Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Bruh you gotta know when to curb the conversation...
The type of conversations your having is doing more damage than the actual cheating...
So in other words you felt I should have never discussed this kind of thing with her? If so then what do you feel I could have done to try to improve things?
 

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So in other words you felt I should have never discussed this kind of thing with her? If so then what do you feel I could have done to try to improve things?

It's the k.i.s.s. method

Keep
It
Simple
Stupid

Its like being in an interrogation room and trying to explain yourself...

The more you talk the worse it usually becomes...

Say as least as possible and let her figure the shyt out
 

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It's the k.i.s.s. method

Keep
It
Simple
Stupid

Its like being in an interrogation room and trying to explain yourself...

The more you talk the worse it usually becomes...

Say as least as possible and let her figure the shyt out
If I say nothing then the passion in the relationship would still be shyt when it comes to the sex. I feel it still had to be addressed. Maybe further down the line after the cheating shyt blew over more but I still feel I had to mention it at some point or just suffer from a mediocre sex life which I don't want to do.
 

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If I say nothing then the passion in the relationship would still be shyt when it comes to the sex. I feel it still had to be addressed. Maybe further down the line after the cheating shyt blew over more but I still feel I had to mention it at some point or just suffer from a mediocre sex life which I don't want to do.
You can't tell women the truth. Not for something like that.
 

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If I say nothing then the passion in the relationship would still be shyt when it comes to the sex. I feel it still had to be addressed. Maybe further down the line after the cheating shyt blew over more but I still feel I had to mention it at some point or just suffer from a mediocre sex life which I don't want to do.

The relationship is pretty much over at this point:francis:

Maybe she might have tried harder after you cheated if you would have played your cards right...
 

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You can't tell women the truth. Not for something like that.
Smh I see that now but I couldn't have just stayed in a passionless relationship that felt like a friendship .Had to try something.

The relationship is pretty much over at this point:francis:

Maybe she might have tried harder after you cheated if you would have played your cards right...
It's damn sure gonna be tough, as I said before gonna fall back a little and not be so emotionally invested and stressing about it. If it's meant to be we will figure it out but at this point I fukked up.

I'll focus more on my purpose as AMS would say. Go to the gym and get my life more together.
 

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Smh I see that now but I couldn't have just stayed in a passionless relationship that felt like a friendship .Had to try something.


It's damn sure gonna be tough, as I said before gonna fall back a little and not be so emotionally invested and stressing about it. If it's meant to be we will figure it out but at this point I fukked up.

I'll focus more on my purpose as AMS would say. Go to the gym and get my life more together.
That's why we said it's time to go
 

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Got a "Hey bighead" text from a chick who didn't wanna fukk with me in the least a few years back.

:francis::hhh::banderas:

Zero sexual attraction, zero interest. Told me as much, and I used to keep on trying because I was on some simp time. Eventually left it alone and worked on myself over the years, bulked up, grew out the dreads, grew the beard, etc. A legitimate glow up. And now this big overweight bytch think she can just hit me up.

:pacspit:


So many ways I can go about responding but I'm not even going to. Just leave her on read.
 

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Been ‘friends’ with a married ig model for 3 months. Never made an attempt cause I respect marriage. Tonight I offered to get her nails done. Told her to ride with me to the atm. After I got the money, I pulled up to my place. She let me hit 10 mins after we walked in. I’m happy cause I like her but this cemented my GMB membership.

Sidebar: she is rich

side sidebar: found out a girl I pulled a while ago has a maybach :ohhh:

side side sidebar: had three lesbians over. They wasn’t tryna fukk. 3-7.
 
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Been ‘friends’ with a married ig model for 3 months. Never made an attempt cause I respect marriage. Tonight I offered to get her nails done. Told her to ride with me to the atm. After I got the money, I pulled up to my place. She let me hit 10 mins after we walked in. I’m happy cause I like her but this cemented my GMB membership.

Sidebar: she is rich

side sidebar: found out a girl I pulled a while ago has a maybach :ohhh:

side side sidebar: had three lesbians over. They wasn’t tryna fukk. 3-7.



get married brehs
 

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Should I check this girl or just ignore her? Me and this girl talking and shyt and this is like the 3rd she’s called me(I was busy) so I called her back then she text me saying she doing xyz when she gets home she’ll call me…
I’m like ok:ehh:
She never calls again that day:hhh::hhh: she done this 3 times already:hhh: obviously she not my girl but I find that hella rude…like why say u gonna call and never do..I mean the 1st was normal but 3 times:scust::scust: should I check her or ignore her:scust: I really wanna check her cuz that’s hella disrespectful :scust:
 

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Coli thread #1000001 as to why all men should focus on finding a purpose and using said purpose to stack their paper to the ceiling.

The most 'attractive', women (accomplished or not) in every social circle are getting effortlessly tossed by the men at the top of that circle who laugh at all the incel/simp talk that goes on.

It's a hard pill to swallow, but getting this point across to your sons and younger male relatives/acquaintances might save their lives as long as they learn to see themselves and their dynasties as the ultimate priority.

Build yourself brehs. But have fun at the same time.
 
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Should I check this girl or just ignore her? Me and this girl talking and shyt and this is like the 3rd she’s called me(I was busy) so I called her back then she text me saying she doing xyz when she gets home she’ll call me…
I’m like ok:ehh:
She never calls again that day:hhh::hhh: she done this 3 times already:hhh: obviously she not my girl but I find that hella rude…like why say u gonna call and never do..I mean the 1st was normal but 3 times:scust::scust: should I check her or ignore her:scust: I really wanna check her cuz that’s hella disrespectful :scust:

like I said
takes one second for a woman to text or pick up her phone and call if she wants. These chicks are on instagram, tiktok, youtube hours a day but cant take a minute out of their day to return a call?
 
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