Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[NoirDynosaur]

Most women don't mind anyone taking their pictures for the sake of vanity (see my pornstar thread) , I tell them I'm a photog - they see my page and boom, already baited. Chat plenty, ask their sizes, weight, etc, be somewhat professional but playful. Since I live near Central Park (NYC) its easy for me to get them to come down. From there, flirt, take pics, and eventually tell her to pose however you want her to. Make sure of course that the content you rip from whatever search engine, is mature, this way she knows you're used to seeing everything, and she won't be afraid to get naked for you whenever. Introduce liquor, weed, etc.

I've had gorgeous/insecure birds suck me off simply because they felt "comfortable" and that I wasn't thirsty like all their followers. Had shy birds who wouldn't even take pics for their bf's show me everything. Essentially, acting like its no big deal, eases their minds. Also vanity will always trump anything, introduce a means for a girl to show others that she's pretty, and you can control any scenario.

Photography is a very convincing gig. Girls like to take pictures. And she's following your lead on how to pose. Win for win.

Might try this myself. First need to upgrade to a DSLR camera.

I got some questions if you don't mind discussing: How do you usually open in their DM? How is your IG page set up? What photography tips you use that will benefit a breh?

 

[Deathstroke]

Well fellas, gf of a year and half broke up with me cause I came clean about lying about my age. I lied about 2 years cause I was dumb at the time. Thing is the girl really treated me so well. She loved me, was honest, bought me gifts, not a single day we did not talk, i fell in love. I also made so much efforts in our relationship. Would drive hours to go see her all the time. I did come clean to her about the lie a month ago. She took it so bad but brushed it off and we got back on track. Couple days after she started going hot and cold for like a month. I was there for her though and took responsibility for my fukk up. Today she texted me out the blue a whole novel saying “our relationship is based on a lie, i can’t forgive you cause i’d never do this to you, i can’t be with you anymore , leave me alone ”.
Damn I ain’t even cheated


I tried to calm her down but she wouldn’t hear shyt and said she made her decision and there’s nothing I could say or do to change it and she doesn’t want to see me or it’ll make it worse.
Then she said she’d block me if i kept talking.
I told her honestly she should def block me for both our sakes, that it’s a good idea to make sure I leave her alone and not try to contact her or win her back because she knows I always fought for her. Even spammed her on purpose on so that she does it quick. She still read everything and refused to block me

Then she messaged me again later after one of her friend snitched that I would come see her.
She said her anxiety is really bad rn and asked me to not do anything, that she cannot think at all right now. She’s sorry about how hurt I am and she knows that I wanna try but she can’t. Told her that for her health, she might be better off completely removing me from her life if i bring her that much stress. She didn’t reply so I told her I would respect her decision and she won’t hear from me.

Almost two years relationship lost like that.shyt hurts. Y’all think she overreacted ? I don’t want her back after she ended things like that but I’d like to hear your opinions? She was a really good woman and patient with me before shyt hit the fan.

 

[Silkk]

@Deathstroke Damn breh, Does your lie turn her into a pedophile or something? Cause 2 years difference really ain’t a big deal no more after you hit 21.

 

[Deathstroke]

@Deathstroke Damn breh, Does your lie turn her into a pedophile or something? Cause 2 years difference really ain’t a big deal no more after you hit 21.

Lmao not even, she’s 23. I’m 27. She’s just mad at me cause I didn’t tell her earlier.

 

[George Gooney]

Okay here's the part that I'm talking about. How exactly did you get them to suck you off? Like were you literally just shooting pics and then they drop to their knees and started sucking? This is the "in between" part that most guys have problems with.

I just wanna know how you got from taking the pics to sex. I understand you flirted and made them comfortable but what exactly did you do to initiate the build up?

For example, maybe you asked her to check out some photos while on the couch and then offered a massage or some shyt. That's the type of details that'll help immensely.

Breh you don’t know how to seduce a woman you’re alone with? The answer should be obvious for any dude who has ever gotten laid. Intrigue her, Get her comfortable, arrouse her, initiate physical contact, have sex.

How old are you?

 

[George Gooney]

Lmao not even, she’s 23. I’m 27. She’s just mad at me cause I didn’t tell her earlier.

Sounds like she wasnt feeling you and was looking for any reason to leave you and you gave her one.

 

[TRUEST]

@Deathstroke

learn to cultivate your anger.

that girl is silly. Her telling u “I’ve made my decision. Leave me alone” tells me u obviously like her more than she likes u. And I say obviously because you’ve done things that cemented in her mind the fact that u are at her beck and call. I’m reading ur post and I see behavior I myself exhibited when I was in my early twenties. If u want any kinda chance with this girl in the near future, control yourself and be a man.

Your thought process should be along the lines of:

“how dare you break us up over this, you stupid b1tch. It’s not like I cheated. I only lied about the age cuz I really wanted u. U know what fucck this.”

Hang up on her or just dead the conversation there and go to sleep and stick to no contact.

She won’t like that it appeared u broke things off and will initiate contact to try to get back the perceived power she lost. But when she does contact u, u have to be a man. By that I mean, u must have a take it or leave it attitude. And DO NOT APOLOGIZE AGAIN ABOUT THE AGE THING!!

 

[Silkk]

Lmao not even, she’s 23. I’m 27. She’s just mad at me cause I didn’t tell her earlier.

Something off then breh….

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Low key tryna fukk w/ this one broad at my job. Everyone that’s seen her or I showed her says she bad. Just started following each other on IG but man is she dumb as rocks supposed to be my assistant and can’t do nun right

So much wrong with this post.

1. Why are you going around showing people pictures of her? That's some middle school shyt.
2. Don't fukk coworkers at a job you care about.
3. Don't ever, ever, EVER fukk a coworker that reports to you. Your assistant, nikka, really?

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Well fellas, gf of a year and half broke up with me cause I came clean about lying about my age. I lied about 2 years cause I was dumb at the time. Thing is the girl really treated me so well. She loved me, was honest, bought me gifts, not a single day we did not talk, i fell in love. I also made so much efforts in our relationship. Would drive hours to go see her all the time. I did come clean to her about the lie a month ago. She took it so bad but brushed it off and we got back on track. Couple days after she started going hot and cold for like a month. I was there for her though and took responsibility for my fukk up. Today she texted me out the blue a whole novel saying “our relationship is based on a lie, i can’t forgive you cause i’d never do this to you, i can’t be with you anymore , leave me alone ”.
Damn I ain’t even cheated


I tried to calm her down but she wouldn’t hear shyt and said she made her decision and there’s nothing I could say or do to change it and she doesn’t want to see me or it’ll make it worse.
Then she said she’d block me if i kept talking.
I told her honestly she should def block me for both our sakes, that it’s a good idea to make sure I leave her alone and not try to contact her or win her back because she knows I always fought for her. Even spammed her on purpose on so that she does it quick. She still read everything and refused to block me

Then she messaged me again later after one of her friend snitched that I would come see her.
She said her anxiety is really bad rn and asked me to not do anything, that she cannot think at all right now. She’s sorry about how hurt I am and she knows that I wanna try but she can’t. Told her that for her health, she might be better off completely removing me from her life if i bring her that much stress. She didn’t reply so I told her I would respect her decision and she won’t hear from me.

Almost two years relationship lost like that.shyt hurts. Y’all think she overreacted ? I don’t want her back after she ended things like that but I’d like to hear your opinions? She was a really good woman and patient with me before shyt hit the fan.

How old did you say you were at the beginning of the relationship?

I mean if you were 25 and she was 21 that's not much of an age gap.

Tbh I can go into that she's in her prime "ho phase" time of her life and you just have to let her go. I could go into that she wanted to break up and used the age thing as an excuse.

But I'll put it like this, imagine being with someone who lied to you about something trivial for years. Instead of coming clean earlier you continue to live that lie. For me I couldn't trust a woman who did that to me.o I'd be thinking "If she could lie about something so small, what else is she lying about?"

Bad as it may sound you may have to take the L, learn and keep it moving.

 

[The ADD]

How old did you say you were at the beginning of the relationship?

I mean if you were 25 and she was 21 that's not much of an age gap.

Tbh I can go into that she's in her prime "ho phase" time of her life and you just have to let her go. I could go into that she wanted to break up and used the age thing as an excuse.

But I'll put it like this, imagine being with someone who lied to you about something trivial for years. Instead of coming clean earlier you continue to live that lie. For me I couldn't trust a woman who did that to me.o I'd be thinking "If she could lie about something so small, what else is she lying about?"

Bad as it may sound you may have to take the L, learn and keep it moving.

^^^

 

[Deathstroke]

How old did you say you were at the beginning of the relationship?

I mean if you were 25 and she was 21 that's not much of an age gap.

Tbh I can go into that she's in her prime "ho phase" time of her life and you just have to let her go. I could go into that she wanted to break up and used the age thing as an excuse.

But I'll put it like this, imagine being with someone who lied to you about something trivial for years. Instead of coming clean earlier you continue to live that lie. For me I couldn't trust a woman who did that to me.o I'd be thinking "If she could lie about something so small, what else is she lying about?"

Bad as it may sound you may have to take the L, learn and keep it moving.

True. That’s why I was transparent with her. Too little too late I guess. She didn’t show me signs she wanted to break up. If anything two weeks before me coming clean , she was telling me how happy she is in our relationship and started crying that she’s afraid i would leave her someday. That’s why made me come clean faster. She was honest.

But you right, she probably just can’t trust me anymore. I did try to right my wrongs with even more efforts and commitment but I’ll take the L anyways. Forgiving is also part of life.

 

[Apollo Creed]

True. That’s why I was transparent with her. Too little too late I guess. She didn’t show me signs she wanted to break up. If anything two weeks before me coming clean , she was telling me how happy she is in our relationship and started crying that she’s afraid i would leave her someday. That’s why made me come clean faster. She was honest.

But you right, she probably just can’t trust me anymore. I did try to right my wrongs with even more efforts and commitment but I’ll take the L anyways. Forgiving is also part of life.

she probably found your replacement

 

[Deathstroke]

@Deathstroke

learn to cultivate your anger.

that girl is silly. Her telling u “I’ve made my decision. Leave me alone” tells me u obviously like her more than she likes u. And I say obviously because you’ve done things that cemented in her mind the fact that u are at her beck and call. I’m reading ur post and I see behavior I myself exhibited when I was in my early twenties. If u want any kinda chance with this girl in the near future, control yourself and be a man.

Your thought process should be along the lines of:

“how dare you break us up over this, you stupid b1tch. It’s not like I cheated. I only lied about the age cuz I really wanted u. U know what fucck this.”

Hang up on her or just dead the conversation there and go to sleep and stick to no contact.

She won’t like that it appeared u broke things off and will initiate contact to try to get back the perceived power she lost. But when she does contact u, u have to be a man. By that I mean, u must have a take it or leave it attitude. And DO NOT APOLOGIZE AGAIN ABOUT THE AGE THING!!

Definitely. She must have realized that and gained control during the hot and cold period because I was doing anything to keep and support her. I definitely won’t message her again, i told her she won’t hear for me and I meant it. That i don’t wanna be with someone if it’s not genuine.

 

[Deathstroke]

she probably found your replacement

If so then weirdly it hurts less cause I know she wasn’t as committed. If she switches up on our two years relationship like that. I wouldn’t blame myself so much for messing up.