Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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she wants u to use u for half the rent n to fukk pther dudes while u at work

run
Nah she would work during the day too, we would be home around the same time and she doesn't need me to pay half the rent either lol.
 

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Matched with this white bytch on bumble for the first day she had a Convo didn’t hear for a day and a half and I called the bytch out “she’s like sorry I’ve been really busy” i replied n didnt hear for another 24 lol and I just told her I was like this is why I don’t even get bytches like you the time of day your bio says “please know how to hold a conversation” you can’t even do it I was like you don’t even have time lol

you shouldnt respond to a chick who takes 24 hrs,
And if you do, take 48 hrs and just respond “k”
 

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why are you living with a woman that isnt your wife lol.
I don't live with her! Y'all really gonna have to read my prior post to get the full story.

She said after a year and a half she would be open to living together or just spoke about in a future tense. I probably wouldn't do it that soon but tbh if I am going to marry a woman or she was marriage material I would wanna live with her eventually because that's how you see what someone is really like. I wouldn't do it after a year and a half of dating but if we ever got in a space where marriage was seriously on the table and I was thinking about engaging to her I would move in with her to see if marriage life would be worth it.

The bigger question I have is I'm iffy on her and wonder if I should tell her or just see how things develop. Either I'm too attached, my trust issues are getting in the way here or my gut is right and she has some kind of ulterior motive. Though there is some male friend she had she told me she used to string along/friend zone and essentially he asked her to help him with the wedding to his wife, I got to tell her to dead that shyt which I didn't tell her when she first mentioned it because I didn't wanna come off insecure but fukk that.
 

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I don't live with her! Y'all really gonna have to read my prior post to get the full story.

She said after a year and a half she would be open to living together or just spoke about in a future tense. I probably wouldn't do it that soon but tbh if I am going to marry a woman or she was marriage material I would wanna live with her eventually because that's how you see what someone is really like. I wouldn't do it after a year and a half of dating but if we ever got in a space where marriage was seriously on the table and I was thinking about engaging to her I would move in with her to see if marriage life would be worth it.

The bigger question I have is I'm iffy on her and wonder if I should tell her or just see how things develop. Either I'm too attached, my trust issues are getting in the way here or my gut is right and she has some kind of ulterior motive. Though there is some male friend she had she told me she used to string along/friend zone and essentially he asked her to help him with the wedding to his wife, I got to tell her to dead that shyt which I didn't tell her when she first mentioned it because I didn't wanna come off insecure but fukk that.


Breh you a grown man and letting this woman play you like a ps5

:russ::russ::russ::russ:

the simple fact you have to type all this you are in over your head and need to end this because
You are going to hurt yourself.

you this invested in a woman who isnt your wife nor has your child
 

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I don't live with her! Y'all really gonna have to read my prior post to get the full story.

She said after a year and a half she would be open to living together or just spoke about in a future tense. I probably wouldn't do it that soon but tbh if I am going to marry a woman or she was marriage material I would wanna live with her eventually because that's how you see what someone is really like. I wouldn't do it after a year and a half of dating but if we ever got in a space where marriage was seriously on the table and I was thinking about engaging to her I would move in with her to see if marriage life would be worth it.

The bigger question I have is I'm iffy on her and wonder if I should tell her or just see how things develop. Either I'm too attached, my trust issues are getting in the way here or my gut is right and she has some kind of ulterior motive. Though there is some male friend she had she told me she used to string along/friend zone and essentially he asked her to help him with the wedding to his wife, I got to tell her to dead that shyt which I didn't tell her when she first mentioned it because I didn't wanna come off insecure but fukk that.
shyt is confusing:

  • You are iffy for no real reason it seems
  • You are “serious” but it’s only been five months
  • Already had cheating drama
 

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shyt is confusing:

  • You are iffy for no real reason it seems
  • You are “serious” but it’s only been five months
  • Already had cheating drama

I'm Iffy cause my gut is telling me she may be cheating too or has some kind of hidden motive but I don't have proof. I really can't explain it other then a lack of passion between us.

Now we are serious in the sense that we agreed to be in a committed relationship and she brings up wanting a future with me and that's what I mean to be clear. What happened as far as the cheating was a few weeks ago I had forgot my smart watch in her home and she saw the messages from other women on it. To make a long story short she was upset about it to the point of tears and we are working on rebuilding trust but it hurt her a lot. Since the day she found my watch my birthday happened and she went all out for me in spite of the cheating happening. Currently she is still bothered by the fact I cheated as she makes mention of it triggering her whenever I touch my phone but we reached a point where we can joke on it a little.

shyt ain't confusing breh. As I said before I'm gonna fall back and not take her so serious, just take it easy and keep my options open again.
 

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I'm Iffy cause my gut is telling me she may be cheating too or has some kind of hidden motive but I don't have proof. I really can't explain it other then a lack of passion between us.

Now we are serious in the sense that we agreed to be in a committed relationship and she brings up wanting a future with me and that's what I mean to be clear. What happened as far as the cheating was a few weeks ago I had forgot my smart watch in her home and she saw the messages from other women on it. To make a long story short she was upset about it to the point of tears and we are working on rebuilding trust but it hurt her a lot. Since the day she found my watch my birthday happened and she went all out for me in spite of the cheating happening. Currently she is still bothered by the fact I cheated as she makes mention of it triggering her whenever I touch my phone but we reached a point where we can joke on it a little.

shyt ain't confusing breh. As I said before I'm gonna fall back and not take her so serious, just take it easy and keep my options open again.

breh you enjoy the drama, just admit it
 

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Now that girl I met on the Sugar baby website wants to Netflix and Chill at her place however my intuition says no.

I think she going to use her p*ssy to rope me in to pay bills (which what her previous man did)

Or she will not give me any attention and lead me on for more Netflix and chill.

Women shouldn’t be so quick to leave their man who pay their bills because they find in they are not exclusive.

obviously that's what shes looking for

save your money and travel
 

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I'm Iffy cause my gut is telling me she may be cheating too or has some kind of hidden motive but I don't have proof. I really can't explain it other then a lack of passion between us.

Now we are serious in the sense that we agreed to be in a committed relationship and she brings up wanting a future with me and that's what I mean to be clear. What happened as far as the cheating was a few weeks ago I had forgot my smart watch in her home and she saw the messages from other women on it. To make a long story short she was upset about it to the point of tears and we are working on rebuilding trust but it hurt her a lot. Since the day she found my watch my birthday happened and she went all out for me in spite of the cheating happening. Currently she is still bothered by the fact I cheated as she makes mention of it triggering her whenever I touch my phone but we reached a point where we can joke on it a little.

shyt ain't confusing breh. As I said before I'm gonna fall back and not take her so serious, just take it easy and keep my options open again.

breh life is to short for all this stress.

If you're not married to someone and you cheated or they cheated run. They will never fully trust you, will bring it up and it will just cause stress. Always better for a clean slate .

As I always say life is too short for all these stressors. Way too many single women out there that you have zero history with and can start from scratch
 

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breh life is to short for all this stress.

If you're not married to someone and you cheated or they cheated run. They will never fully trust you, will bring it up and it will just cause stress. Always better for a clean slate .

As I always say life is too short for all these stressors. Way too many single women out there that you have zero history with and can start from scratch

like i said before, when dudes typing long post about women they arent married to or dont have a kid with, they enjoy the drama OR they are in a scarcity mindset. Dudes doing all this for chicks that will bounce the moment someone of higher status comes in her life, and if she is someone who wouldnt them yall should be married (which isnt the case)
 

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I'm Iffy cause my gut is telling me she may be cheating too or has some kind of hidden motive but I don't have proof. I really can't explain it other then a lack of passion between us.

Now we are serious in the sense that we agreed to be in a committed relationship and she brings up wanting a future with me and that's what I mean to be clear. What happened as far as the cheating was a few weeks ago I had forgot my smart watch in her home and she saw the messages from other women on it. To make a long story short she was upset about it to the point of tears and we are working on rebuilding trust but it hurt her a lot. Since the day she found my watch my birthday happened and she went all out for me in spite of the cheating happening. Currently she is still bothered by the fact I cheated as she makes mention of it triggering her whenever I touch my phone but we reached a point where we can joke on it a little.

shyt ain't confusing breh. As I said before I'm gonna fall back and not take her so serious, just take it easy and keep my options open again.
Honestly sounds like a problem you mostly created.

Bigger than that it’s pretty clear you aren’t really into her. Just cut it off and move on.
 

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like i said before, when dudes typing long post about women they arent married to or dont have a kid with, they enjoy the drama OR they are in a scarcity mindset. Dudes doing all this for chicks that will bounce the moment someone of higher status comes in her life, and if she is someone who wouldnt them yall should be married (which isnt the case)

Yup, what they need to do is cut ties.

One thing that I've been reminded of recently even at the age of 36 these past few weeks, none of these chicks are special, they are a dime a dozen. The only difference between the chick you "love, lust" and some other random broad is just the time you've spent with her.
 

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A woman who I know a minister is introducing me to her daughter. Basically shrugged her off but when she sent ne a photo of her I literally did a :krs: face Daughter lives out of state.Ol girl the truth,but our convos have been sporadic .Phone convo was good but short. I rarely let women introduce me to their daughters. This one I feel is worth it. But 1st convo on some let me call you back has me wondering .Im optimistic but im gonna fall back.
 
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