why are you living with a woman that isnt your wife lol.
I don't live with her! Y'all really gonna have to read my prior post to get the full story.
She said after a year and a half she would be open to living together or just spoke about in a future tense. I probably wouldn't do it that soon but tbh if I am going to marry a woman or she was marriage material I would wanna live with her eventually because that's how you see what someone is really like. I wouldn't do it after a year and a half of dating but if we ever got in a space where marriage was seriously on the table and I was thinking about engaging to her I would move in with her to see if marriage life would be worth it.
The bigger question I have is I'm iffy on her and wonder if I should tell her or just see how things develop. Either I'm too attached, my trust issues are getting in the way here or my gut is right and she has some kind of ulterior motive. Though there is some male friend she had she told me she used to string along/friend zone and essentially he asked her to help him with the wedding to his wife, I got to tell her to dead that shyt which I didn't tell her when she first mentioned it because I didn't wanna come off insecure but fukk that.