Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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You have nikkas with your same game plan :skip:

When you pick up the phone and call, you have pushed yourself to the front of the line for that moment :ufdup:


While your playing cat and mouse, she on the phone with at LEAST one nikka who has already separated himself in the pecking order
You act like I’m trying to make her into my woman. Idgaf how many dudes she entertaining. Getting the number works on old women but not the 26 and under is kinda a thirsty move. I’ll ask the number of this other older Asian woman that’s had her eye on me since we met but the young ones you gotta get the SM plus, now she sees her competition like bad ones show me love on my fit pics so she knows I’m accustomed to dealing w/ girls w/ her looks or better. Now If I was lame af on IG I may have asked for her number but Na I can set some up on IG like I have in the past. It’s worked before I don’t see it changing soon
 

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Photography is a very convincing gig. Girls like to take pictures. And she's following your lead on how to pose. Win for win.

Might try this myself. First need to upgrade to a DSLR camera.

I got some questions if you don't mind discussing: How do you usually open in their DM? How is your IG page set up? What photography tips you use that will benefit a breh?


Yeah I haven't had a "no" yet, ran into this idea when working 6 years ago. When it comes to being vain, even the dullest of women will want to give it shot. Moving on;

I open introducing myself as a photog, and that I've seen some of their photos and ask if they're interesting in modeling. Quick , simple, and no thirst.

Secondly the page is private....don't want to run into photogs or models who might call the page out, with that posts, I rip photos from search engines, which allow you to search from oldest to new, this way no one will run into them.

Lastly, I do own GIMP, and edit slightly, but its nothing super deep. GIMP is just free photoshop, but trust me, I'm not doing extensive editing, filters work and croping and these birds go nuts. Another fun bit is that I don't even own a DSLR, I use the latest phone, which does take beautiful pictures, but its no DSLR, and honestly, it doesn't need to be, they just want to pose and be vain, doesn't matter how the picture is taken.
 

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Question breh, who would you choose if you were caught in a dilemma between two women.

One of them you have more fun with, she's cool to be around, she gets you but she can be reckless (drinks a lot, smokes while you aren't a smoke, eats out a lot, wastes money, is bisexual and doesn't always make the best choices). However you two have amazing sex and always have a great time.

The other one she has her head on straight, she has a career(masters degree), has her own place,is good at money management and saving, isn't reckless and is also cool to be around. However you two have mediocre sex and she isn't as fun or let me say she's not as spontaneous and you two have to work to understand each other during disagreements but she is willing to do the work.
 
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Photog trick does work. I’ve shot for about 4 years and I’ve been with a few women (Bottle girl, strippers & signed models). Be careful tho, you don’t want to be known as “that guy” , especially since IG makes the world smaller.

These bytches talk.

You can also do this on dating apps as well. It’s easier to get attention of top “tier” women on there going with this route.
 

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Question breh, who would you choose if you were caught in a dilemma between two women.

One of them you have more fun with, she's cool to be around, she gets you but she can be reckless (drinks a lot, smokes when you don't, eats out a lot, wastes money, is bisexual and doesn't always make the best choices). However you two have amazing sex and always have a great time.

The other one she has her head on straight, she has a career(masters degree), has her own place,is good at money management and saving, isn't reckless and is also cool to be around. However you two have mediocre sex and she isn't as fun or let me say she's not as spontaneous and you two have to work to understand each other during disagreements but she is willing to do the work.
I wouldn't wife either of them. They're both kinda trash. Keep them both on the team and protect yourself.
 

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in the modern world, a women isnt yours. Just enjoy your time and protect yourself. No reason to be upset, just learn from it and refine your toolset to avoid repeating mistakes.

I feel that term "she's not yours, its just your turn" is finally sinking into a lot of guys heads.

Took me a while to come round to it. You want to believe that the women you have only has eyes for you, her mind isn't drifting to what ifs.

Many of us brought into the bullshyt of true love and soulmates.

Once I shed myself of that thinking. Once I was able to enjoy being with woman but knowing at any point things could change and our time is over. It clicked for me.

These days if my time is up, I happily show her the door and genuinely wish her good luck.
 

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I feel that term "she's not yours, its just your turn" is finally sinking into a lot of guys heads.

Took me a while to come round to it. You want to believe that the women you have only has eyes for you, her mind isn't drifting to what ifs.

Many of us brought into the bullshyt of true love and soulmates.

Once I shed myself of that thinking. Once I was able to enjoy being with woman but knowing at any point things could change and our time is over. It clicked for me.

These days if my time is up, I happily show her the door and genuinely wish her good luck.

idk how old your parents are, or if you ever met your grandparents, but think about it, they've lived your life 2-3 times lol. Its best to treat things as lessons that you can grow from, and reflect on later in life.
 

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I wouldn't wife either of them. They're both kinda trash. Keep them both on the team and protect yourself.
Yikes. Very unwise decision.

@Guvnor u should wife the responsible one.

many men before u have foolishly wifed the reckless woman only to pay for it dearly. Do not let that be you.

if you’re attracted to the second one and she’s as attracted to u and is submissive, u can teach her how to loosen up.

the reckless woman will wreck your life.

sex is important but unless ol girl is depriving u of it I’d say cut contact with that irresponsible girl ASAP.
 

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Photog trick does work. I’ve shot for about 4 years and I’ve been with a few women (Bottle girl, strippers & signed models). Be careful tho, you don’t want to be known as “that guy” , especially since IG makes the world smaller.

These bytches talk.

You can also do this on dating apps as well. It’s easier to get attention of top “tier” women on there going with this route.

I learn all I need to know from a guy who says "its crazy" or "doesn't work"....they simply don't know how women operate, and simp out half the time. Keep in mind the photog trick was done by actual photogs :russ:, Terry Richardson was known to have would-be models suck him off for "practice shots". So yes its always been worked and been in effect way before I found it out. I boiled it down to using their vanity against them. I would say thats the only problem, whores talking, but even then, NY is plenty big.:shaq:
 

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Question breh, who would you choose if you were caught in a dilemma between two women.

One of them you have more fun with, she's cool to be around, she gets you but she can be reckless (drinks a lot, smokes while you aren't a smoke, eats out a lot, wastes money, is bisexual and doesn't always make the best choices). However you two have amazing sex and always have a great time.

The other one she has her head on straight, she has a career(masters degree), has her own place,is good at money management and saving, isn't reckless and is also cool to be around. However you two have mediocre sex and she isn't as fun or let me say she's not as spontaneous and you two have to work to understand each other during disagreements but she is willing to do the work.

So essentially a hoe vs a career girl; Spoiler, they're both hoe's one just might not want to be a whore for you. Don't ever assume you have the golden rod of orgasms in your pants. Or that you have the gift of gab to rival Don Juan....some times you might be the boring one, even to the boring bird you're fukking. With that said, if you actually are fun and experimental, then you simply have to introduce the boring broad into more sexual endeavors. The reason I like these types, is due to the fact that you can manipulate them easier (for the better), and they hang on your every word. Women are essentially dumber than men, they suck at controlling money, making wise decisions and actually being productive. From Lawyers to Doctors, they're massive morons when it comes to smart decisions. So I'll take the boring better and turn her into a fukk doll.
 

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Yikes. Very unwise decision.

@Guvnor u should wife the responsible one.

many men before u have foolishly wifed the reckless woman only to pay for it dearly. Do not let that be you.

if you’re attracted to the second one and she’s as attracted to u and is submissive, u can teach her how to loosen up.

the reckless woman will wreck your life.

sex is important but unless ol girl is depriving u of it I’d say cut contact with that irresponsible girl ASAP.
No dumb nikka my advice was sound. He's supposed to wife the "responsible" one that bores him and will eventually push him to cheat? Then when she finds out he cheated she'll leave him and take half of his shyt? Don't even get me started on how hypergamous those "Masters degree" bytches are. She'll probably leave him for a man who's more successful, or she'll get dikked down by the thug that gives her the tingles, the one she wants to give the freaky sex to meanwhile she gives @Guvnor the boring sex.

He should be aiming to settle down with a woman who is somewhere in the middle of the two extremes he listed. And Legal marriage should be off the table.
 

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So essentially a hoe vs a career girl; Spoiler, they're both hoe's one just might not want to be a whore for you. Don't ever assume you have the golden rod of orgasms in your pants. Or that you have the gift of gab to rival Don Juan....some times you might be the boring one, even to the boring bird you're fukking. With that said, if you actually are fun and experimental, then you simply have to introduce the boring broad into more sexual endeavors. The reason I like these types, is due to the fact that you can manipulate them easier (for the better), and they hang on your every word. Women are essentially dumber than men, they suck at controlling money, making wise decisions and actually being productive. From Lawyers to Doctors, they're massive morons when it comes to smart decisions. So I'll take the boring better and turn her into a fukk doll.
Precisely! I just schooled @TRUEST on this topic. nikkas don't understand that if a woman giving you weak sex it's more than likely your fault and theres a nikka who she gave freaky porn star level sex to.
 

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Lmao not even, she’s 23. I’m 27. She’s just mad at me cause I didn’t tell her earlier.

bro shes coming off like a dumb bytch

when i was 26 i pulled a 41 year old,,,i lied i was fee years older

i told her n she didnt even blink she was cool with it…maybe that girl was planning on leaving u or she has mental problems
 

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Some latina milf on tinder gave me her #…she said i need some good dikk and ur tall…bytch starts trippn like “u might know my son” (i dont)….gets all scary n stop replying

the lightskin broad i was supposed to meet up with me today after her work…she says shes on her period it just started :stopitslime: i said aight…she replied again n i just read it n didnt reply
 
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