Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Serious]

Had to bush a chick I was seeing for a few months. Fundamentally we weren't seeing eye to eye on a few things. But ultimately the situation morphed into taking away my peace. She had constant mood swings and sometimes I would try to correct them, but resentment set in.


But I recently had to throw in the towel because our disagreements, came to a point where everyday she was damn near going from 0 to 100 over some stupid or petty shyt.


I realized I was significantly happier on days that I didn't see her or had limited contact, so I knew what to do. Not married, no kids, so fukk putting up with that type situation that you don't see getting better.

 

[The ADD]

Had to brush a chick I was seeing for a few months. Fundamentally we weren't seeing eye to eye on a few things. But ultimately the situation morphed into taking away my peace. She had constant mood swings and sometimes I would try to correct them, but resentment set in.


But I recently had to throw in the towel because our disagreements, came to a point where everyday she was damn near going from 0 to 100 over some stupid or petty shyt.


I realized I was significantly happier on days that I didn't see her or had limited contact, so I knew what to do. Not married, no kids, so fukk putting up with that type situation that you don't see getting better.

 

[MikelArteta]

Had to bush a chick I was seeing for a few months. Fundamentally we weren't seeing eye to eye on a few things. But ultimately the situation morphed into taking away my peace. She had constant mood swings and sometimes I would try to correct them, but resentment set in.


But I recently had to throw in the towel because our disagreements, came to a point where everyday she was damn near going from 0 to 100 over some stupid or petty shyt.


I realized I was significantly happier on days that I didn't see her or had limited contact, so I knew what to do. Not married, no kids, so fukk putting up with that type situation that you don't see getting better.

time for the next trip breh


It's so wonderful when you can just walk away and go back to peace
now imagine if you had a kid or somethign with her

 

[MikelArteta]

New week new women

trying to do another three this week

first up

 

[semicko82]

Been ‘friends’ with a married ig model for 3 months. Never made an attempt cause I respect marriage. Tonight I offered to get her nails done. Told her to ride with me to the atm. After I got the money, I pulled up to my place. She let me hit 10 mins after we walked in. I’m happy cause I like her but this cemented my GMB membership.

Sidebar: she is rich

side sidebar: found out a girl I pulled a while ago has a maybach

side side sidebar: had three lesbians over. They wasn’t tryna fukk. 3-7.

Why did the three lesbians come over?
Just to hang out?

 

[Apollo Creed]

Why did the three lesbians come over?
Just to hang out?

lol i got confused from dudes post

 

[VertigoKnight]

Should I check this girl or just ignore her? Me and this girl talking and shyt and this is like the 3rd she’s called me(I was busy) so I called her back then she text me saying she doing xyz when she gets home she’ll call me…
I’m like ok
She never calls again that day she done this 3 times already obviously she not my girl but I find that hella rude…like why say u gonna call and never do..I mean the 1st was normal but 3 times should I check her or ignore her I really wanna check her cuz that’s hella disrespectful

Ignore her.

I had a similar situation with this Eritrean chick.

She would ring me randomly and I'd be working. Hit her up later and she would reply 2 days later or randomly ring me at another unsuitable time.

The final straw was she rang me last Wednesday as we'd discussed playing tennis previously. I was having lunch with one of my other female friends. So ignored the call. But texted her afterwards.

Told her I could fit her in late afternoon. Or Friday morning we could definitely have a few rounds.

Haven't heard from the chick since then. I've found myself giving a bit more leeway to black women here, but this chick is just rude. Way to much stop and start with her.

 

[Pyrexcup]

 

[Serious]

Ignore her.

I had a similar situation with this Eritrean chick.

She would ring me randomly and I'd be working. Hit her up later and she would reply 2 days later or randomly ring me at another unsuitable time.

The final straw was she rang me last Wednesday as we'd discussed playing tennis previously. I was having lunch with one of my other female friends. So ignored the call. But texted her afterwards.

Told her I could fit her in late afternoon. Or Friday morning we could definitely have a few rounds.

Haven't heard from the chick since then. I've found myself giving a bit more leeway to black women here, but this chick is just rude. Way to much stop and start with her.

Inconsistent communication is bushes.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Ignore her.

I had a similar situation with this Eritrean chick.

She would ring me randomly and I'd be working. Hit her up later and she would reply 2 days later or randomly ring me at another unsuitable time.

The final straw was she rang me last Wednesday as we'd discussed playing tennis previously. I was having lunch with one of my other female friends. So ignored the call. But texted her afterwards.

Told her I could fit her in late afternoon. Or Friday morning we could definitely have a few rounds.

Haven't heard from the chick since then. I've found myself giving a bit more leeway to black women here, but this chick is just rude. Way to much stop and start with her.

man i dint care if chick is blue, dont tolerate nonsense. Women aint working on construction sites and even the ones that do still be on their phone all day. Being in a meeting is one thing, even during “work hours” sure whatever, but days? Lmfao. These chicks be on they phone in meetings, working with customers, etc.

 

[Serious]

time for the next trip breh


It's so wonderful when you can just walk away and go back to peace
now imagine if you had a kid or somethign with her

ngl Traveling definitely made realize I'm not ready to settle down.

And not necessary because the tremendous options out there but there's a lot of this world you just can't see when your roots are planted.

Man, I envisioned a kid as a death sentence. I just pictured half the time dealing with arguments. That's just not how I roll at all. I'm a patient, lowkey and nonconfrontational cat, yet I always being pulled into some petty argument, because of something I said rubbed her the wrong way.

 

[Apollo Creed]

ngl Traveling definitely made realize I'm not ready to settle down.

And not necessary because the tremendous options out there but there's a lot of this world you just can't see when your roots are planted.

Man, I envisioned a kid as a death sentence. I just pictured half the time dealing with arguments. That's just not how I roll at all. I'm a patient, lowkey and nonconfrontational cat, yet I always being pulled into some petty argument, because of something I said rubbed her the wrong way.

“Settling down” is only an issue cause dudes do it when they have not built themselves thus they have no square to stand on. All that “building with s woman” is a fairy tale lie lmfao. Women want a ready made product, so dudes thinking they can build with a woman are setting themselves up fail. Dont use travel as an escape mechinism because you gonna get 1000 trips under your belt, build nothing, and be back at square one when you are 60 yr old and nothing to show for it. Dont let vacations be an excuse not to build.

 

[MikelArteta]

ngl Traveling definitely made realize I'm not ready to settle down.

And not necessary because the tremendous options out there but there's a lot of this world you just can't see when your roots are planted.

Man, I envisioned a kid as a death sentence. I just pictured half the time dealing with arguments. That's just not how I roll at all. I'm a patient, lowkey and nonconfrontational cat, yet I always being pulled into some petty argument, because of something I said rubbed her the wrong way.

Thats why I love travelling , immersing yourself in different cultures, seeing places you just heard about as a kid. Meeting new people, women etc.
When you're in a relationship you can't do that, responsibilities extra money etc.

I love women and enjoy their company but I enjoyed like last week, i met up with 3 women enjoyed my night out and that was that. no what are we no commitment, etc.

 

[Serious]

“Settling down” is only an issue cause dudes do it when they have not built themselves thus they have no square to stand on. All that “building with s woman” is a fairy tale lie lmfao. Women want a ready made product, so dudes thinking they can build with a woman are setting themselves up fail. Dont use travel as an escape mechinism because you gonna get 1000 trips under your belt, build nothing, and be back at square one when you are 60 yr old and nothing to show for it. Dont let vacations be an excuse not to build.

Not sure what you're trying get at.
I don't need to or plan "build" with a woman.
I'm very focused in my career and financially I'm doing more than aight.
And technically I've already built the foundation in my investment accounts. I plan to be semi-retired by 40(30 now).
"Vacations" are really just me feeling life out on easy mode, because this American life, aint it.

I'm not trying work for cacs the rest of my life, nor am I trying to work because I have to. A family is something I'm still 50/50 on because I see how miserable a lot of men are. I see my own brother is miserable as fukk with kids, and he has all the money in the world. That same sense of misery is something I don't want for my life.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Not sure what you're trying get at.
I don't need to or plan "build" with a woman.
I'm very focused in my career and financially I'm doing more than aight.
And technically I've already built the foundation in my investment accounts. I plan to be semi-retired by 40(30 now).
"Vacations" are really just me feeling life out on easy mode, because this American life, aint it.

I'm not trying work for cacs the rest of my life, nor am I trying to work because I have to. A family is something I'm still 50/50 on because I see how miserable a lot of men are. I see my own brother is miserable as fukk with kids, and he has all the money in the world. That same sense of misery is something I don't want for my life.

where are you confused?
1.dudes enter relationships/marriage with no foundation thus they have no leverage.
2.dont let vacations make you lose focus from reality.