in the modern world, a women isnt yours. Just enjoy your time and protect yourself. No reason to be upset, just learn from it and refine your toolset to avoid repeating mistakes.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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in the modern world, a women isnt yours. Just enjoy your time and protect yourself. No reason to be upset, just learn from it and refine your toolset to avoid repeating mistakes.
Low key tryna fukk w/ this one broad at my job. Everyone that’s seen her or I showed her says she bad. Just started following each other on IG but man is she dumb as rockssupposed to be my assistant and can’t do nun right
Bruh u already fukked up
How are you Low key trying to fukk her and she on your social media...
Well fellas, gf of a year and half broke up with me cause I came clean about lying about my age. I lied about 2 years cause I was dumb at the time. Thing is the girl really treated me so well. She loved me, was honest, bought me gifts, not a single day we did not talk, i fell in love. I also made so much efforts in our relationship. Would drive hours to go see her all the time. I did come clean to her about the lie a month ago. She took it so bad but brushed it off and we got back on track. Couple days after she started going hot and cold for like a month. I was there for her though and took responsibility for my fukk up. Today she texted me out the blue a whole novel saying “our relationship is based on a lie, i can’t forgive you cause i’d never do this to you, i can’t be with you anymore , leave me alone ”.
Damn I ain’t even cheated
Two years is a long time...you might still be good. When she first decided to break up with you should've just gave her a single worded response and let her backtrack. I'd leave the situation alone for now and just give one or two word responses if she hits you up. Let her mind wonder for now. I can definitely see why she's upset though.
Well fellas, gf of a year and half broke up with me cause I came clean about lying about my age. I lied about 2 years cause I was dumb at the time. Thing is the girl really treated me so well. She loved me, was honest, bought me gifts, not a single day we did not talk, i fell in love. I also made so much efforts in our relationship. Would drive hours to go see her all the time. I did come clean to her about the lie a month ago. She took it so bad but brushed it off and we got back on track. Couple days after she started going hot and cold for like a month. I was there for her though and took responsibility for my fukk up. Today she texted me out the blue a whole novel saying “our relationship is based on a lie, i can’t forgive you cause i’d never do this to you, i can’t be with you anymore , leave me alone ”.
Damn I ain’t even cheated
I tried to calm her down but she wouldn’t hear shyt and said she made her decision and there’s nothing I could say or do to change it and she doesn’t want to see me or it’ll make it worse.
Then she said she’d block me if i kept talking.
I told her honestly she should def block me for both our sakes, that it’s a good idea to make sure I leave her alone and not try to contact her or win her back because she knows I always fought for her. Even spammed her on purpose on so that she does it quick. She still read everything and refused to block me
Then she messaged me again later after one of her friend snitched that I would come see her.
She said her anxiety is really bad rn and asked me to not do anything, that she cannot think at all right now. She’s sorry about how hurt I am and she knows that I wanna try but she can’t. Told her that for her health, she might be better off completely removing me from her life if i bring her that much stress. She didn’t reply so I told her I would respect her decision and she won’t hear from me.
Almost two years relationship lost like that.shyt hurts. Y’all think she overreacted ? I don’t want her back after she ended things like that but I’d like to hear your opinions? She was a really good woman and patient with me before shyt hit the fan.
why did you even tell her ?
shouldve played dumb
"i said 1995 not 1993, quit playin"
did you switch Astro signs? somethin wrong wit her
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why did you even tell her ?
shouldve played dumb
"i said 1995 not 1993"
did you switch Astro signs? somethin wrong wit her
dude dont realize he saved himself lmfao. If a chick cares for you age literally doesnt matter. Youre a man you can always have kids compared to a woman lying about age
shyt is ill..
I would love to find myself in a situation where my self-interests and the self-interests of the person I’m dealing with on the other side of this love thing, completely coincide. So what’s good for me, is good for us and vice Versa.
but as long as there’s that disconnect, a desire for more or better or different .. and their self interest is at odds with my personal desires, you right yo.. it’s just your time. She won’t be the first to love me, I won’t be the last to love her.
Zizek said “love is an extremely violent act, love isn’t I love you all,” it’s exclusive in a way, and pick to up one you might have to put down another.
it almost feels to me like episode 6 of Squid Game
when the players spilt up in teams for the next game, and naturally pick someone they like or are close to.
only to find out that they are playing marbles AGAINST the person they choose as a teammate. And in order to win and advance they have to take all of their teammates marbles.
but when they take all of their marbles .. it’s over for their partner, they lose. Game over.
It sucks when love feels like you’re basically in that episode and you know these relationships will eventually end, and one person will likely be worse for wear than the other.. so you have to protect yourself to ensure it’s not you.
only to find out that they are playing marbles AGAINST the person they choose as a teammate. And in order to win and advance they have to take all of their teammates marbles.
but when they take all of their marbles .. it’s over for their partner, they lose. Game over.
It sucks when love feels like you’re basically in that episode and you know these relationships will eventually end, and one person will likely be worse for wear than the other.. so you have to protect yourself to ensure it’s not you.
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Couldn’t put it any better bro. Great analogy.
I really thought it was like that this time. At first I was suspicious so I kept my guard up but she was here for me every single day so i allowed myself to be involved. We did so much in that one year and half, we had plans, she met some of my family, close friends. We even seriously talked about having kids. So i really thought she’d be able to forgive me. Felt like I had a good girl. I have to go pick up and pay for a special gift I had made for our anniversary coming up
. This gon be awkward af. Imma have to throw that shyt away.
Couldn’t put it any better bro. Great analogy.
I really thought it was like that this time. At first I was suspicious so I kept my guard up but she was here for me every single day so i allowed myself to be involved. We did so much in that one year and half, we had plans, she met some of my family, close friends. We even seriously talked about having kids. So i really thought she’d be able to forgive me. Felt like I had a good girl. I have to go pick up and pay for a special gift I had made for our anniversary coming up
damn bro.. life is a movie sometimes lol but better to live it (good and bad) then sit on the sidelines.
there’s a term in Japanese literature “mono no aware”
basically it speaks to an awareness of the impermanence of things, and the gentle sadness we feel at their passing. Also the longer, deeper appreciation that we must have for the fact that this state of being is the reality of life.
You thought you had one, and for a moment .. you did and she had one too. But You’ll be in that place again .. experience this emotion for what it is.. and just appreciate it as the true nature of things. Transience
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Y’all uptight as hell. Most actually just met her in person. I only showed one of my patnas (that’s what we do)
I don’t care about her, what makes u think I caught feelings just because she’s attractive? Those are not intertwined
How else u try to get these girls? I don’t post about any bytches on my story, I’m not like that. At most you’ll see me at a restaurant posting the food but never the woman. Y’all just getting the number and shyt? This is bad advice IMO how else are u going to get to know how the person likes to be portrayed online at the very least.Bruh u already fukked up
How are you Low key trying to fukk her and she on your social media...
???Bruh u already fukked up
How are you Low key trying to fukk her and she on your social media...
I’ve done this before, mostly at jobs I didn’t care about (once at a job that was an actual career gig
)most of the time was no issue, only once did I have an issue (I’m lying it was twice lol)
The fact that she is a subordinate does make it a little messy potentially because of the power dynamic. But If she’s as incompetent as you describe her, it don’t sound like she gonna be there long any way
Just be careful is is all bro
If you trying to fukk a co worker or someone in your IMMEDIATE radius, you have automatic homefield advantage...
Get the number and chop it up...
This ain’t 1984 dog
You have nikkas with your same game plan
When you pick up the phone and call, you have pushed yourself to the front of the line for that moment
While your playing cat and mouse, she on the phone with at LEAST one nikka who has already separated himself in the pecking order