Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Bossyyyyy]

been down that road.

I had a girl before that used to dress the part, but after some time in our relationship, only delivered when she wanted to. “I got a headache”

Don’t know if she was getting side dikk, wasn’t attracted to me anymore, depressed, or what…

All I know Is that I cheated every time she started actin funny with the coochie. I eventually got caught, we broke up, and I left.

oddly enough it felt good that she found out I had options and I still got mine, but I was sad to lose her.

relationships are weird as hell.

seems like everyone is for themselves and/or tryna find someone comparable to their ex.

I don’t think women just like fukkin one nikka anymore either so…

you should just do you.

If ya girl being stingy with the coochie, remember “women LOVE sex, maybe just not with YOU.”

Yea man I’m not sure what it is either. She talks a lot about wanting me/ being turned on, but we rarely actually follow thru. It’s like I’m constantly being teased. We both recently graduated and moved home, so I’m sure not having a place of our own is part of the issue, but it also existed when we both had our own places.

I’m kinda nearing the point where I don’t wanna try anymore. It’s crazy I feel like i gotta put so much work in for a part of the relationship that should be expected. I could have an easier time bagging a random girl off the street dawg. Then I look at the beginning of our relationship and think of how she was constantly trying to do something sexual w me. Being flirty, unprompted head, adventurous etc. Now I gotta ask and ion like that. Been feeling like something wrong with me man. i know sex isn’t a huge deal, and honestly when I wasn’t in a relationship, I wouldn’t even be out there like that, just here and there when I wanted it. I get money, I’m productive and ambitious, in the gym constantly, and handsome not to mention that I always try to be a good bf

I try to not focus too much on this part of our relationship lacking, but it’s one of the few issues I’ve brought to her yet it remains unchanged. Like overall we’re pretty good relationship wise. I don’t wanna beg or have the feeling that I’m begging, that’s so gross, and I also feel that beating off is a gross and lowly thing to do too so that makes everything harder. She sees issues and brings them to me and I do my best to solve them, I don’t get why it can’t go both ways.

 

[MikelArteta]

bro if she ain’t replying she ain’t interested end of. She ain’t busy you just at the bottom of the list

This is basic ish

pretty much takes one second to send a text

 

[J.E.T.S]

Yea man I’m not sure what it is either. She talks a lot about wanting me/ being turned on, but we rarely actually follow thru. It’s like I’m constantly being teased. We both recently graduated and moved home, so I’m sure not having a place of our own is part of the issue, but it also existed when we both had our own places.

I’m kinda nearing the point where I don’t wanna try anymore. It’s crazy I feel like i gotta put so much work in for a part of the relationship that should be expected. I could have an easier time bagging a random girl off the street dawg. Then I look at the beginning of our relationship and think of how she was constantly trying to do something sexual w me. Being flirty, unprompted head, adventurous etc. Now I gotta ask and ion like that. Been feeling like something wrong with me man. i know sex isn’t a huge deal, and honestly when I wasn’t in a relationship, I wouldn’t even be out there like that, just here and there when I wanted it. I get money, I’m productive and ambitious, in the gym constantly, and handsome not to mention that I always try to be a good bf

I try to not focus too much on this part of our relationship lacking, but it’s one of the few issues I’ve brought to her yet it remains unchanged. Like overall we’re pretty good relationship wise. I don’t wanna beg or have the feeling that I’m begging, that’s so gross, and I also feel that beating off is a gross and lowly thing to do too so that makes everything harder. She sees issues and brings them to me and I do my best to solve them, I don’t get why it can’t go both ways.

sex IS important.

.. and she might be getting it somewhere else.

shyt always start off good and freaky.

the living situation doesn’t matter because bytches MAKE TIME. Trust me.

sounds like she’s pulling away.

she dismisses your concerns? Smh. What she say to you? That you’re crazy, insecure, or it’s not a big deal?…

if so, I got her all figured out.

bytches are dirty yo

 

[Guvnor]

Lmao Two chicks I used to fukk with both decided to hit me up today wanting to smash again when I'm tryna sort out my relationship shyt. As I said before just gonna fall back, might just be too into that chick but the passion ain't there.

@Bossyyyyy I feel your pain breh. It's like that with mine too, everything is there but the passion and it didn't help that she found out I was cheating. I'm planning to just fall back and do me on the side, if shyt don't improve I'll just leave her and let someone else deal with that but I ain't gonna be initiating it every time.

 

[The ADD]

Lmao Two chicks I used to fukk with both decided to hit me up today wanting to smash again when I'm tryna sort out my relationship shyt. As I said before just gonna fall back, might just be too into that chick but the passion ain't there.

@Bossyyyyy I feel your pain breh. It's like that with mine too, everything is there but the passion and it didn't help that she found out I was cheating. I'm planning to just fall back and do me on the side, if shyt don't improve I'll just leave her and let someone else deal with that.

Have you had a real conversation with her about it recently?

 

[Guvnor]

Have you had a real conversation with her about it recently?

No I'm going to today, just going to tell her how I've been feeling. shyt seems off.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Tossed her to bushes. When women bread crumb not a good sign.

 

[Bossyyyyy]

sex IS important.

.. and she might be getting it somewhere else.

shyt always start off good and freaky.

the living situation doesn’t matter because bytches MAKE TIME. Trust me.

sounds like she’s pulling away.

bytches are dirty yo

Lmao Two chicks I used to fukk with both decided to hit me up today wanting to smash again when I'm tryna sort out my relationship shyt. As I said before just gonna fall back, might just be too into that chick but the passion ain't there.

@Bossyyyyy I feel your pain breh. It's like that with mine too, everything is there but the passion and it didn't help that she found out I was cheating. I'm planning to just fall back and do me on the side, if shyt don't improve I'll just leave her and let someone else deal with that but I ain't gonna be initiating it every time.

how did her finding out go? only reason i won’t do it is bc im afraid of stds, wanna try n keep my integrity, and also bc ion think most of these girls are good enough for me :/

 

[Bossyyyyy]

sex IS important.

.. and she might be getting it somewhere else.

shyt always start off good and freaky.

the living situation doesn’t matter because bytches MAKE TIME. Trust me.

sounds like she’s pulling away.

she dismisses your concerns? Smh. What she say to you? That you’re crazy, insecure, or it’s not a big deal?…

if so, I got her all figured out.

bytches are dirty yo

When it come to my concerns being dismissed, first I was sex crazed (I’m not), then it was excuses, then it was “it’s not a big deal” now it’s “I’m trying”. I’m kinda over it bro. It was never like I was bringing this stuff up to her in a hostile or rude way either. Despite my frustration , my goal was to always be very open and receptive when bringing problems up (any problems).

It’s asinine how hard I gotta try to smash my own girl, meanwhile girls I barely know throw it at me. It also baffles me how if I were to step out that I’m in the wrong regardless whereas on the other end, that person has “needs”

you mention women being dirty and I agree 100% just not too long ago I was talking to a girl n she was telling me how she step out on her nikka whenever he get locked. apparently he know tho and had his nikkas sent to her house when they caught wind

If I was 60 and going weeks-months without sex it would be a diff story, but no I’m 23

 

[Tr0yTV]

Had two women over. The one I talk to was shy. Her friend was down to fukk though. May have went a lil too hard tryna get the threesome This L brings my threesome attempts to 3-6

 

[J.E.T.S]

When it come to my concerns being dismissed, first I was sex crazed (I’m not), then it was excuses, then it was “it’s not a big deal” now it’s “I’m trying”. I’m kinda over it bro. It was never like I was bringing this stuff up to her in a hostile or rude way either. Despite my frustration , my goal was to always be very open and receptive when bringing problems up (any problems).

It’s asinine how hard I gotta try to smash my own girl, meanwhile girls I barely know throw it at me. It also baffles me how if I were to step out that I’m in the wrong regardless whereas on the other end, that person has “needs”

you mention women being dirty and I agree 100% just not too long ago I was talking to a girl n she was telling me how she step out on her nikka whenever he get locked. apparently he know tho and had his nikkas sent to her house when they caught wind

If I was 60 and going weeks-months without sex it would be a diff story, but no I’m 23

man a lot of us has been through this believe it or not. It doesn’t get better unfortunately. Either you’re gonna have to deal with it or get someone else more sexually compatible with you.

She doesn’t even give you throat either?…

 

[Bossyyyyy]

man a lot of us has been through this believe it or not. It doesn’t get better unfortunately. Either you’re gonna have to deal with it or get someone else more sexually compatible with you.

She doesn’t even give you throat either?…

Naw man. If she does, I gotta ask, and that’ll only last for 2-3 min max at typically low effort. I think the only time I got blown to completion was before we started being official

 

[King]

So at what point after fukking do you ask women to build with you?

I got money to be made, I can’t waste time dropping off dikk if I’m not getting any gain from it other than a nut.

Like 2nd or 3rd time?

 

[The ADD]

So at what point after fukking do you ask women to build with you?

I got money to be made, I can’t waste time dropping off dikk if I’m not getting any gain from it other than a nut.

Like 2nd or 3rd time?

Go Big

2nd

 

[Astroslik]

So at what point after fukking do you ask women to build with you?

I got money to be made, I can’t waste time dropping off dikk if I’m not getting any gain from it other than a nut.

Like 2nd or 3rd time?

What do you mean “build with” ?