if she is pulling it back cause she wants sex and you ain't make your move yet. I'd view a woman as wifey potential but Id still try to create that passion. It seems if you don't the relationship can lose its spark and next thing you know you get hit with the let's just be friends or she pulls back/ghosts you.

Men shouldnt “go with the flow” we not in HS bro lol

 

[VertigoKnight]

I found myself being that way after a string of ONS but then I thought about it and was like I can get why they don't and I'm missing out on a lot of opportunities here let me chill. A lot of them don't wanna look like a hoe which I respect and on top of that they don't know you too well so I get why they may say No. Even if they really want to have sex they will refuse or fight the urge.

I give them to the second date to warm up but I got to at least touch a titty, grab/spank they ass or in the very least kiss them the first date though.

So how do you feel one vets a woman and examines she has wife qualities?


As for breh @Atlrocafella he's going with the flow and not rushing it cause he's looking at it long term and not concerned with just smashing as he said and I respect that. Many of us in his shoes would try to hit ASAP but my question is has that approach worked for you before?

I mean think about it, what if she is pulling it back cause she wants sex and you ain't make your move yet. I'd view a woman as wifey potential but Id still try to create that passion. It seems if you don't the relationship can lose its spark and next thing you know you get hit with the let's just be friends or she pulls back/ghosts you.

Definitely a balance to be had.

A quality woman could fukk you day one and a shytty one could make you wait 4 dates. Artificially waiting never works imo. As for the first 2 months at least she and you will be playing a character on your best behaviour.

If the chemistry is there sex will happen quickly I’ve found. I personally like to have it early, as if I don't have sexual compatibility with a woman I’m wasting her time and mine as I will be seeking out other women if we ever got together seriously.

A woman's sexual desire or her trying to hold off and be ‘good', shouldn’t mark her out as wifey. Its you as a man peeping her other actions. Because whether we will admit it or not if a woman has decided to fukk around on you she’ll be doing it and that goes for ‘good' and ‘bad' women.