Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Action Mike]

when the passion is gone end it. Usually a sign things are done and yall just going through the motions. This is what happens when dudes just shack up with women with no end goals.

It's gonna hurt but it's true

 

[TRUEST]

where are you confused?
1.dudes enter relationships/marriage with no foundation thus they have no leverage.
2.dont let vacations make you lose focus from reality.

Dude go get married see where that leads u. Many great men have failed at it. But u somehow think it’s still worth it?

marriage is worth it only if u can honestly say to your self “ I’m fine fuccking this one woman for the rest of my life”. If u can say that honestly, u shouldn’t just get married. You should become a priest as well.

and just cause she’s enough for u doesn’t mean You’ll be enough for her. People change.

 

[jesc07]

Not sure what you're trying get at.
I don't need to or plan "build" with a woman.
I'm very focused in my career and financially I'm doing more than aight.
And technically I've already built the foundation in my investment accounts. I plan to be semi-retired by 40(30 now).
"Vacations" are really just me feeling life out on easy mode, because this American life, aint it.

I'm not trying work for cacs the rest of my life, nor am I trying to work because I have to. A family is something I'm still 50/50 on because I see how miserable a lot of men are. I see my own brother is miserable as fukk with kids, and he has all the money in the world. That same sense of misery is something I don't want for my life.

I can't speak for other dudes but watching my kids grow has been the best part of life. Something about providing for your kids and seeing them do good makes life fulfilling.

 

[Ohene]

Should I check this girl or just ignore her? Me and this girl talking and shyt and this is like the 3rd she’s called me(I was busy) so I called her back then she text me saying she doing xyz when she gets home she’ll call me…
I’m like ok
She never calls again that day she done this 3 times already obviously she not my girl but I find that hella rude…like why say u gonna call and never do..I mean the 1st was normal but 3 times should I check her or ignore her I really wanna check her cuz that’s hella disrespectful

dont check her

ive gotten to a point where i feel like checkin a girl is giving them game on how to act / maintain a dudes interest. and on top of that, if the girl really interested she will be on point with her communication anyways.

so its either you fall back because youre taking the hint, or you fall back because you wanna let the girl continue to operate like a narcissistic bytch and end up lonely as a result.

dont give bytches game on how to act so they can just use it on the next dude

 

[Apollo Creed]

Dude go get married see where that leads u. Many great men have failed at it. But u somehow think it’s still worth it?

marriage is worth it only if u can honestly say to your self “ I’m fine fuccking this one woman for the rest of my life”. If u can say that honestly, u shouldn’t just get married. You should become a priest as well.

and just cause she’s enough for u doesn’t mean You’ll be enough for her. People change.

what exactly are you arguing? I’m not pro anything

 

[TRUEST]

what exactly are you arguing? I’m not pro anything

“dont let vacations make you lose focus from reality.”

What exactly is reality as you see it?

 

[Tr0yTV]

Why did the three lesbians come over?
Just to hang out?

Yeah, I tried to talk to one of them. Asked them if they wanted to come back to my place to chill. They said yes.

 

[Apollo Creed]

“dont let vacations make you lose focus from reality.”

What exactly is reality as you see it?

breh you trying to debate just for the hell of debating.

im posting this from a different country btw

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yeah, I tried to talk to one of them. Asked them if they wanted to come back to my place to chill. They said yes.

translation “free food/drink”

 

[Ahadi]

Unfollow these IG thots brehs. It’ll clear your mind.

 

[TRUEST]

breh you trying to debate just for the hell of debating.

im posting this from a different country btw

my apologies brehski. thought u were trying to convince ol boy to get married and that just set me off

 

[Apollo Creed]

my apologies brehski. thought u were trying to convince ol boy to get married and that just set me off

nah im just saying bros need to work towards something because im starting to feel dudes too much energy into women and look for escapism option

 

[VertigoKnight]

man i dint care if chick is blue, dont tolerate nonsense. Women aint working on construction sites and even the ones that do still be on their phone all day. Being in a meeting is one thing, even during “work hours” sure whatever, but days? Lmfao. These chicks be on they phone in meetings, working with customers, etc.

Yeah this chick has been out of pocket for a while. But due to the fact there is a distinct lack of quality black women here the ones I've come across kinda know this.

The fukked up thing is I date these asian chicks and maybe because their plentiful here, I never have any real problems and these women treat me good.

At my age all I want is a chick with her head on straight and who can communicate.

But me and this chick even talked about the lack of black people, both for dating and also friendship here then she pulls this kinda mess.



But you right even if she is black I shouldn't be tolerating her nonsense.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yeah this chick has been out of pocket for a while. But due to the fact there is a distinct lack of quality black women here the ones I've come across kinda know this.

The fukked up thing is I date these asian chicks and maybe because their plentiful here, I never have any real problems and these women treat me good.

At my age all I want is a chick with her head on straight and who can communicate.

But me and this chick even talked about the lack of black people, both for dating and also friendship here then she pulls this kinda mess.



But you right even if she is black I shouldn't be tolerating her nonsense.

the simple fact she had the convo with you is even more reason she should show respect. The asian women aint of ya race yet treating you better than your so called sister. Chick should be ashamed be she doesnt care

 

[Ohene]

Yeah this chick has been out of pocket for a while. But due to the fact there is a distinct lack of quality black women here the ones I've come across kinda know this.

The fukked up thing is I date these asian chicks and maybe because their plentiful here, I never have any real problems and these women treat me good.

At my age all I want is a chick with her head on straight and who can communicate.

But me and this chick even talked about the lack of black people, both for dating and also friendship here then she pulls this kinda mess.



But you right even if she is black I shouldn't be tolerating her nonsense.

I always tell my homies the shyt we deal with from women, our white and Asian counterparts aren’t dealing with from theirs like that