Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I mean you was getting off the elevator. Why go to the first floor and ask a desk person when you can go directly to the 3rd floor? (If it was on the 3rd).

You did say yall locked eyes so maybe she was choosing.
People don't lock eyes with unattractive people.
:yeshrug:

I bet you didnt lock eyes with the elderly woman
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Yeah true. shyt bugs me out trying to figure out those little micro encounters.
 

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He sounds like a square, which happens a lot. Women like her also know the game and will mark him out easily. He also doesn't seem to be putting forth parameters...or any standards. I would've told her flat out "You pick the place, and we'll go half, next place I got"....would literally just take her to a cafe...coffee is cheap and fancy, if you can't get anything started over coffee, steak and the Maine Lobster aren't gonna do any better.

Its like he tryna "wow" her.
Smh
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I've been posting enough, damn near dropping essay's but a lot of squares out there. Gotta handle it case by case. How many times am I gonna post;

"Be awesome be agendaless, be gone"

"Live a life well lived, women are always the byproduct of it"

"Chase excellence"

etc.

It really is that simple, but brehs always get caught up from a pretty face and a smile
:francis:

And forget everything else


But as my moms used to say if you “don’t wanna learn then you’ll feel “
 

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bytches are stupid….

one they think u gona ask for nudes after
2) if drake asked her for pics she would send them asap


I tell any bytch if u cant do simple shyt why would i wana date u?

:dwillhuh:Why converse with a Bih that has no profile pic in the first place?

Facts but funny shyt is she had pics of her body up. Let's just say it was an adult site I met her on. We spoke for awhile she gave me her number and then I asked to see what she actually looked like and she asked me to send a pic first.

In my mind I was like it's a wrap I can already tell the she was a headache and uncooperative but looking back first red flag was she was in her 30's and told me she never had a real relationship due to being introverted. Truth is she probably just a real pain and awkward to be around.
 

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She told me last week she was heading out to this B Day so i been known

Anyway she told me she decided to not to go out for her friends B Day. This was after i let her know that she could holla at me later that night when she leaves as i was close by.

She hit me with that "I fell alseep" playbook when she texted me back 9 hours after i had told her that.

I don't have a gut feeling that she's messing on the side but i've already seen this situation play out before.

One thing i do know is that she didn't wanna see me that day. :yeshrug:
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Anybody can help me out with this?

I know it’s a numbers game but I usually cold approach 5 or so women every night I go out.

But I swear it’s like these women aren’t trying to hear me :francis:

I always get the usual “yeah, uh huh, oh my friends over there bye” stuff. Or they’ll be half listening to what I’m saying on their phone or something.

This shyt is hard as hell, who here is good with meeting women at bars and clubs?
 

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Anybody can help me out with this?

I know it’s a numbers game but I usually cold approach 5 or so women every night I go out.

But I swear it’s like these women aren’t trying to hear me :francis:

I always get the usual “yeah, uh huh, oh my friends over there bye” stuff. Or they’ll be half listening to what I’m saying on their phone or something.

This shyt is hard as hell, who here is good with meeting women at bars and clubs?

I actually had good moments with the nightclub vibe...

Proper posture
Slow walk
Head up
Eyes up
Deep breathing

This before you even get started...

Sometimes you gotta walk thru the venue and then vibe for a bit before you make your maneuvers...

Nightclub is controlled adrenaline...

Your "opener" gotta be strong and confident...
 

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@Dr.Omega i like you breh. You one of the horror family. But you gotta get away from that hoe. She’s not a good person, And you keep rewarding her bad behavior.
The more I think about it the more I start to see things from your perspective. She was clearly up to something when she decided to cheat on her husband in the first place I don't know why the fuk I'm not seeing that. She started getting real chummy with this dude from my past that I just cannot fukking stand and I told her about how he was at one point married to my sister and he fukked up the marriage by cheating. I said what's that about? she said "what's what about? You're not my husband you don't tell me what to do we work together and it's all we do and blah blah blah I'm not cutting off ties with him because we work together" she got real confrontational I don't know why the fuk I didn't just cut it off right there or give her a piece of my mind right then and there but thinking about it now yeah I'm glad I Leaked those chats. let that bytch suffer.
 

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I actually had good moments with the nightclub vibe...

Proper posture
Slow walk
Head up
Eyes up
Deep breathing

This before you even get started...

Sometimes you gotta walk thru the venue and then vibe for a bit before you make your maneuvers...

Nightclub is controlled adrenaline...

Your "opener" gotta be strong and confident...
Trust I’m always fresh when I go out, groomed well, nails cut, cologne on, tailored clothes etc.

I usually walk through at my own pace, standing up tall, checking things out.

But damn if a nightclub ain’t the hardest venue for me to talk in. I don’t have a super powerful voice so I usually tap em on the shoulder if they’re standing at the bar. But then they either can’t hear me or we’re yelling at each other over the music. Shyt fizzles out real fast.

And if they’re dancing it’s even worse. 9/10 I’m getting straight ignored. I’ve even had it where the entire group dips in unison like a school of fish with that hand holding thing they do:russ:


What’s your tips on a strong opener? I’m tryna stop em dead in the tracks. How do you get their attention and make em pay attention to you?

I usually say “that’s a nice outfit” or something along the lines of “happy Friday, what are you getting into tn”
 
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