Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I didn't move in with her though she spoke on me moving in before the whole cheating thing as something potentially like after a year and a half of dating.

not sure if you saw my prior post but I'm unsure on her anyway so at this point I'm gonna fallback and let her contact me. Was wondering if I should let her know if I was unsure about her or just keep it to myself though.

You're already admitting that she still lives in your head rent-free, this is what happens with guilt. You sit in denial or hubris, when you really should be walking away from her completely. What's keeping you there? Really, I'm not here to make fun of any of you guys, but you have to be brutally honest with yourself, before I can even judge any scenario completely.
 

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You're already admitting that she still lives in your head rent-free, this is what happens with guilt. You sit in denial or hubris, when you really should be walking away from her completely. What's keeping you there? Really, I'm not here to make fun of any of you guys, but you have to be brutally honest with yourself, before I can even judge any scenario completely.
She got wifey potential. She's independent, got her own money, picks up the tab on dates and shyt from time to time, she's generous, got a nurturing side, is thoughtful and when she ain't bratty or testing and shyt she is actually fun to be around and is the type to talk shyt out.

The passion seems missing for me. Could be cause she ain't freaky like a lot of other chicks I've been with or I'm on her too strong like y'all saying. Which is why I'll fall back and just see how shyt develops. Give it like 3 months.
 

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Women lack self-accountability pt. 1000000…

Before I start, I actually feel bad for partaking in this sh*t.

So I have been smashing my ex wife on a regular basis. She has been saying she wishes she never fukked with dude and how stupid she was. The same chick that told me money wasn’t everything, calls him broke, and complains about him not being able to really hold the crib down financially. She has also alluded to the sex being wack as well :yeshrug:. So apparently dude has been acting a little off and feeling some pressure. We were laying in the bed one morning after a fukk session and she said, “ I think he feels like we may be messing around, he’s so fukking insecure.” My heart sunk when she said that sh*t and I looked at her like :gucci:.

First off men, if you fukk with a married woman and then wife her, you’re foolish. She has already shown you that her loyalty isn’t there, don’t complain when you get the same treatment. Back to her, she’s insane. The lack of accountability is astounding. How can you be cheating on a guy and then call him insecure?

I’m also going to leave this alone because I took my lick like man, I didn’t lose my cool outside of the first time I saw the text and cursed her tf out. After that I filed and let my lawyer work. I was hurt but I didn’t show her.

This ni99a on the other hand told her that we’re beefing… We’re not, I didn’t even know where the lived up until a month ago and I have seen him a few times.

He told her that I was creeping outside of the crib… :wtf::mindblown:

Said I did something to his car because the transmission went out… Dude, you have an old ass Dodge Magnum…Enough said

I don’t want dude to come at me on some crazy sh*t and make me knock him tf out.
 

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She got wifey potential. She's independent, got her own money, picks up the tab on dates and shyt from time to time, she's generous, got a nurturing side, is thoughtful and when she ain't bratty or testing and shyt she is actually fun to be around and is the type to talk shyt out.

The passion seems missing for me. Could be cause she ain't freaky like a lot of other chicks I've been with or I'm on her too strong like y'all saying. Which is why I'll fall back and just see how shyt develops. Give it like 3 months.

how do you use wife and independent in the same sentence? Lol man America has brothers minds warped.

a woman functioning as an adult isnt wifey material breh
 

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Women lack self-accountability pt. 1000000…

Before I start, I actually feel bad for partaking in this sh*t.

So I have been smashing my ex wife on a regular basis. She has been saying she wishes she never fukked with dude and how stupid she was. The same chick that told me money wasn’t everything, calls him broke, and complains about him not being able to really hold the crib down financially. She has also alluded to the sex being wack as well :yeshrug:. So apparently dude has been acting a little off and feeling some pressure. We were laying in the bed one morning after a fukk session and she said, “ I think he feels like we may be messing around, he’s so fukking insecure.” My heart sunk when she said that sh*t and I looked at her like :gucci:.

First off men, if you fukk with a married woman and then wife her, you’re foolish. She has already shown you that her loyalty isn’t there, don’t complain when you get the same treatment. Back to her, she’s insane. The lack of accountability is astounding. How can you be cheating on a guy and then call him insecure?

I’m also going to leave this alone because I took my lick like man, I didn’t lose my cool outside of the first time I saw the text and cursed her tf out. After that I filed and let my lawyer work. I was hurt but I didn’t show her.

This ni99a on the other hand told her that we’re beefing… We’re not, I didn’t even know where the lived up until a month ago and I have seen him a few times.

He told her that I was creeping outside of the crib… :wtf::mindblown:

Said I did something to his car because the transmission went out… Dude, you have an old ass Dodge Magnum…Enough said

I don’t want dude to come at me on some crazy sh*t and make me knock him tf out.

Unless you are degrading her sexually for giggles it doesnt even make sense to be in her presence breh lmfao. You let people like that starve out and suffer, not give them comfort to continue being demonic
 

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Unless you are degrading her sexually for giggles it doesnt even make sense to be in her presence breh lmfao. You let people like that starve out and suffer, not give them comfort to continue being demonic
Nah, never… I can’t do that, I’m a simp.
 

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Women lack self-accountability pt. 1000000…

Before I start, I actually feel bad for partaking in this sh*t.

So I have been smashing my ex wife on a regular basis. She has been saying she wishes she never fukked with dude and how stupid she was. The same chick that told me money wasn’t everything, calls him broke, and complains about him not being able to really hold the crib down financially. She has also alluded to the sex being wack as well :yeshrug:. So apparently dude has been acting a little off and feeling some pressure. We were laying in the bed one morning after a fukk session and she said, “ I think he feels like we may be messing around, he’s so fukking insecure.” My heart sunk when she said that sh*t and I looked at her like :gucci:.

First off men, if you fukk with a married woman and then wife her, you’re foolish. She has already shown you that her loyalty isn’t there, don’t complain when you get the same treatment. Back to her, she’s insane. The lack of accountability is astounding. How can you be cheating on a guy and then call him insecure?

I’m also going to leave this alone because I took my lick like man, I didn’t lose my cool outside of the first time I saw the text and cursed her tf out. After that I filed and let my lawyer work. I was hurt but I didn’t show her.

This ni99a on the other hand told her that we’re beefing… We’re not, I didn’t even know where the lived up until a month ago and I have seen him a few times.

He told her that I was creeping outside of the crib… :wtf::mindblown:

Said I did something to his car because the transmission went out… Dude, you have an old ass Dodge Magnum…Enough said

I don’t want dude to come at me on some crazy sh*t and make me knock him tf out.
tread carefully her current dude sounds bytchmade...

You never know what a bytchmade dude is capable of, especially if you smash his girl.
 

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A woman who I know a minister is introducing me to her daughter. Basically shrugged her off but when she sent ne a photo of her I literally did a :krs: face Daughter lives out of state.Ol girl the truth,but our convos have been sporadic .Phone convo was good but short. I rarely let women introduce me to their daughters. This one I feel is worth it. But 1st convo on some let me call you back has me wondering .Im optimistic but im gonna fall back.

Really not worth it. I say this as a dude who was in an off and on relationship for 1.5 years in a long distance relationship.
 

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how do you use wife and independent in the same sentence? Lol man America has brothers minds warped.

a woman functioning as an adult isnt wifey material breh

Yes she is. A woman need a to be submissive and cooperative and willing to get on your page.

The independent mindset is a killer.
 

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Nervous asf imma bout to hit this new club tonight. If @calixprynce is correct then I can’t choke when I see them baddies. @Rozay Oro lemme get some words of wizdom :feedme:
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how do you use wife and independent in the same sentence? Lol man America has brothers minds warped.

a woman functioning as an adult isnt wifey material breh

Lol I get what you mean if you think wifey is the 1950s housewife who is gonna cook and clean and be super submissive. That shyt is dead! Maybe not for you but I want a woman who has a job and isn't a bum. Who can pay her bills. Not the over feminist annoying type of independent. Just that she is a functional adult.

My girl also can cook and is always cleaning so there is that too.

Yes she is. A woman need a to be submissive and cooperative and willing to get on your page.

The independent mindset is a killer.

She kind of has qualities of both she is cooperative but she wanna be independent too, not like a feminist but she be on her shyt talking about us both leading and what not. In my head I'm like fukk outta here you don't run shyt lol. She do be trying it though but she is more cooperative then try to try run things like she is the boss if that makes sense.

Her thing is we both lead
 
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